How to make yourself give up and leave love rat completely?

If a woman wants to leave love rat completely, she must be hard on herself, have the idea of surviving by breaking the tail, have the ability to break up, dare to leave and lose in time.

It will be painful to find out that it is love rat, but there are still some women who can't get out in time. This is because:

First, psychological dependence.

Although love rat is a scum, he does have some advantages that attract you. Aren't you attracted by his advantages? After getting along, it is not easy to get out of a habit and have psychological dependence on love rat. You are used to the pain of two people together more than the loneliness of one person, or you think that your world will collapse without him, and you are afraid to face the consequences of leaving.

Because psychological dependence on each other will amplify the consequences of leaving, and it will also make you feel anxious and even more afraid of leaving him.

In view of this dependence, what we have to do is to make our spirit rich and independent, to have the courage to let go, not to hand over our fate to others, and to be our own masters.

Second, fear of retaliation.

When love rat is divided, there may be revenge. Many women are afraid of being threatened when they break up. Love rat will try to stop women from leaving him by saying things like killing your family. After really leaving, some love rat will take revenge. Last time, a man broke up and burned himself and his ex-girlfriend with gasoline. It looks really terrible.

If you are afraid, you can disappear by yourself, disappear from the world of love rat and start a new life in a place unknown to your mutual friends.

Finally, I lost the ability to love people.

After living with love rat for a long time, I will be afraid to get along with others, and my anxiety and uneasiness will always go hand in hand, and I will feel desperate about my life. At this time, I will lose my ability to love and enjoy life, and I will not be interested in anything.

Meeting love rat is not terrible, but we should have the courage to leave, learn to grow, sum up lessons, cultivate our own pattern, enrich our own experience, achieve better ourselves and start a better life again.