Do you know why Gu planned to marry Sheng after meeting her four times?

In the original "Do You Know", Gu only saw Sheng four times before marrying her, and only these four times did Gu make up his mind to marry Sheng. Why did Gu, the son of Hou Fu and an illegitimate daughter of a small family, condescend to lower your price, and even tried every means to marry Sheng home? The reason is cruel, not because of love, but because Sheng meets his criteria for marrying a wife. Why did Gu never want to marry Zhu Manniang? Because a man like Gu, no matter how beautifully dressed, is a prince in his bones, and his innate pride and dignity have already been engraved into his blood. An actress of humble origin, he is willing to spoil her, to raise her, and even to protect her for life, but he is unwilling to entrust her with a gift. And why is he willing to marry Sheng knowing that Sheng is an illegitimate daughter? Because, what he is looking for is the daughter of a scholar like Sheng, who can understand the general situation, teach her husband and children and win a good hand.

Number one? Hello again. Gu first met Sheng at a banquet in Houfu, Xiangyang. Gu's first impression of Sheng was written in eight words: gentle, polite and gentle. Gu Jia was born in the army, and Gu's expectation for Gu was to marry a lady. Gu in the whole family, the only one who is sincere to him is his father, who taught him to read and write, and taught him martial arts. Even though the old duke is eccentric and confused, I have to say that among his three sons, he only personally teaches Gu Ye Ting and spends the most time on Gu Ye Ting. Gu has always understood his father's ardent expectations. Sheng is a typical lady. Although Sheng Jia is not a noble family, Sheng Minglan was personally taught by an old lady like Sheng Jia. Her family status is not high, but she has big rules. Coupled with the teaching of mother Kong, Sheng's rules are very handy.

Especially when I first met Sheng in ancient times, I saw Qi Heng's admiration and affection for her, and she was full of sweet words. You know, Qi Heng is the glory of the Qi government and the dream lover of many beautiful women in Beijing. Nine of the ten girls can't resist Qi Heng's love at all, and the other one just pretends to be angry, but in fact her heart is full of joy. But Sheng Minglan has neither. Her only reaction was to be afraid that Qi Heng would bring trouble to herself, threatening and pleading, and repeatedly asking Qi Heng not to disclose anything. Later, Gu Cai knew that Sheng was an adulteress. It is precisely because Sheng is an ordinary woman, but she is not equal to others, and she knows her own position very well, which makes Gu sit up and take notice of Sheng. Especially when Sheng faced Qi Heng, he was selfish and timid, but Gu was supercilious to him, and he dared to answer his questions, which not only saved his face at home, but also calmed his anger.

The second time? The second time I saw Sheng was in the backyard of Guangji Temple. Sheng Minglan threw a piece of mud at Sheng Molan, with her hands akimbo and full of momentum. I have to mention here how important it is for women to be interesting. Whether Qi Heng or Gu Likes Sheng, a big reason is that Sheng is interesting. What is fun? That is, I can have fun and enjoy the fun in life. Whether fishing at home, cooking, or throwing mud at his sister, Sheng is somewhat happy. Because of this kind of happiness, sheng's depressed life will always bring some fun. It is precisely because of this interest that both Qi Heng and Gu are infected.

They all think that Sheng is a very interesting person. As long as she is with her, she is always happy and interesting. In fact, women's interest is just for fun. But a woman can really enjoy life only if she can have fun for herself. In any case, I naturally have my own happiness. And the joy of throwing mud made Gu remember it vividly when he met for the second time. In fact, what he remembers is not the matter itself, but the heartfelt happiness when he did it. Saint Minglan is interesting and precious because of this happiness.

The third time? The third time I met Sheng was in Yuanjia. Yuan Wenshao asked Gu to give his son a full moon wine and waited in the courtyard at the intersection of the banquet hall. He knows that Yuan Wenshao's wife is Sheng's sister, and Sheng will definitely come. As soon as he turned his head, he saw Sheng Minglan. In the original work, it says: Sheng's beauty is not played in TV series, you know. But in the original work, the beauty of Sheng is immediate. Wei Xiaoniang, Sheng's mother, first entered, but also the cream of sigh, with 3,000 makeup colorless. And Sheng, even if he is a monarch, has to admit that if you want to climb high, then Sheng is more than enough to be a prince's side princess. Sheng has always been excellent. Han Liang married Sheng Moran and saw Sheng Minglan's beauty, which was somewhat regrettable.

Interesting soul, beautiful face, gentle and modest, brave and resourceful, such a woman, with a face, comes home with a lining and walks through the flowers, naturally knowing the benefits of prosperity.

The fourth time? The fourth time I met Sheng was by the Jiangyang River. Gu saved Sheng, and Sheng recognized Gu from the ship at a glance. She was full of good words and begged for help from her maid. Gu was ordered by her, but she was still very happy. Shenghe talked about Gu's marriage. Frankly speaking, it is inevitable that a good daughter will be disdainful. Gu Hesheng exchanged languages several times, but Sheng did not fall behind. Sheng even advised Gu to marry Zhu Manniang, and Gu bluntly said that Zhu Manniang had a bad personality. Sheng saw Gu's contempt for Zhu Manniang and Yu's death was not simple. Such a smart woman, gu nature looked up again. You know, what Gu wants to marry is the hostess of this family. He doesn't want to marry Bai Lianhua like Daqin. What he wants to marry is a "fierce" woman who can survive in Houfu.

What is the most important thing? The key point is: Gu Fada. If Gu doesn't become a nouveau riche, it's not easy for him to marry Sheng. Because Shengjia is on the rise. Sheng's father and brother are both officials in North Korea and have an excellent reputation. And Wang Jiahe's haijia is Plutocratic family, which is incorruptible for generations. Sheng's two sisters also married into the halls. Although such a prosperous family is not everyone, it is not a small family that can be held at will. What's more, the only daughter at the helm of Shengjia is the old lady of Shengjia forever. Just burn the right incense and assist the new emperor. When the new emperor ascended the throne, Gu became an aristocrat to the extreme. Because Gu is very rich, he can attend the new emperor's wedding in person. And once married, the Sheng family has to obey, and even the old lady of the Sheng family can't change it. Of course, there is a more important point. The low door of Shengjia completely conforms to the emperor's weighing method.

Gu is so successful that what he fears most is to cover the Lord. If he marries a noble girl, it will arouse the emperor's fear, but if he marries an ordinary girl with a small family, then the emperor will feel at ease, at least Gu's consorts are not dignitaries. Sheng's own hardware and software met Gu's expectations of his wife. The powerful reading portal without power accords with the balance of the emperor. Therefore, Gu successfully married Sheng. Gu Aisheng? Of course I like it, but people like Gu never love men who can lose their minds. His liking must be based on the fact that Sheng Minglan meets his requirements. It's cruel, but I have to say, this is the truest side of marriage.

Don't take love as the only one? The standard concept of mate selection is rational. The more I read Gu Hesheng's love, the more practical I feel. Because it doesn't guide you, with love, you have everything, which can transcend identity, status, personality, life and death. Very grounded to tell you that marriage is for life. If you want to live, you must be suitable for two people, at least you can't drag each other down. At least two people are evenly matched in personal cultivation. Gu Hesheng is a very ordinary couple. Gu thinks Sheng meets his own marriage standards, but Sheng doesn't have many choices. He saw Gu's sincerity and was willing to live with someone as capable as Gu. Two rational people rationally chose their own lives, and both of them wanted to live a good life, so their lives got better and better, and their feelings gradually accumulated deeper. Good people choose good people. On this basis, two people can live a good life again, which is the essence of a good marriage.