The influence of the north intersection in Libra

If your north intersection is in Libra, or your north intersection is in the seventh house.

Constellation motto: share with others and you will get more.

Your past life.

Keywords: defensive characteristics, narcissism, making assumptions, rules

Personal achievements accumulated in the last life, self-sufficiency and independent action have made people of this ethnic group have no concept of teamwork. People at the northern intersection of Libra once had too many past entities, which made them play the role of soldiers. Soldiers on the battlefield don't care about anyone, the only concern is to survive and try their best to kill the enemy. If you look at your colleagues, you may get yourself killed. So all your spirits are focused on yourself, your body, your fighting ability, your living position and so on.

You have an exaggerated desire to survive now. You are competitive, purposeful and resourceful; You can always know clearly what you did, or what happened at that time, which will affect you. You are eager to be with others, eager to love others, eager to be loved by others, but you don't know what to do. You are afraid to let go of your firm grasp of self-awareness because you are worried that the "battle" may start at any time. In order to survive, you must stay strong and alert.

After the past life of the warrior role, you have lost the ability to connect with love and cooperate with others. Therefore, after you enter this kind of life, you will find it strange to cooperate with others or have sex with others. But you shouldn't worry, because this kind of life is based on relationships with others. As long as you know where you are going, the old habits of the past will not hinder you. In fact, you have been cooperating all your life. The opportunity to correct mistakes is always safe, because opportunities such as marriage and partnership will come soon.

People at the northern intersection of Libra must take special precautions against narcissism. What you show externally is that everything is under control, and you have qualities that others envy. When others praise you, you will feel great, but in private, you are always worried about your true face. The people and things you really like may be the opposite of your image.

People at the northern intersection of Libra tend to be addicted to narcissism and reject people who can enhance your real sense of security. You may tend to care only about your own happiness, or become a victim of vanity, for example, in order to strive for the best things that life can provide and keep your body in the best condition. Your values may be simple and superficial. But in this life, you have to really love someone as yourself, so that you can have a broader understanding of your soul.

Features that should be developed (efforts in this part should help you find hidden talents and talents)

Cooperation, diplomacy and strategy, increase understanding of the needs of others, provide selfless support without expecting feedback, create a win-win situation, share, observe things from the perspective of others, and cooperate with inner communication.

Tendencies to get rid of (trying to reduce the influence of these tendencies can make life easier and more interesting)

Impulsive, opinionated without careful consideration, lack of awareness of the needs of others, self-centered, lack of good financial judgment, expect others to be the same as themselves, don't care about others' eyes, refuse to compromise, get angry easily and worry too much about survival.

Traps to avoid

The biggest problem of people at the northern intersection of Libra is selfishness, but if you think that only when others constantly meet their own needs can you feel safe and maintain their interpersonal relationships, then you will always need more attention and energy to be satisfied.

The trap you should avoid is the endless pursuit of independence. Life has proved to people at the northern intersection of Libra that achievement and independence can't make you feel complete. Most importantly, when you become a member of a group, you will never feel strong enough about yourself. Sometimes you need to risk losing yourself and try to support another person. Interestingly, once you start to support others selflessly, you will feel happy and honored for your true self.

What exactly do you want?

What you really want is to be your own master, to be the focus of attention, to find yourself from different living conditions, and to be among people who can inject energy into yourself. To achieve this goal, people at the northern intersection of Libra need to shift their attention from themselves to how to discover the essence of people who are attracted to them. Once you know who really appreciates you and who wants to support you, once you start to inject energy into them, the energy that comes back to you will create the happiness you want.

Your talent and adaptability to your career

You are an excellent consultant, diplomat and arbitrator. You have the gift of clearly understanding the nature of the difference between A and B and successfully communicating with each other. What you have adopted is a way to promote mutual understanding, fairness and harmonious compromise.

People at the northern intersection of Libra also have extraordinary talents in beauty and art. When your goal is to boost the morale of the audience, excite the public, or increase the confidence of the audience, you may become a famous artist or public speaker, and you will achieve great success, whether materially or personally, or play any supporting role (supporting role).

Your needs: identification, confidence in interpersonal relationships, acceptance, harmony, patience, sensitivity and consideration.

People at the northern intersection of Libra are eager to be affirmed and hope to be included in another person's energy range. When others give you love, you will feel relaxed and happy. This is a correct need: in the entity of this life, love from others will bring you the spiritual balance you need.

You may have little confidence in interpersonal relationships because you lacked experience in cooperating or sharing with others in previous lives. It is also easy for you to endanger your self-confidence by focusing too much on yourself. People at the northern intersection of Libra actually have strong self-confidence, but you didn't touch your self-confidence at the social level until you began to share it with others. When you focus on how to help others increase their confidence, you will feel more confident yourself.

You love life very much. In this life, you should learn how to expand this love and include others in the object of love. You need to consider another person, find out the limit of the other person, and then go out and share your experience. You should remember that sharing experiences with this special person can make people grow more than reaching your goals. (Personal Tailor: The love trend of lovestruck couples is approved in detail)

Your interpersonal relationship: lack of experience, fear, sincere dedication and record, choosing the right partner and independence.

Because they lived in a military environment in their previous lives, people at the intersection of Libra and North are extremely inexperienced in dealing with interpersonal relationships. Some people in this ethnic group dare not love others because you are not used to people communicating with love. In this life, your early attempts may fail because you haven't learned how to convey love. You'll shut off your feelings. But what you have to learn in this life is that someone will love you because of your unique mind.

You want a partner who can share the fun of life with you on an equal basis and give back with appreciation. But if you want this energy to return to yourself, you must choose the right partner. Part of successful interpersonal relationships is actually related to differences. Find out who is the real possible partner, not just how that person meets the needs of Libra's northern intersection.

You may seem inconsiderate. When you make a decision, you don't consider other people's reactions, wishes or needs. Your behavior will not get any response from another person. In giving, people at the northern intersection of Libra must pay more attention to the timing. When your partner shows a need, you should give it. If you wait until you feel ready to start giving, the opportunity has long since disappeared.

People at the northern intersection of Libra are too used to being independent and mysterious, so when others really know you, you will become a little embarrassed. You worry that showing weakness in front of others will make you more vulnerable. You want to be independent forever, but you want to have interpersonal relationships. You can't have your cake and eat it. When you are in a leading position, all the focus is on you, and you will feel good. But when others are in control, you will be embarrassed because you don't understand your role.

You should understand that if you can spend some time communicating in this situation, you will usually be allowed to lead. Others may not be responsible, but you just don't want to be directed by others without taking care of your feelings.

People at the northern intersection of Libra are more likely to have the idea of "dealing with a man as he deals with you". You want everything to be fair and your partner can share the sacrifices you have to make. The man at the northern intersection of Libra wants the other half to get up and make breakfast, or help you do something to make yourself feel balanced. You don't consider her sleep requirements, and you don't care if she can achieve balance in her heart. However, the real balance should be: everyone pays 100% when he feels balanced and happy. As long as people at the northern intersection of Libra don't care whether they have been treated fairly all the time, your interpersonal relationship will flourish.

For people at the northern intersection of Libra, learning how to build relationships with others in a meaningful way is the main challenge in this life. There is a very strong cooperative relationship behind any successful field in your life. No matter in career or happiness, what you feel frustrated is that you haven't learned the credit needed to build a successful relationship.

Your goal: admit individual differences, experience expanded self and work as a team.

You may be selfish, impulsive and completely inconsiderate of other people's situations. When your goal is not achieved quickly, you often take control of the situation unexpectedly. It's easy for you to jump to conclusions without knowing the actual situation of another person. Even if your winter vacation may be to promote the interests of everyone concerned, others may become outsiders because of you, and they will feel deprived of their interests and hold resentment. The most important trust for you will be destroyed. Later, people at the northern intersection of Libra will feel isolated and misunderstood, and feel that their kindness has been let down.

You need to spend time communicating, not forcing things to go your way. As long as you are willing to take a little time to deal with it, in fact, you have an extremely rare ability in diplomacy. You can create great emotional communication between the two sides, and at the same time you can achieve your goals smoothly.

People at the northern intersection of Libra need to develop the ability to present their vulnerability. You should learn to be sensitive to others, be willing to accept their feelings and opinions, and learn to let others understand you and share your feelings and fears. In your previous life, you were extremely defensive about vulnerability, and your tough program said, "Never let anyone know your weakness." But in this life, what you have to learn is that vulnerability itself has great power. It is true that the best soldier is the one who knows when to fight and when to make peace, but if you don't compare with another person, you don't know what is.

In order to make your interpersonal relationship lasting, you need to learn how to establish intimate relationships with others. Be close to others, and you can grow. Otherwise, you are still out of reach and out of reach.