Why do people who love to worry often suffer?

People who love to worry are actually very wronged: obviously they really care, obviously they are really responsible, obviously they really care, obviously they really love, so they will take great pains. So that my face is wrinkled, my hair is gray, my heart is broken, and I still enjoy it. What you can get is not obedience or gratitude, but disgust, disgust and even disgust. The real pain is thankless!

Sometimes, for a person, you obviously love him out of concern, but because of your aggressive attitude, you hurt him as soon as you open your mouth; Sometimes, for one thing, you are obviously responsible, obviously out of kindness, but because of your constant nagging and complaining, a good thing becomes a bad thing. You rely on chanting, yelling, swearing and losing your temper. You even use the status of elder or leader to force others to do things your way, which will not only fail to achieve your ideal goal, but also cause invisible pressure and make people feel rebellious. What we really should do is to shut up and express your concern and worry with practical actions. A quiet way of worrying about things will be acceptable.

People who love to worry like to treat everyone as children who have not grown up. They always feel that others can't do better than themselves. They are very meticulous in everything they do, interfering, controlling and even coercing people regardless of the object and occasion, which makes them suffocate and flee. Everyone has self-esteem to protect. People who are worried have the mentality of not being trusted, looked down upon and looked down upon. Your excessive worry will aggravate others' protection of self-esteem. Worry should pay attention to methods, worry should be moderate, can be methodical, and can lift weights easily. The best state of worry is that it is better to walk around than to plan.

People who worry a lot always put their hearts full. It's none of your business, other people's business, worry about it in your heart; Things that have passed are buried in my heart and still in my heart; Things that cannot be changed, stuck in my heart, stubbornly want to change. When others don't cooperate, or things don't go well, they think the consequences are very serious, causing frustration and anxiety, making themselves like a powder keg, which will be ignited and exploded carelessly. You hurt yourself and others! So do what you should worry about, not what you shouldn't worry about. If you don't worry, others may be better off. You have to believe that the earth will turn around without anyone.

Love is love, a warm, relaxed and beautiful feeling, not other variants of worry, anxiety, threat and control. May we truly love each other in all relationships and let go of unnecessary troubles. Love, support, trust and encouragement are enough!