Why can't you find a girlfriend?

Not long ago, a friend asked me to introduce someone. This must be promised. Parents often say that people have to be introduced to three couples in this life to make amends. In addition, it is also a good thing to meet the right people and introduce them. So I asked him what he wanted. According to my impression of him, I should say, "almost."

What he said surprised me. He said he wanted someone who was 25-28 years old, weighed 90- 1 10 and was thin, regardless of height. He is above average in appearance, at least better looking than him. His parents are both workers or intellectuals. The key point is that he also requires constellations: Cancer, Scorpio and Libra are the best, followed by Virgo, Gemini and Aquarius. At that time, I wanted to say that a man still believes in constellations. Probably the girl in the picture below:

After he finished the terms, I told him without hesitation that you can't find a girlfriend like this. Because this friend was born in 1983, and now he is 35 years old. He is not bad in height, but a little fat (not a little).

On the other hand, it can also be said that he knows what he wants, thus avoiding unnecessary blind date. But he didn't consider his own conditions. I'm afraid that girls who meet his requirements will look down on him. Although his family conditions are good, there are better people everywhere in this society.

Is it difficult to find a girlfriend? Actually, it's not difficult. When others introduce us, we may have some conditions and refuse to meet them. In fact, you may have missed many good girls because of these conditions. When you like someone, all conditions are not conditions.

I remember my boyfriend once told me that I was the opposite of his imaginary girlfriend, but I couldn't help it. If I like it, I like it. Really together only to find that those conditions can only be conditions. When I fall in love, I know that the problems I imagined before are no longer problems.

The reason why that friend can't find a girlfriend is probably because he doesn't know his own conditions, but he still asks others to meet what standards, which forms a vicious circle. Girls who meet his requirements despise him, and girls who don't meet his requirements are rejected by pass.