Which constellation girls have family wisdom and know how to deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Taurus girls know how to deal with it, although many unmarried women start to worry about their mother-in-law before they get married. I want to please my mother-in-law first. In fact, this practice is also good, just a temporary favor. Whether two people can get along mainly depends on the future relationship model and personality. Now, the misunderstanding between mother and daughter has become a very serious problem, which needs great attention. So why is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law unequal?

Because there is a son in the middle, the mother-in-law has raised her son so much that she will worry about her son's life after living with her wife. This will cause friction between her and her daughter-in-law, especially an incompetent son, and their relationship will be even more tense. After all, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different ages and different concepts of communication. It is normal to have conflicts easily. Then we should be tolerant and learn from each other. How to get along? Today, Bian Xiao talks with you about three major defects in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

First: be calm.

This is very difficult for a daughter-in-law with a bad temper. Almost all daughters are spoiled by their parents now. Most people can't stand other people's advice, let alone their mother-in-law. A generation is not good at talking and may fight. In the relationship between two people, if two people have any dissatisfaction with each other, they must point it out. When pointed out, the tone must be calm. Don't lose your temper. Just like between friends, you can speak it calmly so that the contradiction will not escalate.

Second: Don't try to change each other.

Everyone grew up in a different environment. Of course, the outlook on life is different. Especially since they are so different from each other, it is normal to have different ideas. It is necessary to accommodate each other. There are many nationalities in our country. Be tolerant of each other, let alone a family. Everyone's habits are gradually formed, so no matter what is wrong with the other party, you must learn to be tolerant.

Third: treat each other as family.

Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are mother-daughter relationships. This is because the mother-in-law really regards her daughter-in-law as her own daughter, so she is so good and family, so she scolds each other because the other party has done something wrong. In fact, as long as two people have a harmonious relationship, they must treat each other as relatives. When you are sad, you can complain to your mother-in-law. When your mother-in-law is alone, your daughter-in-law must accompany you. As time goes on, the relationship between two people will only get better and better.