How to deal with the cold violence of Taurus men

Taurus people heat up very slowly. They are used to being cared for and cared for. If you can't get along with Taurus for a few days, you will find that his behavior pattern is very different from before, and it is easy to feel bored, disgusted or even rejected by you. This will make him afraid of being abandoned, and he will think it is a sign of disrespect for himself. He always makes you pay all your love and care in cold violence. So how to deal with the cold violence of Taurus men? Let's take a look.

1. Taurus is a patient person although the temperature rises slowly. As long as you take the initiative, Taurus will think that you are still very important in this relationship, because if you don't take the initiative, he will lose his temper with you, and even if he is good to himself at ordinary times, he won't like you.

If Taurus is always cold and violent, then he will probably be abandoned, and then you won't be nice to him, because he doesn't care about you anymore. It's best to give him some time to get used to this situation, but it will only make the relationship between you better. If Taurus doesn't want to be separated from you, it will be good for your relationship, so that you can make Taurus feel that you are a reliable person and love him.

You can solve the problem by chatting with each other more or taking each other out to play more. If he has something to say, don't think it is unnecessary to talk to him like this. When you both have a lot to say, you should talk it over.

Taurus men like to give people the impression that they are very considerate, but sometimes when you look at Taurus men's performance, you will find that this is actually just that they don't show it. Don't coax Taurus when he is angry. Instead, you should explain the ins and outs of the matter to Taurus and coax him again to avoid the contradiction between them from intensifying again. If Taurus boys go on like this, they will treat themselves as playthings at will, which will easily give people a feeling of ruthlessness. Many times in Taurus, men and women need to rely on each other to protect themselves. If you are hurt by the other party, it will be very painful and even give up. When Taurus is cold and violent to you, don't let yourself get hurt again.

3. If Taurus feels that he is not doing well enough and is angry, let the other person know that he is taken care of, so apologize.

Because he thinks you are the one who really cares about him. This kind of cold violence is because he loves you too much, so he wants to wake him up in this way. If one day you want to get back together with him, let the other person know that your behavior is wrong. Don't feel insecure about both of you because of a moment of anger! You should give each other a chance to change! In this way, he will feel that he is not doing well enough because you don't love yourself enough, and you will gradually become indifferent!

4, it is best to take the initiative to give each other more space and time to slowly adjust their state.

If Taurus doesn't want to quarrel with you, you'd better not keep him so busy. At this time, the other person's mood may become very excited. All you have to do is give each other more space and time to calm down. This can avoid contradictions and conflicts, and effectively prevent Taurus from becoming cold and distrustful of you, even appearing by your side when you need him.

5. You can make friends with Taurus first, and do something that has a bad relationship and has no common topic to divert others' attention, which will make him more patient.

Taurus likes many things, so you can decide for yourself. If you don't like it and are embarrassed to refuse him, there is no way, unless you have been together and are friends. Taurus, as a more rational person, will not lose his temper like Sagittarius, so when facing the cold violence of Taurus boys, we should find ways to adjust his emotions and make him more confident in himself. First of all, don't cater to him blindly, have your own ideas, and don't always want to cater to a man. Secondly, when he finds that you are not suitable, you need to change yourself to adapt to this man, and then learn to control yourself properly, not to control Taurus boys. And learn to let go!