Cancer is psychologically gloomy.

Cancer is psychologically gloomy. In real life, Cancer is usually very kind to people and has many friends around, but sometimes it is easy to be emotional, pessimistic and inferior, and even insecure. Let's share with you the psychological gloom of Cancer.

Cancer is dark, 1 extremely sensitive.

When they communicate with others, sometimes it seems that nothing has changed on the surface, but in fact, their hearts are already on tenterhooks. They can't help thinking of themselves when others talk about something, and they think a lot every time. As a result, a small matter was magnified and left a knot in their hearts. It is this extremely sensitive mentality that makes them very terrible when they get along with others. You don't know what the topic you accidentally talked about has evolved into in their hearts.

irritability

On the surface, they are kind and gentle, but under this beautiful appearance, there is actually an extremely angry personality. In order to reduce your temper, you paint yourself as if nothing can make you lose your temper.

But occasionally it shows its true colors. Once offended, they will start to fly into a rage like out-of-control lions. No matter who the other party is, they will lose their temper and release their emotions. No matter what the other party thinks, their impressions will change.

Be good at attacking

Their feelings are more delicate, they observe things around them more carefully, and they can notice many details that others do not pay attention to. Moreover, they are not only insightful and always see some details, but also good at forbearance. They can wait for the opportunity and will not be eager for quick success. If someone has offended them, they may not say anything on the surface, but in fact, they are already secretly planning how to let each other fall to the bottom at the most proud time and give each other a fatal mental blow.

Cancer's psychological gloom 2 is used to testing others.

Although cancer is strong in appearance, it is actually too fragile in heart. Perhaps it is because I am too insecure, and I like to test people around me and test each other's sincerity. They will degrade themselves to nothing and then see how others react. If they are full of praise, they will be particularly moved and grateful on the surface, and then pretend to be embarrassed. In fact, they have already made a smile inside, and they will often pretend to be poor in their lives. In fact, they don't have any savings, and their lives are very moist.

Like to escape

Cancer may be afraid of other people's dissatisfaction with him or other negative eyes, so it is very timid, and it is easy to shrink into the turtle shell carelessly, and will explore carefully when encountering trouble.

When they do something wrong, they dare not admit that they were founded only in Wyoming, but they don't have the heart to break it, or even have the courage to take a step. People always say that Cancer cares about her family, but she just doesn't have the courage to see the outside world. In fact, they are very yearning and curious about the colorful world outside, but they are used to escaping, hiding themselves in their shells and acquiescing in homesickness.

hear nothing of

Cancer doesn't look gentle, but it may be an appearance that is easy to echo others, so that the gentle appearance won't offend people and make you feel very popular. They don't have their own opinions when they make decisions, and they are easy to listen to other people's ideas. When they go with the flow, they are easy to conform to other people's opinions, but he doesn't dare to have any ideas, so it seems that they have become one with others, and they are used to indulging in the illusion brought by this popularity.

Cancer is psychologically gloomy 3. Is the darkest constellation Cancer?

Cancer has always been synonymous with tenderness and care in the twelve constellations. They are loyal, kind, tenacious and persistent, but at the same time, they are also the most emotional constellations. They are sensitive and suspicious, and they are nervous at the slightest sign of trouble, which is simply unreasonable. Cancer is as repetitive as a repeater, always talking to itself when others don't exist, optimistic on the surface and depressed inside.

Second, the career fortune of Cancer

Cancer is a constellation with many advantages. Cancer people are very responsible and enterprising, and get along well with their colleagues, so they are loved by everyone. However, their career is difficult to break through. The reason is that cancer people are too careless, especially when they are doing urgent things, they will forget to check and hand in their work directly. Because Cancer's career fortune is not very good.

Third, Cancer love fortune

Cancer's emotional fortune is relatively low, because Jupiter entered their spiritual house in June 5438+10. Cancer at this stage always likes to entertain foolish ideas, immerse themselves in their inner world every day and ignore their concern for their partners. If lovers don't do well in some places, or don't care enough about cancer, they begin to doubt each other's feelings for themselves.

Cancer's psychological darkness 4 Cancer's abdominal darkness is a prerequisite.

Premise 1: Born in a family atmosphere.

The atmosphere of family background is very important to each of us, especially to the water sign. Cancer is the most basic constellation in the water sign. It does not have the changeable characteristics of Pisces, nor does it have the characteristics of subjective consciousness close to the absolute definition of Scorpio. Cancer is like a quiet and peaceful lake.

But fire and water are ruthless. Cancer does have a peaceful and gentle side, but it also has a relatively dark side. The atmosphere of family background will affect the psychological formation, self-cognition, emotion and world outlook of Cancer.

If a cancer grows up in a good family atmosphere, he will not lack love since he was a child, then when he grows up, his mind will not be in desperate need of warmth because of lack of love.

On the other hand, some injuries have no great influence on such cancer at all. Whether it is a failure to make friends or a failure to fall in love, the result is similar, because his heart belongs, and there is no vortex and loophole in his heart that lacks love. If Cancer grows up in a family with a bad atmosphere, he will love less or even be extremely unloved.

This kind of desire will make the cancer's heart super sensitive, and he will have a strong sense of inferiority, so relatively speaking, the love and warmth he needs is a very high indicator. At the same time, the damage he can bear and his ability to control his feelings and cognition will also become lower. Then what follows is that such a cancer is easy to get hurt, and it is also easy to become paranoid because of injury, and his heart will accumulate some darkness. Once cancer can't stand the darkness, its outbreak will be "amazing".

Premise 2: personal experience influence

In addition to family influence, personal experience will also have a great influence on the psychology and thoughts of cancer. This problem is also a two-sided problem. For example, if Cancer doesn't grow up in a warm family, he will lack love, but there will still be countless possibilities in life that we can't see. If this cancer is lucky, the friends he made when he grew up are all very kind to him, and he has never abandoned him or hurt him, then the cancer's feelings will find a place to rest.

And when he begins to fall in love and meets someone who loves her very much and can accept her, the dark side of Cancer's heart will be slowly influenced and relieved by love.

At the same time, cancer will also let itself fall into this happy nest. On the contrary, if the personal experience of Cancer is not smooth, and making friends and falling in love fails several times, then the darkness accumulated in Cancer's heart will increase.

In this case, cancer will become very contradictory. To sum up this feature of Cancer in one sentence: People or things that Cancer can't contact personally will be suspicious, which will make Cancer's heart become erratic, others can't understand him, and he can't understand others at the same time.

Moreover, this two-way contradiction will make Cancer very lonely, especially not good at dealing with people, and even live in his own contradictory fantasy world, but he still has to face the reality. It can't really live in its own world like Pisces. In fact, there are such cancers in real life. For example, those cancer who are far away from the crowd and self-proclaimed are quite paranoid. They are not only contradictory, but also chaotic. Not only do they have nowhere to put their feelings, but they can't believe them.

Premise 3: the influence of self-guidance ability

Self-tutoring ability may be an extravagant hope for most cancers, or in other words, if cancer can learn half of Virgo's self-control ability or half of Leo's self-confidence, then self-tutoring is not difficult for cancer, but an ideal thing. Of course, it is not excluded that cancer has close friends of Virgo or Leo. As long as these two constellations are close, it will bring a lot of help to Cancer. Because they are very sunny, cancer needs such people around.

For example, if a person saw a cancer in the street and greeted him, what would the cancer think? Cancer will have this idea: "I am not familiar with it, what to say hello." For example, if Cancer thinks she is kind, but she is always bullied because of kindness, then she may have the idea: "When I have the ability and ability one day, I will definitely make those bullied look good!" This may be a point that most cancers have.

In fact, this point of Cancer should be called lack of self-affirmation. Cancer will feel very painful when it is hurt. He won't think about why he was hurt, how to avoid such problems, and how to make himself strong.

Cancer only knows that she is injured, which is unfair! Especially for feelings, Cancer will continue to tolerate and continue to tolerate, and the result may be that one day Cancer broke out. In addition, it should be noted that cancer men and cancer women are different. Cancer men are feminine and cancer women are masculine, so their standards of emotional needs will be very contradictory. Cancer man wants to be brave and strong to love someone, but he can't channel and control his feelings and state well.

Cancer women will feel safe only if they possess and control each other, but their sensitivity and emotionality will make others difficult to understand, and even the other party will think that they are pushing themselves away, which will also become a two-way contradiction. And good self-guidance ability can solve this kind of problem.