Why does life always have so many disappointments? If only everything went well!

Why does life always have so many disappointments? If only everything went well! Everyone has to go through many things in his life. Only in this way can we grow up slowly. The more we know, if everything goes well in a person's life, it's just that the body is running and there is no deliberate interpretation. Since you are alive, you must live a wonderful life.

Why are there so many disappointments in life? Life is very tired and hard, because society is unfair. Living is very helpless and sad. If you want to cry, find something to do. It won't be boring, because life is like this. No one's life is smooth sailing. As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic in everything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be miracles in the next second, and life will inevitably fall and wait. Look up bravely. Sunshine is always after the storm! Let me give you an opinion. Do you think so? 1. See the world with your heart. Not everyone in this world is going well, it's up to you to solve it yourself. For example, if you were hit while walking, others would apologize to you. Sometimes you still feel angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually worse than you. Think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day?" If you feel that you are in a bad mood, don't think about it. If you are still thinking, let yourself be busy, let yourself have no leisure to think, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, don't fall in love with bed when you wake up in the morning, get up when you get up, get busy, open the window, breathe the fresh morning air, relax yourself, and imagine yourself as a happy little angel ... 3.4. Move some key joints and muscles of your body. When doing it, the speed should be even and slow, and the action does not need to have a certain format. As long as you feel the joints relax and the muscles relax. Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, and say "relax" in your mind every time you exhale. 6. Pay attention to some daily items. For example, look at a flower, a candle or anything soft and beautiful, and observe its nuances carefully. Light some spices and gently suck its fragrance. 7. Close your eyes and try to imagine some quiet and beautiful scenery, such as blue sea water, golden beach, white clouds, mountains and running water. 8. Do some favorite activities that have nothing to do with the current specific matters. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening to music and watching TV. 9. Life is easy, life is easy, but life is not easy. Don't worry, there are almost as many people in this society as you, but they all live happily. Not everyone can succeed. As long as you work hard at everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter what your life is like, I believe it will be wonderful. Come on! Finally, I wish you a happy life every day! ! ! You can think like this: there is no absolute in life, only relative; Let nature take its course, not deliberately; Everything goes with the fate and goes with the flow; Refer to the constellation, don't be obsessed. There is a saying that "one life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four products and five studies". The change and development of life depends largely on one's own grasp. Remember, human life is natural and inviolable, and human life is adjusted by two, three, four and five; The second luck refers to walking with people and meeting noble people. Third, feng shui is the most important, and both houses need to be adjusted; The fourth is to accumulate yin and yang, and Buddhism, Taoism and immortals cross; Fifth, reading is Confucianism, and the book has its own classics. Try to think about life this way: remember that there is only "more" in life, not "more" Reflecting on life, you will know a lot-life is short, and there are many reasons for people's life. Family, classmates, colleagues, lovers, lovers, comrades-in-arms, nobles, villains, enemies, benefactors ... first adjust your mentality; There are many important moments in a person's life, such as growing pains, confusion in entering a higher school, vague emotions, difficulty in finding a job, joy of success, lessons of failure, being a parent for the first time, the growth of children, last wishes before going to bed, and expectations after life ... So people should adjust their mentality. Think about what people live for. No matter why people live, they have their own reasons. Each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and each has its own needs. Over time, the demand is self-evident. Right or wrong, there is no absolute. At this time, right and wrong. Some right and wrong, later generations comment. Face life and be realistic. Let nature take its course and drift with the tide. For example, love-love has three reasons, one is the material basis; The second is the spiritual foundation; The third is sexual relations. If you have one of these three, you can have love. The function of material life makes you feel safe; The role of spiritual life gives you support; The function of sex life makes you happy. Similarly, when one of the three is seriously missing, then love will also be lost. The same is true of marriage and family. However, marriage and love are not exactly the same after all. When there is no money as the foundation, marriage will soon be in crisis or even die, while love may last for a while, but there will be cracks and uniqueness. If it can't be changed, it will eventually die. This can be found on the basis of philosophy and reality. People don't need to deceive themselves, they must be objective and face the reality. This is the helplessness of life. How many roads you have traveled in life, how many choices you have; How many things you experience in life, how many choices you have; This is life. Take advantage of the trend and be yourself; Rain or shine, don't be others. I am myself. There is only "more" in life, not "most". Try to be the person you think is perfect. People should strive to realize all kinds of wishes in life. Yourself, parents', lovers', friends', bosses' and colleagues' ... The realization of one's wishes and one's own wishes constitutes the road of life. Keep a state of mind, indifferent and peaceful. Have no desire, no desire, and enjoy yourself. How to understand if you don't want anything? Take advantage of the trend and be happy naturally. Go against the trend and lose more. If you want to be smart, control your desires. Enough is enough. You are superior. To put it bluntly, everyone has it. If it is successful, it is rare. World competition, survival of the fittest. Things outside are short-lived. If you want to be long-term, cultivate one's morality. Wisdom of Buddhism and Taoism warns all beings: the source of pain and the beginning of desire. It's really hard not to want anything. If it is easy, how can it be superior? A person's life, but a lot. Face helplessness, believe it or not? Believe in weakness and don't believe in self-deception. There is no rain for a long time, and there is little dew. There is no reason to know anywhere else. On the moonlit night, the gold list does not call the roll. Life is so helpless, I always feel that I have no sense of accomplishment and I don't know where to go. Life is going, how can we not be depressed? If you can enter an empty door, you may be depressed. A person's life is unpredictable; There is no fixed number of joys and sorrows; Juvenile abandonment, betrayal in middle age and loneliness in old age are three major sorrows; If you live all your life, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss; Just fell into the world, crying; The joy of childhood, compared with trouble; Teenagers try to be brave, and when they are frustrated, they will be folded; Young people are confused and emotionally confused; Even if you get married, there will be daily necessities; Middle-aged career, tired and rushing around; In order to take care of the old and the young, condescending; Seeking wealth in the middle and late stages, looking at flowers in the mirror; At the end of the family, children and grandchildren are unfilial; I am dying, and my wish has not come true; After a lifetime, there is a lot of helplessness; You ask what you are afraid of, and you have it everywhere; If you ask what you are afraid of, you will always encounter fear; In the world of mortals, fearless; If you want to get rid of dust, your heart is empty. It's important to keep an attitude. Think of others and learn to be content. Let nature take its course, and everything goes with fate. People have worries and joys, and they are extremely happy. Choosing to pursue is more important than the process. Peace of mind, sit tight. Dont Ask For Help, just want peace of mind. People are better than others and take care of themselves. Be kind to others, and Buddha will repay karma. Face helplessness and cheer up. Step out of the circle and look at yourself. Control desire, the immortal is helpless. To do this, luck has come. If so, I feel very good. Always, fate knows it. Every key point in life, that is, everyone's charm, constitutes a fleeting time. At every critical moment, you should grasp your own advantages and charm, so that you are a smart person. -When parents are happy in the world, when children are happy at the beginning of life, when they are successful in their studies, when they enter the social employment, when they are infatuated with their lovers, when they rise to power and win honors, when they tie the knot, when they are in their children's arms for the first time, when their children grow up carefree, when they get married and start a family, and when they are welcomed back to their hometown. When their predecessors lined up in front of their sickbeds, when their children kept giving good news, when they died, when they had support, when they wrote their wills in calligraphy. Try to grasp yourself. Actually, I figured it out. Everything is clear. To understand life, people must first adjust their mentality. First adjust the mentality, then reflect, then be wise, then have no desire, and finally know God's will, reason, people and destiny.

Why does life always have so many disappointments? When you are mature, you will miss the confusion and hesitation now. You will miss yesterday's youth and naivety, none of them.

Why do people have so many things? Why can't everything go well? 1. People suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that your self-cultivation is not enough.

If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go.

4. Discipline yourself and leave others alone.

5, don't forgive all beings, don't forgive all beings, it is bitter for yourself.

6. Don't say that others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. What about your own practice? What do you know about life?

7. People who have insufficient blessings often hear right and wrong; Those who have enough blessings have never heard of right or wrong.

8. You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity.

9. You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

10, the world is inherently painful, without exception.

1 1. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.

12. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.

13, don't waste your life, you will regret it.

14, put it down and there will be no trouble.

15, every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.

16, it's not pitiful when you know you're confused, and it's most pitiful when you don't know you're confused.

17, arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't be saved.

18, don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, it is yourself who suffers.

19, you should tolerate people who have different opinions with you, so that life will be better. It will be painful for you if you keep trying to change him. Learn how to put up with him. You must learn how to tolerate him.

To admit one's greatness is to admit one's ignorance.

2 1. If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease.

22. People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.

23. It takes only one sentence to destroy a person, but a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please have mercy.

24, when you give advice to others, if you don't care about others' self-esteem, then no matter how good it is, it is useless.

Don't confuse arrogance with your wisdom. Don't let your modesty lack wisdom.

26. There is no need to look back. Who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite back?

27. Being jealous of others won't add any benefits to yourself. Envy of others does not reduce their achievements.

28. Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like.

29, how many people want to leave this world, will say the same sentence, this world is really helpless and desolate!

Love is not charity, you can't just give it to others. Feelings have no formula, no principle and no reason to follow. But people are still insisting and pursuing until they die.

3 1, please express your dissatisfaction and grievances with sympathy and gentleness, and others will accept it easily.

32. People who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for an opportunity is a fool.

33, can say can't do, is not true wisdom.

34. Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your opinions in a hurry.

Why did you put the poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?

36. If you can't get it, we will always think that he is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, when you know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.

37. The world is only stable, not perfect.

38. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so we should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.

39. Pay more attention to others, and you will pay less attention to yourself. You got it? 40. If you want to know the sword robbery in the world, you can only listen to the midnight sound of Tumen. Don't just blame yourself for being ill, but look at how many sentient beings have died by your sword.

4 1, hating others is your great loss.

42. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.

43. People who think they have wealth are actually owned by wealth.

44. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of your emotional attachment can you feel at ease.

45. Fate is not to muddle along, but to leave it to fate.

46. Don't be too sure of your opinion, so there will be less regret.

47. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.

48. It is shameful to cover up your shortcomings by hurting others.

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49. A person who is full of jealousy, dishonest and incorrect in speech cannot be regarded as a person with correct facial features. 50. Tell more jokes and handle things with a humorous attitude, and life will be easier.

5 1, living in the applause of others is a person who can't stand the test.

52. Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made.

53. To know a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are consistent, so we can know whether he is sincere.

54. The truth of life is hidden in the plain.

55, people who don't take a shower, hard to wear perfume will not be fragrant. Fame and honor come from real talent and knowledge. Germany is naturally fragrant.

You'd better accept it rather than reject it.

57. Adversity is a necessary process of growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will become stronger and stronger.

58. You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.

59. People who can think of others will never be lonely.

If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will be extraordinary.

6 1, forgiving others is to leave room for manoeuvre in your heart.

62. Time will pass. Let time wash away your troubles!

63. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be miserable.

64. People who always distort the goodwill of others are hopeless.

65. People are not bad, they are just habits. Everyone has habits, but the depth is different. As long as he has a good heart, forgive him if he can, and don't treat him as a bad person.

66. Tell one lie and make up ten to make up for it. Why bother?

67. In fact, people who love beauty just fall in love with themselves.

68. There is no one in the world who will never be vilified or admired forever. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.

69. Those who praise and admire us are not famous teachers. Those who will tell us and guide us are good teachers, and we will make progress with them.

70. What you have now will become someone else with your death, so why not give it to someone who really needs it now?

7 1. Living a day in vain and doing nothing is like committing theft.

72. Silence is the best answer to slander.

73. To be respectful to others is to be solemn to yourself.

74. If you have a selfless love, you will have everything.

75, hatred can never dissolve hatred, only tolerance can dissolve hatred, this is the eternal truth.

76. It is better for you to accept than complain. There is no better way for you to accept the unchangeable fact.

77. Don't bring trouble to yourself because of the ignorance of all beings. Don't make yourself miserable because of the ignorance of all beings.

78. Don't be angry or sad when others say that we are not good. You don't have to be happy to say we are good. There are good and bad in it, depending on whether you can use it.

When your mistake is exposed, don't lose your temper. Don't think that being willful or noisy can cover up or overcome your shortcomings.

80. Don't always feel unhappy. There are more people suffering in the world than we are.

8 1, a stupid person, always wants others to know him. Smart people try to understand themselves.

82. Coming is accidental, and going is inevitable. So you must, with the fate unchanged, with the fate unchanged. 83. As long as we face the reality, we can surpass it.

84. Conscience is everyone's fairest judge. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience.

85. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.

86. Doing things is just learning to be a man.

87. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for?

88. Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment.

89. Being brave enough to accept criticism from others can just adjust your own shortcomings.

90. Thank God for everything.

9 1, don't be aggressive, don't be lethal, don't brag about your abilities, don't preach the evil of others, and naturally you can turn your enemy into your friend.

92. A person who often looks at other people's shortcomings is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.

93. Right and wrong happen every day, regardless of nature. People who see what you do often think that others are paying attention to you, or hope that others will pay attention to you and have a more troublesome life.

If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.

95. To overcome the fear of death, you must accept the idea that all people in the world will die.

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96. Although you think I have a lot, I ask for very little.

109, eat it and pull it. People must learn to let go, otherwise they will? Constipation.

Thank God for what I don't have.

1 1 1. I can cook for you, but I can't eat for you. Everyone is full when eating, and everyone's life and death are personal.

1 12, it's easier to look down on others than to settle yourself.

1 13, as long as you live your own life, you don't have to mind the distortion and right and wrong of others.

1 14. If you're getting married, I'll tell you a very important philosophical quote. You must tolerate each other's shortcomings. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.

1 15, it will be a blessing if you can spend this day safely. How many people today can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today.

1 16, right and wrong, gains and losses, can not be evaluated until the final result.

1 17, you don't have to argue with cause and effect. Cause and effect are never misleading. You don't have to argue with fate, which is the fairest judge.

1 18, you have your outlook on life, I have my outlook on life, and I won't interfere with you. As long as I can, I will influence you. If not, then I'll accept my fate.

If you want to master eternity, then you must control the present.

120, bad mouths should never come out of our mouths, no matter how bad they are. The more you scold him, your heart will be polluted. Think about it, he is your good knowledge.

12 1. When you start your life tomorrow, if someone argues with you, you let him win. This winning or losing is just a literal concept. When you let the other side win, you have nothing to lose. What did he win by winning? Understand what? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what?

122, most of our lives are wasted on the unpredictable written language.

123, don't always feel frustrated. You should think that he is very kind to me. This is the cultivation of kung fu.

124, others can violate the cause and effect, others can hurt us, beat us and slander us. But we can't hate others for it. Why? We must keep a complete nature and a pure heart.

125. When you contact anyone, you should ask yourself, what good am I to him? Let him benefit. If I can't use my personal morality, knowledge and practice to benefit others, I will be in debt.

126, if a person has no feelings for suffering, it is not easy to feel sympathy for others. If you want to learn the spirit of saving the suffering, you have to suffer first.

127, what kind of patience do ordinary people have in the face of each other's power, wealth and strength and submit to humiliation when they have no choice? The real patience is that even if he bullies you and feels sorry for you, he can't touch you, and you have enough strength to deal with him, but you can tolerate him and think that his nature is the same as mine, just temporarily confused or influenced by bad environment. You don't have to care about him. It is true patience to tolerate him in such a situation and mood.

128 if you look at it from birth to death, who has not been my parents, brothers, sisters, relatives and family members? Who is not my enemy? If there is kindness, everyone is good to me; If there are grievances, everyone has grievances with me. What's the difference between us? As far as wisdom and stupidity are concerned, everyone has his moments of wisdom and his moments of stupidity. Smart people may become stupid, and stupid people may become smart. The worst person has done a lot of good things and will never be bad; Good people have done a lot of bad things, and they may not be good people in the future. So we think over and over again that the so-called unjust relatives and virtuous fools, these many different concepts, will naturally fade away. This is definitely not chaos, nor is it that we don't know whether this is good or bad, but that we want to treat our selfish differences as an equal concept from the beginning!

129, this world doesn't belong to you, so you don't have to abandon it. What you have to abandon is all persistence. Everything is for my use, not for my use.

130, I would rather forgive others myself than let others forgive you.

13 1. When you face things with troubles, you will feel that everything goes around comes around, and the world will become ugly and hateful.

132. If you want to become a Buddha, if you want to become a dragon, you must first be a sentient being.

Although we can't change the world around us, we should change ourselves and face it with love and wisdom.

Why do so many people always feel that life is not satisfactory? Is it your mood or life is not satisfactory? I once told people that people's desires can never be fully satisfied, so there will be many unpleasant things. At this time you can only adjust your mood and do your best. Sometimes unpleasant things will make you laugh unconsciously. o(∩_∩)o ...

Every day goes well.

Why do people make a wrong decision with so much disappointment! Because they are all wrong again and again, they will be unhappy one after another.

People are smooth, money is smooth, and everything is smooth: people are smooth, money is smooth, and everything is smooth;

Dialogue: harmony between heaven and earth, harmony everywhere.

Why do some people do everything right? All good people are not omnipotent, and it is impossible to do everything well!

Can everything go well in a person's life? In fact, everyone has their own problems to face, and the troubles in life always seem to go hand in hand. Whether you have figured it out or not, the days are still passing day by day. Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day. People should learn to adjust their mentality, or use a psychological hint to make themselves happy. You can say to yourself loudly: I am really happy, I am really happy, I am really happy, why not? Go out for a walk and get some fresh air. You can also go on an outing with three or five friends and go shopping to buy things you like. I am in a bad mood. I usually take this method. I will have tea and chat with my friends and sing and dance to vent my feelings. There is a kind of yoga that can adjust my psychology and physiology, relax my mood and regulate my endocrine. You can also try. I listened to that song: Peach Blossoms Bloom, and I am in a good mood these two days.

Satisfied, please adopt.