Survey: Which constellation has the sexiest slave?

A beautiful and harmonious atmosphere is a goal of interpersonal communication, which is worthy of recognition. Getting along with different people and grasping a necessary scale in words are believed to be very important for the good development of interpersonal relationships. It's just that some constellations have deep-rooted fear and anxiety about rejection and hostility, and only consider others and ignore themselves. You have to pay a heavy price for the flattery syndrome. Only by taking the right medicine in time can we really return to good interpersonal development.

Libra's servility is hard to change.

TOP 1: Libra

Libra walked too long and too far in the pursuit of balance, and accidentally went astray. They desperately want everyone's approval and are afraid of hearing criticism. In order to always maintain a kind and beautiful image, even in the face of obvious injustice, Libra will try to suppress their anger and unhappiness, because they can't help but worry that if they show a trace of dissatisfaction, they will attract others' unhappiness and even be disappointed with themselves. Libra, who suffers from ingratiating syndrome, can't correctly understand what is right and what is the interest that he should strive for. Over time, my heart will be full of inferiority, lose myself and feel isolated.

Treatment plan: realize that real balance is based on correct values. Avoidance can not only solve the problem, but also tilt the balance in your heart. Learn to say "no" and safeguard your due rights and interests, so that you can be more respected.

Sagittarius's servility is hard to change.

TOP2: Sagittarius

Sagittarius has a relatively free mind, likes excitement and is afraid of loneliness. It is also an easy-to-please constellation. Subconsciously, they think that as long as they persist in bringing happiness to others and think more about others, they can avoid emptiness, loneliness and cold. In the process of interpersonal communication, in order to create a happy and peaceful atmosphere, shooters do not hesitate to sacrifice their own needs, care too much about the feelings of others, and regard pleasing others as a habit. Don't say "no" to too many tasks at work, and don't want to refuse your friends' obviously selfish demands. If this habitual pleasing disease continues to develop uncontrollably, it will only make life more and more tired.

Solution: We should correctly understand our own needs and the requirements of others, and strive to break the habit of pleasing others. It is even more important to believe that people who really care, understand and love themselves will understand the reasons for their anger.

Virgo's servility is hard to change.

TOP3: virgo

The persistent pursuit of perfection makes virgins always maintain a rigorous attitude in dealing with people. They ask themselves to do their best in everything, win everyone's love for themselves, and even demand themselves harshly just to get everyone's support. It is in this overly strong perfect goal that virgins get sick of pleasing. They believe that as long as they do what others ask, they can avoid being rejected or even treated rudely. So I can't help showing flattery, but my self-esteem often makes virgins taste the inner struggle. If we don't interfere with their pleasure in time, we will fall into a distorted state of mind and cannot extricate ourselves.

Treatment plan: it will be the best for virgins to subjectively and positively correct the attitude of pleasing people. Only by doing what you like, not what others expect, can you do well and get more support.