"We gave up everything for you", how to treat parents' emotional blackmail?

Many people have been influenced by their parents in real life? Emotional blackmail? Under the banner of doing us good, they asked us to do something we didn't want to do, such as forced marriage. For parents? Emotional blackmail? We must first know that our parents' starting point is for our own good, so we should try our best to understand our parents. Secondly, you can express your true thoughts to your parents; Finally, if none of the above methods work, you can only minimize your relationship with your parents and avoid intensifying conflicts.

First, parents' starting point is for our own good. Most parents love their children. Is it? Emotional blackmail? The starting point is also for our own good, not to let your parents? Emotional blackmail? I just hold a grudge and think they are too selfish or something. In addition, sometimes we look at things differently from our parents, which leads us to think that our parents are forcing us, but in the eyes of our parents, this is the way to make us better, and no one is right or wrong. Sometimes I take a detour and look back to find that what my parents said is right, just like some people regret not listening to their parents and looking for a stable job. So when we think that parents. Emotional blackmail? Try to be considerate of your parents instead of quarreling with them.

Second, you can express your true thoughts to your parents. Sometimes parents don't know that their thoughts and practices will hurt us, so it's best to express your true thoughts clearly to your parents. If you persist, your parents will actually waver and eventually support your decision. After all, most parents love their children.

Third, try to reduce getting along with parents when parents insist? Emotional blackmail? If you can't communicate with them yourself, you should try to get along with them as little as possible, such as finding a job and living outside, and visiting and taking care of them on holidays. Less time together, parents? Emotional blackmail? Opportunities are correspondingly reduced.