After four marriages, he refused the title of "love rat", claiming that every woman is true love.

Some people say that Xu Yajun is "love rat",

But he explained himself: "I only have these women around me, and I want to give all the women I have loved a complete home."

In the name of people TV series 20 17 exploded. In addition to Secretary Dakang and Hou Liangping,

The role of "Public Security Director Qi Tongwei" also left a deep impression on the audience.

In the play, "Qi Tongwei" climbed to a high position on his first wife, and then turned around and married his little wife.

In reality, as the actor of Qi Tongwei,

The emotional experience of actor Xu Yajun can only be said to be worse.

One,

Actor Xu Yajun, 1964, from Handan, Hebei.

Because of job transfer, Xu Yajun moved to Beijing with his parents when he was very young.

Maybe he inherited his parents' excellent genes, and Xu Yajun was handsome since he was a child.

Wherever you go, you will be praised by others.

Xu Yajun likes singing since he was a child. He joined the choir after he arrived in Beijing, but he was fired after only three days.

The teacher said that Xu Yajun was a serious "tone-deaf", singing out of tune and there was no way to correct it.

In desperation, Xu Yajun had to give up singing.

Although he could not continue to sing, he did not give up his pursuit of literature and art.

At the age of eight, Xu Yajun joined the children's performance team of CCTV, where he was exposed to performance.

1975 TV series "youth is like fire" to perform the team's selection of actors.

Xu Yajun got this opportunity, and with this experience, he was more convinced that he could become a professional actor.

/kloc-at the age of 0/2, Xu Yajun was admitted to the children's acting class of the Central Academy of Drama.

Here, he and Cai Guoqing became classmates.

After graduation, Xu Yajun was assigned to the Children's Art Theatre and became a dramatic actor.

1984 TV series "Looking for the Return of the World" sent an invitation to Xu Yajun, hoping that he could play a "bad boy" in the play.

As soon as he got the script, Xu Yajun exclaimed that this "delinquent boy" was simply a tailor-made role for himself.

This delinquent boy named "Earl" is chic and bohemian.

Xu Yajun immediately replied to the cast and agreed to play.

After taking a leave from the Children's Art Troupe, Xu Yajun immediately devoted himself to the shooting of TV series.

In the play, Xu Yajun's interpretation makes the role of "Earl" shine.

Outside the play, his handsome appearance and cheerful personality also attracted Song Dandan's attention.

At this point, Song Dandan has a minor celebrity. Although she has worked with many actors, she still has a unique feeling for Xu Yajun.

The two often get together to play cards in their spare time, and long-term private contact has enhanced mutual understanding.

But perhaps because of their youth, neither of them took that step first, and they remained friends until the filming was finished.

It is inevitable that they will leave soon, so we agreed to cooperate again in the future.

Surprisingly, Xu Yajun was grounded by the Children's Art Troupe after returning to Beijing, and was not allowed to go out to shoot film and television dramas for the next three years.

This makes Xu Yajun, whose acting career has just started, feel extremely depressed, as if reality had hit his dream.

In the days when children's art was banned, Xu Yajun and Huang Jianping, both children's art actors, met and fell in love.

The relationship between the two people who established a love relationship quickly warmed up, and soon the news of engagement came out.

And the "future" that had been agreed with Song Dandan was completely forgotten by Xu Yajun.

Shortly after Xu Yajun got married, Song Dandan got married in a flash.

The two eventually parted ways and became friends forever.

After marriage, Xu Yajun lived a happy life.

Unfortunately, Huang Jianping soon became seriously ill and eventually died because of ineffective treatment.

Xu Yajun just walked out of the career trough with the encouragement of his wife, but his wife's sudden death hit him even harder. He often hides in his room without eating or drinking, and stays in Lacrimosa all day.

Second,

After his wife died, Xu Yajun took part in the filming of "Getting the World Back", which was broadcast on TV.

At that time, everyone was fascinated by the handsome "Count".

Numerous love letters poured in from all over the country, and Xu Yajun became the "dream lover" of girls all over the country.

What's more, some rich women even proposed to Xu Yajun with tens of thousands of dollars. Looking at the scenes in front of him, Xu Yajun really realized his popularity.

But in the face of sudden popularity, he didn't lose his direction at this time. He began to calm down and seriously think about his future direction.

At this time, the film industry is gradually emerging on the land of China. Xu Yajun noticed this change and wanted to devote himself to the film industry and become a film actor.

However, after trying, several films that Xu Yajun participated in did not cause a great sensation, and this attempt ended in failure.

Xu Yajun, who tasted failure in the movie, gradually became disheartened, and he even had the idea of not being an actor.

After a struggle, Xu Yajun decided to retire from the background. He wants to continue to shine behind the scenes and find his own advantages.

However, the trivial and messy behind-the-scenes work made Xu Yajun unable to adapt for a long time. He gradually realized that only loyalty to the audience was his ultimate destination.

After thinking, Xu Yajun returned to the front of the screen. At this moment, a woman quietly came to his side. She is Xu Yajun's second wife, Zhang Xi.

Zhang Xi is also an actor. She was once known to the audience by virtue of the movie "The Time of the Cardamom".

She and Xu Yajun are both children's drama actors. On one occasion, Zhang Xi secretly promised Xu Yajun's heart, but Huang Jianping beat her to it, so she could only bury her feelings deeply in her heart.

Since there is no resistance, Zhang Xi doesn't want to hide his feelings any more. She took this step and began to actively pursue Xu Yajun.

Women chasing men's interlayer gauze, at Zhang Xi's initiative, Xu Yajun quickly surrendered, and the two entered the marriage hall.

For her husband, Zhang Xi has always held the mood of worship, so no matter what Xu Yajun said and did, Zhang Xi expressed his support.

Therefore, after marriage, Zhang Xi offered to quit her job and concentrate on being Xu Yajun's most solid backing at home.

Facing his wife's attitude, Xu Yajun was very moved at first. He promised Zhang Xi that he would work hard and give her a better life in the future.

Since then, Xu Yajun has been filming outside for a long time, and all related matters at home are taken care of by Zhang Xi. But as a wife who loves her husband deeply, Zhang Xi has no complaints.

However, without the bottom line contribution of one party, feelings cannot be maintained for a long time. Love needs the joint management of both sides, and needs to pay and return.

Zhang Yi's unilateral efforts finally touched her, while Xu Yajun didn't live at home for a long time. He simply took everything Zhang Yi did for granted.

Zhang Xi's phone call to Xu Yajun always hangs up in a hurry because he misses her husband. In this era of gathering less and leaving more, no matter what kind of love Zhang Xi and Xu Yajun once had, they are now indifferent.

In this bleak day, Xu Yajun gradually felt that life was too dull. He longed for something drastic to happen and strong feelings to fill the emptiness in his heart.

At this time, He Qing appeared beside Xu Yajun.

1995, Xu Yajun starred in the romantic film Storm, in which he met He Qing.

Xu Yajun and he qing are the same age, just 3 1 year old this year.

He Qing is a famous "classical beauty" in the entertainment circle, and her fame is no less than that of Xu Yajun.

She once performed well in the TV series "Green River Grass", and her smile, brushwork and style were all recognized by Qiong Yao.

In addition, He Qing participated in the old four classical novels and TV series.

In this way, after two "evenly matched" people met, unusual feelings spread between them.

Xu Yajun was intoxicated with He Qing's sweet smile, while Xu Yajun's humor touched the girl's heart in He Qing.

They love each other deeply and agree to deal with things around them and lay a good foundation for their future.

As a "married man", Xu Yajun has completely forgotten his wife Zhang Xi, only thinking about how to spend his life with He Qing.

At this time, He Qing also had a boyfriend who had been in love for five years-Liu Wei. To be with Xu Yajun, He Qing and Wei Liu broke up.

Faced with her boyfriend's reluctance and persuasion, He Qing never gave Liu Wei any hope, and Xu Yajun also filed for divorce with his wife Zhang Xi.

Zhang Xi, who loves her husband deeply, didn't respond for a long time after hearing the news. She repeatedly asked Xu Yajun if she heard wrong.

But Xu Yajun replied coldly that she didn't, because she wanted to divorce her.

Zhang Xi recalled her waiting and paying for so many years, and the final result was her husband's "empathy" and falling in love with others.

However, Xu Yajun doesn't feel sorry at all. He explained to Zhang Xi: "He Qing is the person I love, and I want to give her happiness."

Hearing Xu Yajun's words, Zhang Xi excitedly began to roll in front of him, screaming and asking Xu Yajun how he lost his conscience.

While speaking, Zhang Xi had a heart attack because of excessive emotion. After being sent to the hospital for emergency treatment, Zhang Xi recovered his life.

Xu Yajun looked at his wife's pale face and didn't change her mind. She still insists on divorcing Zhang Xi.

Looking at her husband's indifferent expression, Zhang Xi knew that she had no chance of winning. She finally agreed to divorce Xu Yajun, thus realizing the "true love" between Xu Yajun and He Qing.

For a time, Xu Yajun and He Qing were boycotted by netizens online, and Xu Yajun was criticized as "love rat" who abandoned his family and wife.

He Qing was also accused of being a "third party" and corruptly interfering with other people's families.

To this end, she also posted on social media: "Without He Qing, there are Qing Li and Zhang Qing, they will still divorce!"

In the face of the overwhelming rumors and negative news, Xu Yajun and He Qing didn't take it to heart. After many twists and turns, Xu Yajun finally married back to He Qing under the pressure of a thousand pounds.

Third,

After marriage, Xu Yajun acted like a "model husband". He said to He Qing more than once: "Being able to marry you is the greatest happiness in my life."

200 1, He Qing gave birth to Xu Yajun's first child-son Xu He.

Through this name, we can see how much Xu Yajun loves He Qing at this time, and everything between them is condensed in each other's surnames.

He Qing thought there was true love between himself and Xu Yajun, and they could join hands for life.

However, contrary to expectations, married life and the promise of love are not equivalent exchange items at all. No matter how sweet feelings are when you are young, you will die slowly in simple food.

In 2003, Xu Yajun and He Qing agreed to divorce, and the reason is still unknown to outsiders.

The crystallization of their love-son Xu Heze was sentenced to be raised by Xu Yajun.

Recalling this earth-shattering but lonely feeling, He Qing, the heroine, once said, "He wishes I could stay at home and be a housewife, but I love acting too much. I like my job and I don't want to give up. This may be the biggest contradiction between us. "

At this time, 39-year-old Xu Yajun had been married for three times, and many emotional failures made him lose confidence in marriage. He decided not to get married, and he would only concentrate on developing his career and improving his acting skills.

The TV series "Empty Mirror" starring her and Hong Tao became a new starting point for his career development.

But after that, Xu Yajun, who had given up love and marriage, met the most suitable person for her.

Once, an all-star cast composed of Chen, Wang and Zhang Shu met the actress.

Cutie is younger than Xu Yajun 12 years old. A quick glance on the court only left a little impression on the other side, but did not reveal too much emotion.

But it may be providence. In 2004, in the emotional drama Days Together directed by Ethan, Xu Yajun and Zhang Shu had closer contact.

In the long-term cooperation with the actors, Xu Yajun gradually developed strong feelings for the little girl.

Although Zhang Shu is still a little-known "walk-on actor" at this time, Xu Yajun has long been a famous "veteran" in the entertainment circle.

But the gap between their status and fame has not become an obstacle to their emotional sublimation, because they have the same hobby-golf, and there are endless topics between them.

Xu Yajun told cutie that he didn't like golf at first because he was impatient.

Compared with golf, which pays special attention to skills and needs patient exercise, he prefers football, which is a very explosive sport.

However, in a football match, Xu Yajun was so excited that he fell on the court and broke his leg.

After that, he can only leave the football field forever and turn to golf.

After a long training, Xu Yajun gradually mastered some golf skills.

Compared with Xu Yajun's superb skills, Zhang Shu is even more unfamiliar.

In order to encourage cutie, Xu Yajun specially made a training plan for her, and often went to explain and demonstrate for her personally.

In this process, Zhang Shu gradually felt that Xu Yajun might not be as "playboy" as public opinion said, and his serious and responsible attitude gradually entered Zhang Shu's heart.

A young girl in her twenties often has an unconscious closeness and admiration for a mature man who is in an "unquestionable" age. This is also the charm of "Uncle".

Cutie became the first person to be tempted, and Xu Yajun gradually felt the emotional changes of the little girl around him.

But at this time, Xu Yajun is full of self-confidence. He felt that he was not worthy of Zhang Shu anyway.

However, cutie gave Xu Yajun strong confidence with her practical actions, and her vitality rekindled Xu Yajun's yearning and belief in love and marriage.

Finally, the wave of love washed away some disturbing factors, and Xu Yajun and cutie came together.

Fourth,

However, their emotional development is not smooth, and the first problem before them is the opposition of cutie's parents.

Cutie's parents almost fainted after learning that her daughter had found a "three-married man". No matter how her daughter explained it to her parents, they all expressed firm opposition.

But young cutie has made up his mind. She told her parents that she would marry Xu Yajun no matter what. Under the daughter's hard feelings, Zhang Fu and Zhang Mu finally came to their senses and agreed to their daughter's marriage.

In 2008, cutie finally got married with Xu Yajun, and Xu Yajun entered the fourth marriage.

After getting married, cutie gave up his job and career and concentrated on being a "full-time wife" at home, laying the foundation for the development of Xu Yajun, leaving him with no worries at all.

On 20 10, Zhang Shu gave birth to Xu Yajun's second son Tuan Tuan.

Whether Zhang Shu is a stepmother or a mother, she treats her children as a standard and never favors anyone because of blood relationship.

However, as the biological father, Xu Yajun did not treat his two children equally.

Xu Yajun dotes on his youngest son very much. When Tuan Tuan was born, Xu Yajun had to do everything by himself, including changing diapers and making milk powder. Xu Yajun never cheats others.

However, when dealing with him and He Qing's son, Xu Yajun is always very strict, and he often criticizes Xu He for a little thing.

Perhaps because the eldest son has reached the rebellious period of adolescence, Xu He often shows impatience with his father. He will not take the initiative to discuss anything with his father in his study life, but prefers to talk to his stepmother cutie.

Five,

It has been 47 years since Xu Yajun debuted. Looking back on his love history, some viewers concluded: Xu Yajun is made of iron, and his wife is flowing.

Therefore, many people always like to refer to the actor Xu Yajun as "love rat".

Xu Yajun didn't agree with this title. He said, "These are the only women around me. I have always adhered to the idea that if I love one, I will give her a complete home. "

Xu Yajun's feelings are full of twists and turns, but now he and cutie live a very sweet and happy life. In the days to come, they should still love each other and spend the years hand in hand.