Who's Xu Wenting with? Which university is Xu Wenting undergraduate (personal information)

The first issue of "I haven't been in love" was broadcast on March 2, and everyone really hasn't been in love. Xu Wenting turned the blind date into a press conference. At first, it was awkward for two people to chat, and then slowly Xu Wenting showed his superb chat control ability. Some netizens said:? Wen Ting is really a high-quality girl, educated in a harmonious and friendly family. She is not too self-centered and aggressive, but she is cautious and deserves to meet a good boy. .

It is reported that Xu Wenting was born in 1998 and is 24 years old. He is a graduate student in the Law Department of China University of Political Science and Law, and he is a graduate student. His undergraduate course should also be in the Law Department of China University of Political Science and Law.

The program has just begun. It is not sure who Xu Wenting will be with, but Bian Xiao thinks it is unlikely to be with Mao Longren. He felt that Mao was not sincere enough to Long Ren. There is also a saying that he talked about three girlfriends.

Finally, let's take a look at "We've never talked about love" and talk about how Xu Wenting deals with embarrassment in social interaction (@ 么么么么么么么么么么么么么么么么么).

1, Mao He was embarrassed when they met and didn't know what to say. They stood pacing in the farthest corner of the room. At this time, the real problem to be solved is not what to talk about, because generally speaking, it is not so difficult to find a topic that can be talked hard, and it is really impossible to communicate their respective situations. The key is that the mood and atmosphere should make people relax, and the atmosphere can talk about what is appropriate.

The embarrassment at this time is that everyone is not familiar with each other's temper and personality. They are all afraid of saying something wrong and being misunderstood, so they are careful to find a safe breakthrough.

So at this time, we should use some small moves to break the chain of suspicion, that is, take the initiative to show kindness and expose ourselves moderately. Take the initiative to tell Mao that he can look on the bookshelf, where there are many interesting books. Hearing this, Mao Longren beamed with joy, because he knew what was going on. It turned out that the two sides could communicate friendly, so he broke the embarrassment and could speak. Maybe he has the initiative.

In this case, you can also take the initiative to do some small things for each other at the moment.

2, but Mao still didn't know how to speak, so after solving the mood and atmosphere, he began to ask about sex. It doesn't matter what he says at this time, just as an introduction. So I asked him where he lived. Mao said that he lived on the mountain, and then showed interest, and the topic opened. Mao said it was so stormy. Xu Wenting continued to affirm each other and said to the sea, this is really beautiful. Then Mao confidently began to take the initiative to speak to Long Ren. What is solved here is the confidence of the other party.

When Mao asked where his home was, he didn't give a normal answer, but let the other person guess. This makes sense, because sometimes people just ask and answer questions and talk to death, and then the topic is broken. So after the other person speaks, you should learn to return the topic to the other person and turn a single question into a dialogue. Here it becomes a process of constantly guessing and slowly guiding the other party to find the answer, and it is also a process from strangeness to familiarity. Later, we started talking about each other's majors and found that they were all studying law, so we became familiar.

Therefore, the key to solving this embarrassment is never to be self-centered. Once you do this, you will lose your ability to observe and become overly sensitive. Many people think that being sensitive means feeling a lot. It's actually wrong. Sensitivity is more about thinking. Only by calming down and observing can we get real feedback. Therefore, people who are overly sensitive must find out whether the sensitivity you believed in the past is really the truth.

Although she is thinking, she has been observing Mao and analyzing according to the information she has observed, so she can solve practical problems. If she is not observing, but sensitively feels that the other person doesn't like herself, she will start to go online and completely lose observation. Brain tonic is carried out at a wrong starting point.