Class composition

Type 9 personality should be the most attractive content for me this semester.

Although before this, the explosive MBTI personality test has been popular in my circle of friends.

The characteristics of personality 1-9 are all developed one by one.

Take your favorite photos and screenshots and forward them to friends around you.

When the personality test exploded, there were many different voices.

"Human personality cannot be clearly defined by compulsory classification."

During the break, we discussed the accuracy of the personality test.

First, can a person have only one personality? We think that a person has many personality characteristics. If there is always a dominant personality in a person, then its proportion will be different. Second, compulsory classification may bring greater deviation. Thirdly, can we know clearly what choice we will make in this situation? Will the imaginary self deviate from the actual self? Fourth, everyone has a different understanding of the topic. Is the design and expression of the topic content clear enough?

"What you like should not be the label, but the specific person."

Personality analysis divides us into different categories of labels, but the generalized label set can't accurately describe a person, so we should focus on the specific person in front of us.

I admit that it is more practical to focus on the person in front of me than to label the other person as a category. But in fact, can we really understand a person completely? In fact, it is difficult to accurately describe people's personality and tendencies.

But at the moment of labeling, the other party's approval or opposition in the description can also reflect his understanding of self-cognition.

At first glance, labeling is an uncomfortable thing, but it seems that in this era, we can't escape labeling. From the personalized information card of QQ to the self-introduction of the new environment, others are no longer labeling us, but labeling themselves.

Personality analysis is another way of focusing.

And what can labeling bring us?

Find the team.

I heard in the film review of Bouquet Love: "We are too lonely in this world, so we want to find our sense of existence in another person and find the same place."

Sticking a seemingly simple label is actually a process of "social identity". We find a sense of belonging in society through a kind of self-classification. In this process, we reinterpret ourselves and narrow the difference between ourselves and this category. This depersonalization process also makes us gradually change from "I" to "we".

And "people can define themselves or classify themselves at different abstract levels (including individuals, groups and higher-level groups)." In other words, our social identities can coexist at the same time.

"Sagittarius, second personality, enfp."

These seemingly unrelated fragments radiate many lines connecting people. The constellation or personality, compared with other similarities in real life, although it looks a bit "nonsense", will make me feel closer.

But I think it is very interesting that so many scattered features in the world are combined together in a wonderful way to form a unique us.

"My mother-in-law said that our recent horoscopes were good, and she felt so cute at that moment." I heard such a sentence in the video series of night chat in Peking University dormitory.

Perhaps, the accuracy of this matter is not so important, but the process of exploration and sharing in it.

We hate the chaotic world, so the constellation wrote the beginning of a causal story. We hate unpleasant moments, and the constellation tells us that the turning point of things is in the future.

Such a warm and healing answer book is not attractive.

This world, some people are interested.

"Let me guess what constellation you are?"

"Our personalities are super compatible."

Someone didn't set foot.

"I didn't seem to know much about it before."

But the next sentence is.

"Can you talk to me?"

I admit, whether it is fire-like enthusiasm or water-like delicacy, it will make people feel warm. I will be excited because of the same interests, and I will be happy because the other party protects my less "rational" pleasure.

The world is harmonious but different, and all rivers run into the sea.

This analysis does not mean that differences will become a stumbling block to communication, but encourages us to find comfortable ways to get along with people with different personalities. I like friends with different personalities and constellations. They have completely different lifestyles and interests.

But the same thing is, they all love me very much.

I believe in horoscopes, but if the horoscopes say we don't agree.

Then I'll tear up that page.