Will you have a crush on someone for more than twenty years?

I won't have a crush on someone for more than 20 years. If I like someone, I will choose to express myself bravely and make our love more and more happy and sweet!

Unpaid love; Secret love refers to one party's love or affection for the other, usually nothing more than timidity, fear of rejection, and one or both parties already have a partner.

Secret love was called unrequited love in ancient times. Acacia, this word is so beautiful but a little cruel. Because there is lovesickness, there is pain, and there is suffering of the soul. If lovesickness is too deep, you may suffer from a serious love disease-lovesickness.

Secret love is the preparatory stage of a person's love, and it is also the time when a person has a good impression on the opposite sex in The Seeds of Love and begins to have an ignorant understanding of love. This is a kind of pain, but also makes people feel sad and happy. Everyone is a kind of inexplicable excitement and love in the initial stage of unrequited love. This mentality is like a double-edged sword. Being able to achieve a person is the driving force; It can also destroy a person, which is destruction. In love, wishful thinking often ends in tragedy.

Secret love is usually a kind of unrequited love, even being asked to pay. Secret admirers are usually more painful than other relationships. Apart from the relationship that the other party doesn't know, they have to silently endure all kinds of pains brought by secret love. It is generally believed that the secret admirer pays several times as much as the normal relationship, but sadly, usually this kind of pay will not be rewarded.

Secret love appears in a wide range of age groups, whether it is teenagers, adolescence, middle age or old age, but among them, teenagers appear more. Similarly, the phenomenon of unrequited love is also likely to appear in men and women. Because there are many cases of teenagers' secret love, there are also many works with secret love as the theme in popular culture. Thomas Mann's Death of Venice is a secret love story.

On the contrary, the average secret admirer may not get love, and even the development of love is extremely short.

The following are the opinions of secret admirers and secret admirers:

For secret admirers, they just want to get love from each other (even if they don't know each other very well), and they also know that there is probably no result between them, but they can't choose to give up their love for secret admirers.

For secret admirers, they don't know each other's personality, and they don't necessarily know each other's mood.

There will be no confession in the process of secret love. Secret love is usually a kind of unrequited love. I am willing to pay for him or her, but it is also equivalent to unrequited love. Unilateral silent love in my heart.

Phenomenon:

The phenomenon of unrequited love mostly happens to the young people in Seeds of Love. Secret love may happen inadvertently or intentionally. Perhaps because of all kinds of pressures and resistances in reality, I have to bury my feelings in my heart.

Middle school students are under pressure from their studies and their parents' schools. At the age of Seeds of Love, there are many cases of unrequited love. Of course, unrequited love is also related to your own view of love. In addition, the object of secret love is usually friends, acquaintances, people who often meet at work, and someone at a group party. It may be because the relationship between lovers is not realistic, or the confession will be rejected, which will affect the relationship between the two and cause embarrassment.

Secret love is a kind of shy love and love, which you don't want to say or can't say, but you can always stick to it. It only exists unilaterally. The inability or inability to express one's feelings and love. This situation is often very contradictory, which will make a person depressed, anxious, lack of self-confidence and emotional ups and downs!

Performance:

1, generally secretly loves or likes a person's specific performance.

Seeing that the other person can't face up to it, the heartbeat is a suffocating frequency.

Desperate to tell each other what they think, but lacking courage, so unhappy.

When you see each other, you will want to run away immediately.

When passing by, when the other party is not paying attention, they will deliberately rub each other gently.

Eyes often miss each other (unconsciously), such as what she is doing, whether she is in class, who she is talking to, and so on.

You can do anything for that person.

Will dress him (her) in the most beautiful clothes and want to attract the attention or attention of the other party.

Will you be unhappy to see each other talking to other members of the opposite sex?

I admire each other's eyes, but I dare not look directly at them.

And I really want to see each other! Eyes are constantly searching for him (her), but you have to pretend that you don't care. When you see someone you like with other members of the opposite sex, you will be jealous. Because of their ambiguous or intimate behavior, they will be unhappy and even insomnia. I have nothing to say when I meet someone I like, because I don't know what to say. On the chat software, I surf the Internet almost just to wait for him (her). If he (she) is not online today, I will feel very lost.

There will be expectations and all kinds of unrealistic fantasies. Although I know in my heart that I shouldn't make this fantasy so irrationally, I still can't restrain my expectations. Even though I am disappointed and hurt again and again, I still expect to realize my small, weak, radiant, sad and helpless expectations next time.

I really want to meet each other, but when I do meet each other, I often don't know what to do, I'm at a loss, and I even do a lot of abnormal actions.

Every move you make all the time, you will be extra careful if the other person is in sight. No matter what you do, your mind is actually on the other person. Observe whether he (she) cares about himself, what he (she) is doing, what special body language he (she) has and what signals he (she) has. The other person's eyes or other things may bring pressure to themselves, but they are more small and secretly happy.

I always think of him when I say a related sentence, hear a meaningful song and see a somewhat related scene.

Mention him casually in words, in fact, just to get to know him.

Learn to think carefully.

Every time I hear an online prompt on QQ, I will go to see if it is him.

Become more and more emotional.

Suddenly found that many of his words, including modal particles, you have in mind.

His name has become a fixed collocation in your computer and mobile phone input method.

He has a unique code name, and I don't want to tell anyone. It is not as widely known as a nickname, but a selfish and caring name.

Fantasy belongs to fantasy, but you still don't want him to find out about your caution.

You would rather taste the faint or thick sour taste when watching him happy with others than try to tell him your heart, or dare not try.

You are afraid to see him, but when you expect to see him, he can show you something special.

You are studying all his information, and he has no intention of mentioning the song he likes. You will download and listen repeatedly, study the lyrics, want to know what this song means, and guess whether there is your component in it.

You stay in his website forum or his QQ space. Even if people can't see him, they will study what kind of people come here. You really want to see the shadow of the person you like from them.

If he has a lover, you will study his lover's personality and temperament characteristics, and even regard dressing as a hobby, and silently compare with that person in your heart.

You don't want your friends to know what you are thinking, but you vaguely expect someone to tell the person you like, so as to get a chance, even if it is a failure.

However, you still choose not to confess or hint.

Maybe it's just stalking, maybe it's not stalking at all.

Maybe it's observation, maybe it's just a silent sketch in my heart.

Maybe it's because he went to someone's house to drink with someone else, or maybe it's because he didn't reply to your message and lost all hope.

Perhaps because of his casual words, it caused waves from the beginning, or because of his expression, he has been trying to figure out his mind.

Love is love. You give me a firefly, and I regard it as the sun.

Unrequited love may be beautiful, unforgettable and emotional in retrospect.

However, at least when we are in it, we all hope that we can be the people around that person.

Instead of not even being qualified to wait far away.

I love you, but I don't want to tell you.

I can't help looking at you when we meet.

Be brave in front of her (him)

She always looks at you from a distance. When you find out, she will quickly avoid your eyes and look at you. When you continue to do your own thing, her eyes will look at you again, and her eyes are full of expectation.

2. The performance of the twelve constellations in unrequited love.

fishes

Pisces, in the face of the object of secret love, is easy to make much ado about nothing, otherwise it is often self-inflicted. Obviously, the other party doesn't mean anything, but he will automatically help interpret it in private. For example, the other party said: You look a little unhappy today! Pisces' brain may begin to fantasize: he noticed me! Which means he's interested in me, too. We are still here, I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn, and the tacit understanding is super good ... If I think too much, it is easy to fall from the clouds to the bottom because of the bad tone of the other party. Alas! Is it necessary to have such a secret crush?

Aries constellation

Aries's impulsive personality can hardly be suppressed for three days, and it will burn us up. They can't stand the ambiguous relationship, they can't be sure whether the other party seems to have feelings, and they are worried that their bold actions will scare their sweetheart, ruin all possible beauty and give up all their previous efforts. Therefore, it is risky to treat Aries' secret love, that is, to deliberately make a false move, which is enough to make him love and hate.

Taurus constellation

If you want to vote for the first place in secret love, Taurus really should be on the throne. This cow, which eats grass quietly, shows little affection for each other. Even if the right person stands in front of them, they still look serious, just like ordinary people, but their hearts are choppy. Especially after the event, they will especially want to beat their chests and strangle themselves to miss the opportunity. Who told them that they should always be future teachers? They are slow and naturally have a crush on others!

Gemini

People who are secretly loved by Gemini should be very happy! Because Gemini, who laughs and laughs, is best at making puns and sweet words in front of her crush. The seemingly absent dialogue is carefully designed by Gemini, which is quite intriguing! Moreover, this kind of intentional or unintentional verbal spying will not embarrass Gemini, but will have the effect of playing hard to get.

Cancer constellation

Possessive cancer, even in the face of a secret crush who has not married him, can't see the right person flirting with others. This kind of jealous thoughts often hinder cancer, and quite emotional reactions are known to secret admirers. Therefore, the other party often feels that he seems to be very cold to me today, not talking and laughing as usual. Over time, I can't stand the puzzling of cancer, and even ordinary friends have no hope.

Le Signe du Lion

Face-saving Leo is the last person who will admit or show a secret love for others. They don't want their secret admirers to have their own pigtails in the future. So Leo will become an extremely contradictory secret admirer. I like each other very much, but I will kill each other inexplicably and be rude to each other. Although it has attracted the attention of the other party, it is easy to cause irreparable misunderstanding. Here advise Leo, if you love him, don't hurt him. The gentler you are, the closer you are to success.

virgo

Virgo can be said to be the most timid of the twelve constellations, but also the most thoughtful, secret admirer. They will also find fault with their secret admirers. From the research of your ancestors for eighteen generations, from the family history to the smiles and every move in your life, he will make an excellent report and try to understand you thoroughly. The problem is, if they don't make this preparation, they don't want to make a move, and the result of being too cautious is just to get ahead of them!

libra

Although Libra looks like a social butterfly or a charming girl, they are single-minded when they have a crush. If you want to know who Libra is interested in, just look at who they put China in front of. However, Libra is a balance after all. As long as he is wishful thinking for a long time, he naturally feels unfair and gives up this unrequited love.

Scorpius

Scorpio is naturally fond of mystery and fatalism. Therefore, when they secretly love each other, they will try their best to create all kinds of coincidences, give each other the illusion that they are made in heaven, and finally throw themselves at him. For example, we met on the way to work, took the same bus, accidentally bumped into each other in the elevator, and accidentally went to the same floor. Too many "careless" results together "careless"!

Sagittarius

Sagittarius, an outspoken Sagittarius, often reveals his love completely without reservation when facing a secret crush. In other words, they will keep sending love letters and winking at each other, which is a bit of a stalker. This usually makes the other person have two reactions: either being scared away, asking bodyguards to protect themselves, or enjoying the pursuit of Sagittarius. Therefore, Sagittarius's secret love period is invincible and short, so what are you waiting for if you can directly confess?

Capricorn. Compare CAPRICORN

Falling in love with each other is falling in love with your own constellation, often a Capricorn with a conscience. Capricorn is more conservative. They don't believe in love in the air. If there is a secret love, it is usually acquaintances, friends and colleagues who have been together for a long time, especially women and men who like to work hard. No wonder they easily fall into office romance. However, Capricorn, who is naturally rational, is hard to make this love public, and would rather let it die silently than put it into action!

Aquarius constellation

Aquarius is really delicious in front of a crush. They are full of love and open-minded. They seldom focus on one person, and can regard the person they like as ordinary friends. No wonder when the day came in two of a kind, Aquarius and the other half were already tacit lovers and confidants. However, this ambiguous unrequited love is risky. If the other party is bitten by Cheng who rushed out halfway, then the hope will be lost.

Four countermeasures:

Unrequited love has so many disadvantages, it is better to tell him clearly: I love you and I want you. Being rejected seems to be not taking advantage. If there are still many obstacles preventing you from expressing your love, try the following methods:

A throw away all the mirrors, hang up pictures of him or other handsome guys, and practice conquering femininity on them every day. Don't ask why, more practice will come in handy.

B.start dieting and become a vegetarian. Invite classmates, friends, colleagues, old lovers, old rivals, and secret admirers to drink, and at the same time, you can spy on the enemy, haha, and maybe expose your secrets. Since then, from unrequited love to "robbery".

C. if you can't get him for a while, replace him. Enter his side, pester him as a subordinate of colleagues and friends, accompany him to eat, drink and have fun, and persuade him to yearn for your life. As for love and not love, what's the hurry?

D. Spend your overtime with other men, choose one you don't hate or like, and make friends with them. Even if your silverware is not easy for others to wear, take it out regularly for others to wipe, otherwise it will lose its luster.

Secret love is a beautiful feeling, but also a romantic pain. When you walk up and down that road like a melancholy philosopher, just to pretend to sneak a look at him inadvertently; When you put on that new apple green skirt, it's only because he once told you that he loves apple green best; As long as everything is for him, even if you don't care, there will be a trace of youth and sentimental sweetness in your heart. But if one day, one of her appears beside him! -don't want to suffer this? Then learn to tell your secret love.