What constellations make quarrelling with lovers very rational?

Secret sharing: pay attention to "leaving room" anytime and anywhere, and you can't say everything. Virgo people have a proud side in their personality, and they pay great attention to discretion in front of outsiders and their own people. This is not only for each other's face, but also for taking a step back. In other words, people in this constellation are always a little afraid of confrontation, so they can hide. This tendency is also obvious when two people quarrel.

In other words, Virgo is usually not the one who will take the initiative to stir up disputes. When you have to face the conflict directly, Virgo will be more stable and less aggressive when clarifying his point of view. In the choice of words, it will not be too extreme and sharp. This cautious and rational attitude not only helps to resolve contradictions, but also helps to repair the feelings of two people after the storm has passed. Of course, this does not mean that they will blindly give in and have no bottom line. On the contrary, Virgo's principles are tough, but usually hidden.

Second place: Pisces

Secret sharing: you can advance and retreat freely and control the "lethality" within the acceptable range of the other party.

Pisces people can easily leave a "gentle" impression. Because this aura is not naturally shaped, it is more natural, so this kind of consideration for others will always be shown.

Even when arguing with your partner, unless you are out of control because of excessive anger, Pisces will carefully consider its own wording and point of view even if it expresses dissatisfaction, and realize the effectiveness of communication by choosing a way that is more acceptable to the other party-to put it bluntly, trying to make what it says be heard by the other party.

Third place: Libra

Secret sharing: you can consider the problem from the other side's point of view, and you won't be unreasonable.

Libra people really have a fight with Pisces in terms of sense of speech and emotion. Although this constellation is not like Pisces, it is naturally used to taking each other's emotions and feelings as the starting point of their words and deeds; But at least he is also good at recognizing other people's emotional signals, so as to help him judge "what to do next" through these details, so as to effectively achieve the expected communication effect.

When quarreling, even if the scene is in full swing, Libra's heart is always clear. Libra, after all, is a rationalist and knows that "compressing" the problem to a minimum is the most appropriate solution. In order to achieve this goal, they will take the initiative to think from each other's point of view and judge the reasons for each other's words and deeds from each other's point of view.

This kind of thinking from the perspective of putting yourself in the other's shoes can undoubtedly avoid misunderstandings in communication to a great extent; And this advantage also makes Libra have the impression of being "reasonable" and "having something to say" in the mind of your partner. This impression also helps Libra to get the cooperation of partner's attitude when there is a dispute, and help solve the contradiction more effectively.