What are the constellations that combine rigidity with softness, will not please anyone, and will not oppress others, and live a transparent life?

Knowing how to treat people with hardness and softness is actually a kind of wisdom to treat people with things. Because there is no shortage of strength and gentle way of doing things, I can always do my own thing in the face of different situations and be good at doing my own thing flexibly. In this way, when facing the strong, we can use softness to control rigidity, while when facing the weak, we can use the strong side to motivate their fighting spirit, so that we can give full play to their spiritual essence and ideological efficacy, mark and guide others, and let ourselves live a bright life. It can be said that being a man is like water, which can be as weak as everything, or as strong as ice and invincible on the river bank. In this life, people first need to find out what kind of person they are, and then choose to stay awake and live alone in order to become the person they want to be.

1. Scorpio: Stay awake, be proud of Scorpio, and let them become proud gradually. Because such people see and think clearly about the success or failure of the world, Scorpio's attitude towards passers-by or some unimportant people has always been very cold. Naturally, this cold attitude belongs to one's own experience, in other words, to one's own habits, and it is not intended to belittle others or look down on anyone. Scorpio only focuses on understanding everything first, and then can truly achieve self-goals by personal strength. You will find that even if you are depressed, Scorpio will feel more personalized and comfortable in its own form. This is why in the end, Scorpio becomes more and more indifferent and arrogant, and more and more independent.

They don't want to rely on everyone from the bottom of their hearts, and they never want to please everyone. Relying on others will make you feel humiliated and incompetent. If you choose to please someone, you will feel that you have no dignity in Scorpio, which is not desirable for Scorpio. Therefore, in reality, Scorpio would rather hide quietly and never forget to hone his initial heart. In the maverick years, it does not blindly follow the trend, nor does it like to bully anyone actively. In most cases, dealing with people with the design style of combining rigidity with softness is unfathomable in the increasingly fierce social development, and there is a strong calculation to be yourself. Then from arrogance to ingenuity, find your own direction in life from ingenuity, implement it well, stick to it firmly, and go straight to the overall goal.

2. Libra: Balancing rigidity and softness Libra belongs to the kind that has a lot of ideas, but just doesn't like to express them. Especially in interpersonal communication, they especially like to show their best side to others, but they don't like showdown. In other words, Libra will gain each other's affirmation and trust in different ways or means according to their personality, status and hobbies. When necessary, they can not only be emotionally soft, but also be strong when necessary to cope with various complicated situations. Libra especially likes to use personal wisdom to make better solutions. However, although Libra is good at dealing with people and seems to be able to blend in with anyone quickly, Libra in the bones has high standards for choosing good friends, in other words, lovers.

When they were just outside, they didn't want to judge a person by these so-called standards, and they didn't bother to comment on anyone. Harmony is enough for everyone. It is not easy to enter the spiritual world of Libra, because Libra still brings more requirements and standards to those who can really enter their own hearts. It can be said that Libra will neither please anyone nor bully anyone in the process of interacting with others, and treat everyone equally and politely. It is not difficult to see that Libra is very calculating, transparent and even smart.