What is the psychology of those girls who like uncle in the circle?

The previous author talked about those "","in dom/sub. Today we will talk about "Uncle Kong"!

Uncle Kong explained: Uncle Kong refers to a woman who especially likes reliable and mature men. Most of these women have similar personality characteristics, that is, naivety, and they don't feel much about naive and immature men.

The word "big uncle control" and the group have a long history. In life, there are many girls who like uncles, and there are also girls who are controlled by uncles in the circle. When I first entered the circle, I also met a girl who was controlled by a great uncle. When you see my photo, tell me I'm not mature enough. She likes uncle! At that time, the author was still very curious. Does dom/sub also have a big uncle? In the later contact and understanding, I really found that there are quite a few girls in the circle who are keen on big uncle control, and they are mainly expressed by attributes! Then people really want to know the psychology of those girls who like uncles in the circle.

In order to find out, let's take a look at other netizens' views on Uncle Kong:

Netizen A's answer: "First of all, understand what the definition of uncle is!" Not the middle-aged man with a beer belly, baldness and greasy, but those with well-managed figure, mature charm, high quality speech and certain economic reserves. Such talents are worthy of being uncles in the eyes of girls. First of all, we should know what uncle means, and then analyze the reasons why girls like uncle.

1 The influence of family background and childhood factors Many girls are spoiled by their parents, especially their fathers, resulting in a more or less complex of loving their fathers. However, similar boys, because of their lack of experience and knowledge and their own youthful characteristics, are also children, which makes it difficult to satisfy the psychology of girls, and uncle's own experience and charm after working hard in society often conform to this complex of girls, so many girls like to be older than themselves or be controlled by uncle.

2 Satisfying the sense of security Women have always been a group that needs protection. When choosing lovers, women often prefer people who can give her more security. In today's society, the sense of security is not limited to material things. Care, trust, care, sense of humor, maturity and so on form the so-called sense of security. Compared with boys of the same age, these mature uncles are more reliable or can better meet women's needs for security, which is also the reason why many girls become bigger.

3 conformity psychology may be ambiguous, but this reason does exist. I don't know when, uncle control has become a new trend. In order to keep up with the trend, many girls follow suit. In fact, they don't like uncle that much, but they don't follow the trend and feel low.

4 TV dramas and the popularity of many uncle-level actors In recent years, a group of uncles such as Chen and others have become popular again. The personal charm and personality characteristics of mature men created in TV dramas have attracted groups of girls. In fact, if you are a greasy uncle in reality, I believe this problem will not exist.

5 uncles are more reliable than their peers. Although the uncles on the screen are over-beautified, the uncles in life are indeed much more reliable than the uncles in spring. After social experience and time washing, uncles are stable and exude the charm of mature men. Such a man has lost the habit of being clumsy and unreliable, and he is capable and reliable. I think such an uncle is not only the first choice for young girls, but also at work.

6 I feel tired and don't love, and then attack my uncle. Many girls don't like my uncle at first, but after chatting with their peers several times, they find that they are too tired to talk with their peers, and they feel tired and don't love. At this time, they will coax women, but they will not be obsessed with women, and they can help women in their career or life. At this time, their peers can no longer meet their mate selection criteria, so they gradually become uncles.

In fact, if the image of uncle is replaced by the image of a greasy middle-aged man without economic reserves, this problem will disappear automatically. However, if it is reliable and knows how to take care of girls, it is sophisticated and exudes mature charm, not to mention that girls will be infatuated with such people, even I am almost moved. And those girls who are controlled by uncles only see one-sided advantages and choose to ignore those more real uncles. "

Netizen b's answer:

"Nowadays, most girls are more realistic, and now boys always give people a feeling of immaturity, unreality and insecurity. Analyze the advantages of uncle.

Uncle is very mature in all aspects, such as money, looks, ways of doing things, principles of being a man and so on.

Boys, on the other hand, are still naive in character, heart, behavior and work.

Girls like to be more stable, have no pressure, and can laugh and play. There is no bondage in life and psychological satisfaction. Therefore, male uncles can't compete with girls who want to live a plain life. . "

The above is the analysis of other netizens on why girls like uncles. I think some women in the circle like uncle because he is gentle, calm, connotative and financially capable. Uncle is born with the temperament of ace! "

I have a friend who liked an uncle when he was young. In his love, he naively thought that he, like countless girls, caught a glimpse of the end of this life. In fact, this relationship eventually cooled quickly without her emotional response. Why? Because the demands are different.

That's right. The uncles have experience, experienced storms, and have no recklessness and impulsiveness of little boys. They have the skills and means to buy you a bag to make you happy. He knows what you are thinking when you move your eyebrows. Look at the skirt in the counter of the mall, and he will take you to swipe your card immediately.

They are mature, elegant, patient and skilled. The biggest difference between them and the reckless little boy is that even if he can tell Wang Xiaobo's love words, they have no temperature in their eyes and will not love others, and their inner enthusiasm has long been extinguished.

They will give you care, love and worship, but the only thing they won't give you is love and marriage.

In the love letter, the big gambler Tang Wei met in Macau casino is like an old man in real life. He will tell warm-hearted love stories, gently touch your head and listen to your difficult situation. He will also recognize you in his mouth, encourage you and take you to do romantic things between lovers. It looks perfect. Grandpa Jiao, who was 15 years old with a machete, was also emotional. She said in her heart that it might be him.

But what did Wu Xiubo say? He advised her not to talk about feelings with him and think of others.

Tang Wei owes millions of gambling debts, and the big gambler behind him said that one million is not much. I'll give you the full amount in five days, and 200 thousand will be taken first

Tang Wei was at a loss for a moment, and these days' getting along turned into a deal in his eyes, which was really unbearable. So she took the money and went to the casino to rummage. When she comes back, throw the money on his desk and give it back to you. From then on, the two were even.

The old man is capable, and he will be nice to you in a decent way. He is greedy for the young body and is willing to pay attention to it. Only in his eyes, these are just financial transactions, but you regard them as love. The starting point is different. You are doomed to get hurt.

Compared with old people, which is better for girls depends on what girls want. If a girl wants money and wants to be conquered, an old man is certainly better. If girls are looking for old people, they can improve themselves even more, and their ability to treat people is as high as that of their peers. An old man is also a good choice.

Mature people are almost perfect. The closer you get, the more you can understand why these people can be rich, be officials, have fans on one side, and be responsive in one place. It looks really perfect. An old man with small achievements, how did he get to this position? He is fierce and tough, and he has gone through all kinds of jungles to fight for it. From the top of the mountain at the end of the black forest, he looks at the starting point of life at the other end of the black forest, and he will smile. That is the glory of his own exploration and efforts. This kind of glory will eventually become his confidence in calmly facing all kinds of difficulties and obstacles in the future. It's easy to look down on you unconsciously. If you come near, he will allow it. If you need guidance, he will. He will guide a path he has experienced and lead you to him. What do you think you are in his heart when you come and stand in front of him? The little white rabbit who can meet him because of his kindness? Or an equal object at the spiritual level? Do you believe from the bottom of your heart that he will treat you equally?

Jong said the king could not be trusted.

Besides, in a healthy relationship, equality is a good foundation to continue. Without an equal relationship, your chances of happiness are too low. They know what they want from you and what they don't want. They know how to manipulate your opinions and ideas. They will easily and subtly transform you and turn you into a doll that he can make at will.

With an old man, he will let you live the life he designed for you according to many of his plans. What kind of person you will become depends on what kind of person he wants you to become.

Remember Gao? His beautiful young wife/kloc-married him at the age of 0/8 and divorced a few years later. Gao said that I shaped her world outlook and she inherited many advanced aesthetics from me.

He is proud of making her the person he likes rather than himself. Don't believe that in front of old men, everything is not up to you.

To sum up, if you want a lot of love, then fall in love with young boys; If you want more consideration and financial assistance, find an old man. Everything depends on your needs and wishes.

I hope you have high heels and running shoes, and drink tea and wine.

I hope you have independent and brave friends and high-spirited opponents.

I hope you have deep feelings for the past, but if you make up your mind, you won't look back.

I hope you stick to your ideal, but there is no urgency at present.

I hope you are especially beautiful, especially dare, especially gentle and cruel.

I hope you look handsome in a suit, and you are upset that someone is drinking with a rope.

I hope you will persevere in your struggle for your ideal and have the courage to start again.

I hope you live a quiet life, but you will never settle for it.

I hope you are proud, but also full of compassion.

I hope you work hard, be precise, free and easy, and be steady.