What constellation is Shaojiang?

The rest of my life: Shao Jiang and Gu Weibi, where did Shao Jiang lose?

The rest of my life: Shao Jiang and Gu Weibi, where did Shao Jiang lose? According to the secular view, Lin School is actually not as suitable as Shao Jianglin School. So where did Shao Jiang lose? It wasn't until I saw the ending of "The Rest of My Life, Please Teach Me More" that I finally figured this out.

Personality is the same as Lin, and this series of processes is very close from recognition to marriage. Looking back at Shao Jiang, he himself said that he liked Linzhi School since high school, but considering that Linzhi School was still young and uncertain about the future, he didn't confess. On the surface, this is a responsible attitude, but in the final analysis, it is actually hesitation in his character. He had more worries, so he missed a better opportunity.

Shao Jiang has always loved her from high school until now, and she didn't confess until someone fell in love. This may be affectionate in some people's eyes, but here in Linzhi School, it can only be inappropriate. There is no need to say that we met at the wrong time. If you are someone who knows you, you can find a suitable time these years. I didn't find it, more because of his personality.

The feeling of fit is essentially the mutual appreciation of two people. A couple, from passionate love to marriage, although the personality is very important in this process, it is futile not to co-star with each other, no matter how good your own personality is. When Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue are together, they feel relaxed and sweet. Although there is no obvious common interest between them, they can talk about everything, and no matter what they talk about, they can't have that kind of feeling of being very raw and broken. Even if they sit far away and don't say a word, they can be full of happiness.

When Shao Jiang and Lin Zhixiao are together, although they have the same hobbies, there seems to be nothing to talk about except music and performance. Even when discussing such topics, Shao Jiang has always made it difficult for the other party to enjoy himself with the attitude of senior and senior.

This is appropriate. Two people with high fit will be more cooperative and comfortable together. It is not easy for the other party to fall into helpless silence or perfunctory against conscience because of what you said, and it will not make the other party feel oppressed because of the tone and attitude of one party. Obviously, Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue are more suitable.

From this point of view, even if Siu Keung chose to confess at that time, he may not be able to go to the end with Lin Zhixiao. In the same way, it is not that he is not good enough, but that he loses because his fit with the other party is not high enough.

Security If you want to tell me what is the most important thing for a girl to find a partner, I will definitely tell you without hesitation: security. Linzhi's school didn't know Gu Wei for a long time, but it was able to walk into the marriage hall with him firmly. One of the key reasons is that Gu Wei gave her enough sense of security.

Before getting married, Linzhi's father asked Gu Wei, "Can I give you Linzhi's school safely?" Gu Wei got this response: From the first day I was with Lin Zhixiao, I took her as my wife. Even if life is impermanent and things change, I will work hard in this direction. I, Gu Wei, will protect her for the rest of my life.

Similarly, Gu Wei told not only his father-in-law, but also his parents and their friends. It can be seen that he didn't mean to say this in order to reassure his father-in-law, but he really thought and did it in his mind. What makes girls feel more secure than a man rushing to get married from the first day? In fact, most of the time, what a girl wants is not to enjoy wealth with you, but to want you to say: No matter what the future is, stay with her.

And this is what Shao Jiang lacks. Siu Keung didn't want to confess to Lin's school in recent years, precisely because he was worried about the uncertainty of the future. Maybe from his point of view, he just wants to give Alin School a faster future, but as Gu Wei said, life is impermanent, who can be sure of the future?

When you are with someone, you should not just want to enjoy the happiness in the future, but should be fully prepared. No matter what the future is, you need to never leave. This is the attitude that a boy who can really give a girl a sense of security should have. In contrast, Gu Wei can make girls feel more secure than Siu Keung, so it is not difficult to understand that Siu Keung, who is very good-looking, still lost.