What constellations give others tenderness, but they are very harsh on themselves?

As the saying goes, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". This sentence is to warn us not to impose what we don't want to do on others.

However, some friends are just the opposite of this sentence. They will leave all their tenderness to others and their problems to themselves. In this issue, what we want to share is a seemingly affectionate and heartless constellation, which is gentle to others but harsh to ourselves.

0 1 Aries Aries is particularly sunny in the eyes of outsiders. It is easy to get along with, and it is very careful and knows how to take care of friends. They will remember their birthdays and important anniversaries and prepare surprises for their friends in advance. Being sincere to others is fun, and no matter how you look at it, you are a good friend worthy of communication.

However, as we all know, Aries is so keen on socializing only because they are particularly afraid of loneliness. Aries needs to constantly seek identity from friends' reactions.

Aries wants to make people around him happy through their own efforts, and Aries will be happy with them because they have found the value of their existence.

However, when you don't get positive feedback from friends, Aries is very easy to be surrounded by a negative emotion. So I began to reflect on myself, began to doubt myself and constantly denied myself. When you face outsiders during the day, you have to pretend to be cute, happy and likable.

In fact, sheep don't need to ask so much of themselves. It's enough to be themselves and make friends sincerely. People who know you naturally know you, and those who don't know you, it's futile to please again.

02 Cancer Cancer's little friend also belongs to the type that leaves tenderness to others, but is very harsh on himself. Most of Cancer's friends belong to "please personality". Like Aries, they are eager to gain self-identity through other people's reactions.

Therefore, it is very easy to be very strict with yourself in order to present your best side to others and get encouragement and affirmation from others.

Therefore, you can often see friends of Cancer. They are particularly patient when helping others, and they also take pains when treating others. Even if you encounter a very difficult problem, you can always take responsibility for others at the first time.

Behind all this is that cancer is almost cruel and harsh to itself. In order to be a popular person and a loved one, Cancer has suffered too much silently.

So, Cancer, you really should relax yourself. You are already very good, you should learn how to love yourself.

When Pisces mentions Pisces, many people's reactions are "love the brain" and "silly and sweet". In fact, this is just a disguise for fish to do things. In order not to cause trouble to others, the fish choose to show their simple side to everyone.

In front of outsiders, fish is always simple and lovely, but who is easy to live in this world?

Fish also has its own pressure, its own entanglement, and its own confusion. However, fish never pass on their negative energy to others, but choose to digest it silently.

Therefore, fish left an image of "loving the brain" and "silly and sweet" to outsiders.

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