My mother always wants to turn me into an identical person?

As an elder, your mother must have her experience in dealing with people, and she wants to pass it on to you.

It must be well-intentioned, but sometimes, the ways and means are not necessarily right.

Or too hasty, or a little too one-sided.

Give you the following advice:

First, you should try to change what she is right, including what you really lack.

Second, she may be one-sided, in fact, you may also be one-sided, so learn to be open, learn to be tolerant, and learn to exchange needed goods.

Young people, especially those with more knowledge and culture, should be more reasonable and considerate.

Third, be considerate, understand your mother properly, and know that she is considerate and kind to you.

Some problems may not be experienced by young people for a while, but when you get older, especially after having children,

You'll feel better.

Fourth, find a suitable time to chat with my mother, have a heart-to-heart talk, exchange ideas and exchange needed items.

Sometimes, it is also a good way to ask your other relatives, friends and elders to help you judge, talk and talk.

Fifth, I hope you can open your mind, broaden your horizons, think more and look at the problem from a long-term perspective.

You know: there are always more ways than problems, and everything will be fine.

Everything will change. When thinking about things at ordinary times, don't be too rigid, too mechanical, too serious or even too pessimistic.

6. Will it be menopause? Please ask her to pay attention to conditioning, and everyone should take care of it.