How long does it take to confirm the relationship after blind date?

After the blind date, we get along more happily. Those who have a good impression on each other will continue to develop. Blind date is different from ordinary love. Many blind date men and women are skeptical about how long it will take to determine the relationship after blind date.

How long does it take to confirm the relationship after blind date?

From blind date to true love is the most ambiguous time, that is, the period of communication in the middle; You can't even be friends, you can also say that this period is an observation period, almost one to three months. During this one to three-month inspection, you must make progress, and you must make a breakthrough. If you can't enter the love stage smoothly, you can only end it slowly and continue the next blind date. Therefore, we should make progress and breakthrough in the ambiguous period of intermediate communication and enter the real love stage; Countless people fell in this relationship; This period is also a crucial period for the success of blind date.

How long can blind date hold hands?

Holding hands is not only the establishment of the relationship between two people, but also the active performance of the man, which represents the mutual recognition between you to a certain extent. Don't take care of yourself unilaterally, but also observe each other's performance in communication. If you both have a good impression on each other and there is basically no problem with the direction, then find the right opportunity, such as crossing the road and directly holding her hand to cross the road. After a few times, naturally, when walking, hands will be held together ~ there is no time limit for holding hands, but personal advice is not too early, let alone meeting, which will leave a frivolous impression on both sides. No wonder you still understand why you are holding hands.

The difference between blind date and ordinary love

1, blind date is more straightforward.

The biggest feature of blind date is to talk about each other's conditions at the best, continue if it is suitable, pass if it is not suitable, and change to the next one. Blind date itself is utilitarian. The prime minister's blind date depends on whether the conditions of both parties are suitable, mostly for the purpose of marriage. Unlike ordinary love, ordinary love spends less time together. Compared with ordinary love, blind date pays more attention to the purpose, and the purpose is to get married. Free love pays attention to the process of love, and marriage is mostly taken for granted.

2. The mode of blind date is different from ordinary love.

Blind date doesn't spend so much time together like love, and the two sides don't gradually deepen their understanding like ordinary love. They usually come straight to the point and get along when they feel it. If you have a good impression on the blind date, you will also agree on a relationship. The advantage of dating together is that the two sides are relatively independent, which includes economic conditions, personality, thoughts, values and so on.

I don't like how to refuse after blind date.

1, I don't like to refuse for the first time after blind date.

Generally, blind date is to leave a phone number after meeting in a hurry, and then contact each other when they go back to work. However, if you think there is no possibility for the two of you to develop, and the other person is not your type at all, then you must call him at the first time to refuse. Don't procrastinate, or you will waste both sides' time and hurt each other in disguise.

2. I don't like to keep a clear attitude after blind date.

Just because you don't like someone after a blind date doesn't mean that person doesn't like you. If the other person really likes you, he may not give up because of your rejection once or twice. I usually call you from time to time. Even if you refuse, I will use circuitous tactics, such as making friends and chatting with you on WeChat. After a while, he seems to forget that you turned him down and started harassing him again. So, if you really don't like it, you must express your meaning clearly again to avoid misunderstanding.

3. Don't like or refuse to answer the phone or reply to messages after blind date.

Sometimes you don't like him, but he has a good impression on you and will send you a message and call you enthusiastically, hoping to keep in touch and further develop. However, if you don't mean it at all, but you don't answer the phone at all, it is very immature. This is impolite, at the same time, it makes people feel that you are lofty and conceited, and it is not good to spread it to family and friends.

Ps: I've made such a mistake. I didn't like him at that time. I thought he was so annoying, so I blacked him out, didn't answer the phone, and didn't send text messages. Later, the man asked me what was going on through my friend. Seriously, it was embarrassing at the time, and it was really wrong to think about it afterwards.

Be careful when you refuse to talk when you don't like it after blind date.

Although I don't like being given a "good friend card", it is undeniable to send a "good friend card" when refusing others. Although it is a refusal, it should be clear that it is not because the other party is not good, but because two people are not suitable or other objective reasons. You must not say anything hurtful, such as being too short, ugly and poor at home. Maybe people will look at you in the same way.

5. If you don't like it after blind date, you'd better ask it out alone and refuse.

If it is a blind date with both relatives and friends present, even if you don't like it, it is not recommended to refuse it immediately on the spot. This will make the other party lose face and refute the face of friends. You'd better ask him out politely and clearly afterwards. Of course, if it is a single date, if you don't like it at that time, you can make it clear at that time, and there is no need to wait until afterwards. Of course, pay attention to the wording when you make it clear at that time.

6. Be polite if you don't like it after blind date.

I believe that most people will not fall in love with each other at the first meeting. Similarly, even if they don't think that most people probably won't flatly refuse, after all, the blind date should leave some room when she reaches marriageable age. Therefore, if you don't like your blind date, it doesn't matter if the other person politely gives you a phone number first. If you really don't feel it, it doesn't matter if you politely refuse immediately.