Three Views on Fragility (Wendy Wang's topic leads to problems)

Not afraid of dirty, not afraid of tired, the fundamental reason is that you have to, you have no choice, this is a responsibility, this is a must, and upgrading it to "virtue" is hypocritical and bad anti-humanity.

The whole life is a long process from beginning to end, consisting of fragments ranging from three years, five years and ten years.

In every segment of my life, I am personally result-oriented, and the secular definition of "bitterness and tiredness" is only the external presentation in the process of realizing my ambition, not the core purpose.

As far as the present situation is concerned, the characteristics of the elements in the system of "I" are the result of the comprehensive action of the roads I have traveled, the people I have met and "I" myself. Everything in the process, collision, crushing, impact and precipitation, gradually becomes a personality, which is the result, and it acts on me at this moment and later.

Simply emphasizing that the process should be hard and simple, while ignoring the time cost and psychological cost, leads to low efficiency of task completion and shrinking comprehensive income, which has no practical significance.

2. Be wary of touching yourself at will. Reason: Take reading as an example. If you are moved by work, you may waste time and make mistakes. Just because the program moved, you lied to yourself.

It must be admitted that occasionally doing a "good thing" defined by the secular has helped others and given me some inner satisfaction. This satisfaction is fed back to the "I" system, which is not "selfless".

Candy and slap are real, and sweet words and fists can't cancel each other out. Just as mistakes cannot be erased.

5. stingy and unwilling to share. Adults can only talk, you should give way, you should not argue. Not that if you share, you will get more and more precious things.

Share this and do it with people who understand. "Sharing" is just a means. If you can't give each other satisfaction, it's just a form. Why bother?

And some things and fields, involving borders and rights, are within my view and ability. If you are weak, you can only be slaughtered. )

6. Sincerity and transparency within certain limits in the relationship. As I once said, I personally don't like guessing riddles in my feelings. I like to express each other's demands directly and sincerely.

When I watch Ode to Joy, most of the girls around me don't like singularity. There are many reasons. The characters are scheming, unloving, even selfish, and most importantly, not handsome.

I've always liked this role. The true self, reserved, partly clear and frank, looks peaceful.

In Ode to Joy, Andy talks to Singularity that night, which is my favorite plot. I have always felt that it is a special pleasure to chat freely all night. He is mature, patient and sincere, which makes you feel at ease to take off your underwear and armor, showing the clarity and sincerity of a baby, and sharing the most secret story with another person face to face without reservation. This is my increasingly clear goal. Not only understand my pain points, but also bring me sunshine. (KY)

7. I once discussed with my roommate that Fan's name was not written on the real estate license. A roommate thinks they are getting married, and the house is the woman's security. I have reservations about this. (Fan He buys a house, Wang pays)

There is a serious logical misunderstanding here. Simple emotional factors can't be exchanged for material chips. People sometimes overemphasize and exaggerate the role of emotional factors. Trying to bind the material about survival and vital interests with the feelings of weakness and nothingness, I feel that both of them are more secure. However, the fact is that the stronger the binding, the weaker it will eventually break down, and their respective endings are bleak.

8. "Bad words" come first. (Qin Ying has a virgin complex. ) here only refers to the key factors and events related to the vital interests of both parties. (Ode to Joy focuses on all kinds of dramatic contradictions in life)

At the age of early twenties, a fresh body and a face that has never been bullied by life began to exude the animal attribute of courtship tendency, the overflow of mindless emotions, the naive logic of "taking it for granted", the chaotic three views and double standards.

9. According to the horoscope, I must have avenged myself and been heartless. That's true,

I make a narrow distinction. There are two kinds of "not reporting". The first one, with the ability and means, chooses not to report out of animal feelings. The second kind, rooted in strength, is incompetent, helpless and brainless. Personally, I belong to the second category.

10. A certain degree of honesty.

Singularity, a face bullied by life? It better be just you and me. Throughout the two seasons of Ode to Joy, the only complicated and full character design is the singularity created by Zu Feng. Struggling from one class to another, Shuangshang Online is also wary. The characters are not handsome and beautiful, but they have won a lot of goodwill. Probably because, we can imagine how he broke through the bullying of life and hid the scars properly. -Anti-underwear position)

As usual, you and I can't escape the bullying of life, it depends on how you digest it. Some people have left deep sequelae and become suspicious, unwilling, inferior or conceited; Some people turn it into a nutrient of life and nourish themselves, so that you can easily see the traces of being bullied by life. (Anti-underwear))

1 1. Choose to have children.

I once said that having children is not a necessary choice. As a result, the other party thought I was joking.

There is also a logical misunderstanding here. People always think that having children is a woman's obligation, and marriage should have children (nonsense). This is obviously the right to choose to give up. As far as the act of creating life is concerned, it is undoubtedly selfish. Subjectively and intentionally forcing others to bring unpredictable life has nothing to do with greatness.

12. The scale and reasonable distance of girlfriends' "ode to joy"

If I had a friend like Qiu Yingying, I would never stop her from hitting the south wall. Stupidity can be learned, but it can't be stopped. The third view is a group of chaotic emotions without principles and logic. Any rational thinking will not work. No adult has the responsibility and obligation to teach another adult to survive. Wendy Wang)

13. Choose yourself firmly.

I have never concealed that I grew up in Henan. It's been six or seven years, and my ID number starts with 4. More than once, I was asked by relatives, classmates and all kinds of caring people, are you still breastfeeding? I said yes. Over seventy. Aunt is there, too. Then the problem will continue. If you don't miss them and don't go back, then words like filial piety and conscience will be involved. ...

It is my choice not to go back.

Indeed, grandma still loves grandma, and aunt still dotes on her. However, it must be admitted that some people are illogical once they encounter internal contradictions, whether they are adjustable or irreconcilable. Almost all can be defined and judged by blood relationship. Demands must be accepted and forgiven. Never mind that the two sides are strange enemies.

I have no expectations for this for a long time, and naturally I will not try to change it, but I will never let myself die again.

I am glad that I have a "diamond heart" self-awareness, and I will not lose myself because of "moral kidnapping" and "tears".

From the beginning, my life was given an opportunity to shape myself because of the absence of the position of "father" and everything that followed. The old man who accompanied me when I was young gave me an initial perspective on the world, which gradually grew into the foundation of my personality in my later life.

Although the road we have taken is not easy, and the road we are about to take may be more dangerous, the result of having the consciousness and ability of independent choice after the process cannot be better. This is ambition.

Sometimes when I think about it, I feel that this invisible arrangement is really a gift.

Fortunately, when I was a child, the old man who ate every day died early, which made me more confident when I was labeled as the so-called "black sheep", "heartless" and "ungrateful". Because I didn't respond and hit my face, I'm sure he is my only support in this battle, and his strength is infinite.

14. I have seriously thought about death. Longevity is not necessarily inferior to blessing. Personally, I am afraid of physical aging, loss of self-awareness, and even more afraid that I can't be decent. But fear doesn't work. If you get older with age, you will win the lottery.

15. The advantage of his absence is that he can stay as long as I want. Not limited by space and one's own will.

I left the old man and came to Shaanxi for twelve years. He died nine years ago.

We lived together for five or six years, and those five or six years were the beginning of my clear memory now.

If you are, treat each other well, and there is not much regret if you are not. If you squander your time, you are not qualified to be hypocritical.

16. Personally, I have never dared to test human nature, and I am not sure what I will see. I have no optimistic expectations for it. Including myself.

I am selfish in essence, which is my most basic three views. Food, lust and selfishness are the basic attributes of my secular life.

Feel the warmth of the palm, the beating of the chest, the softness of the lips, the sincerity of the hug and the intense emotion, all of which are the emotional needs of animals.

17. Personally, it is very important and necessary to greet each other before communication. (All behavior patterns and choices, traced upward, are the results of three-view projection. -Wendy Wang) It may involve the concept of love, marriage, money and family ...) You have to know what attributes you associate with. Otherwise, it is likely to become sunk cost, and even have a far-reaching negative impact.

Three views are the foundation of secular life, guiding rational logic and animal emotions. Its formation is based on human nature, personal experience, road traveled, education, environment and brain logic. Right or wrong is meaningless.

Three views are for communication, not for victory. As far as its formation is concerned, it is against the facts to say that the three views are consistent. But communication is already a good place.

For the idea of the communication object, I hope that the other party has its own set of three-view system and rational logic, and then I will sincerely admire myself.

Why do I think I need to be bold and fat to like it?

18. Cherish life and stay away from imbecility. Wendy Wang

19. I usually "like" a boy who passes a railway car. (I sincerely thank the sparkling people)

When I was in adolescence, the first boy I liked was the deskmate who studied at night in the sixth grade.

At that time, the primary school was a private primary school, and there was evening self-study because there were students studying at night. For the convenience of management, there are two classes at the same level in our classroom. That little boy is my deskmate at night study.

The little boy has fine skin, fine features, white skin and good grades. He feels very good.

I didn't know where to go for a long time. I only vaguely remember that I can't speak, so the way to communicate is to write a small note.

He shared something with me, telling the story of his necklace, and how many names he had, which one different people called him. He said, I can't tell anyone. It's a secret between us.

The word "secret" is easy to draw closer and strengthen the connection between two people. Maybe it's because I think we are special. I have long forgotten what I said when I was sitting on a bench in the evening study. But the feeling of silently looking forward to the arrival of evening self-study every day is eternal.

Then there is the campus male god playing basketball in the playground, dressed in white, striding like a fly, covered with sunset glow, really shining. ...

I have a special admirer, and we have known each other since grade one. If the top two students in the class are of the opposite sex, it is easy to be gossiped. My careless response made everyone more enthusiastic. He has rare wisdom. A recess, I don't know why, was pulled together as a talk. I don't care. Everyone is getting more and more excited, and they don't know where the story can go. After a while, he smiled and said, "Don't send it again. Be careful to send a fax and it will come true." Miraculously, since then, no one has really comforted boredom. I was so impressed that my chin was about to fall off.

One more thing, I think he is an interesting person. Probably when I was a sophomore, I once ran into a billboard in front of my house and felt fine. What a coincidence! My mother called, and then I couldn't hold back. I hung up the phone and made a pretentious remark. Everyone is comforting me. Maybe I'm spoiled and arrogant, and I feel more painful.

At this time, he commented at the bottom, don't break the billboard, you will lose money. I smiled instantly and forgot the pain.

I always think this is an extraordinary ability that I don't have, so I admire it from the bottom of my heart.

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Maybe I think several people are glowing at the same time. It's so cute.

20. As I get older, I find that most people are not either/or.

2 1. Any mound, as long as it is close enough, is enough to block all your sight. August Changan

I'm afraid it's not enough waves.