What should older blind date talk about? Why do you always turn your face when chatting with the opposite sex?

Many young people are actually very upset about blind date. When I go home during the Spring Festival holiday, I may be arranged by my parents to go on a blind date. But in my opinion, there is no need to resist blind date. If you haven't met the right person yet, try a blind date. If you can find true love, I'll arrange it for you today. Some related contents about blind date, topics that older blind date should talk about and why blind date always fails.

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First, how to chat on blind date

1, introduce yourself briefly.

When you meet for the first time, you should introduce yourself properly and remember to say hello to each other. The introduction time should not be too short, otherwise the other party will have no time to respond. Of course, the introduction time should not be too long, which will make you look verbose. Experience shows that 2-3 minutes of self-introduction will be moderate.

2. Start with a simple topic.

After you introduce yourself briefly, you can talk about some simple topics, such as today's weather, current affairs, traffic and so on. Remember to interact with each other more when chatting, and don't talk to yourself. If you find that the other person is not interested in what you said, you can try a few more topics. If you feel embarrassed and uncomfortable, you can try to order some cakes and drinks to relieve it.

3. Talk about some in-depth topics slowly.

You can have a deeper discussion when you talk, such as what you do and where you work. At the same time, you can also extend some topics from these. If you know each other's work industry, you can exchange more views. Of course, if you don't understand, you can ask each other. Don't pretend to know, it may make a joke.

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4. The topic should not be too deep and sensitive.

If it's the first time we meet, it's best not to involve too personal topics such as family, salary and ex-boyfriend. When we meet for the first time, it is easier to leave a good impression on each other by talking about some common superficial topics. If you ask this and that from the beginning, it is likely to attract the other side's disgust.

5, don't be too pretentious, especially in familiar areas!

Most people get to know the general situation of girls before dating, and then make up for each other's professional knowledge! There is nothing wrong with these practices. What is wrong is that when you meet, you have corresponding knowledge wealth in the other field! It's a bit of a forced comparison. It's too much!

6, don't be too arrogant, learn to laugh at yourself.

If you want to chat happily, then you should at least communicate equally! Don't feel that you are awesome, how proud you are to chat! It's not good for you, but it will increase your disgust! So you can laugh at yourself innocently and raise your opponent's gas field by laughing at yourself! In this way, the other person's mentality will be more comfortable when chatting.

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7. Prepare the topic.

Many people don't know what to talk about as soon as they meet. After greeting, they sat down and began to brush their mobile phones! Such behavior is very bad and disrespectful to each other! I have a chat topic to prepare. What chat topics can be applied? For the topic of chatting with blind date women, most girls like pets, constellations and entertainment gossip, which are the starting points! Boys are sports, cars, games and so on! These are universal topics. You can talk about any one for a long time. Of course, besides these, you can also share your knowledge and your own story! It seems that you are a deep person and can have something to dig!

Second, the chat content.

1, tell me about each other's family.

You can ask each other if they have any brothers or sisters and what their relationship is. Then introduce your brothers and sisters and tell some interesting things that happened with them. In this way, the atmosphere will be much relaxed, and we will have a general understanding of each other's families.

2. Talk about your favorite food

You can introduce your favorite food or drink to each other and then ask each other's preferences. Recommend their favorite restaurants to each other or ask them to recommend them. If you have the same hobbies and want to have further development with each other, you can take the opportunity of recommending restaurants to fix the next appointment.

3. Talk about the places you have been.

Ask the other person if he likes traveling, where he has been and what's interesting. You can also talk from your own side, talk about unforgettable experiences, or talk about places you have been longing for. If the other person is interested and you want to further develop, you can make an appointment for a romantic trip.

4. Simply ask about your occupation.

It's always good to know each other's work. Work is a familiar field, so you can open a topic and let them have something to say. You can also introduce your work and talk about your work experience. If the other party is interested, you may wish to talk more.

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5. Talk about hobbies in life.

You can talk to each other about things you like to do in your life outside of work, such as watching movies, listening to music, doing sports, or raising small animals. By the way, ask each other what they like to do in their free time. If you have the same hobbies, you can naturally develop further.

Third, why do blind dates always fail?

1, nonsense "whatever"

If the other person asks you what you want to do, eat and play on a blind date, it's better to make one or two clear decisions and choices yourself instead of talking casually. On the one hand, it seems that you have no opinion, on the other hand, when the other party has made a complete decision, it will appear that the blind date is boring and there is no desire to continue.

2. No sense of time

When shall we meet? There should be no delay. At the same time, you can take the opportunity to observe whether the other party cares about the time you say. If the other person ignores you and forgets the time, such a person is generally not worth continuing, especially a man, at least not respecting the woman.

3, the purpose is too strong

Undeniably, many leftover women choose blind date because they hate getting married. However, it is foolish to warn the leftover women not to write hate marriage on their faces, not to come straight to the point and show their purpose, and not to be too concerned about each other. Your enthusiasm will scare off each other and make them think that you are a horrible marriage maniac.

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4. Too introverted

Contrary to the above situation, there is another kind of leftover women, who are too stiff to let go and don't know how to show their advantages. The whole date was a mechanical question and answer, which was boring. This depressing atmosphere makes the other party just want to end the date as soon as possible. Caution is the number one killer of blind date, so we should cherish every blind date opportunity. (blind date cheats)

? 5. Habits are preconceived.

It is not a good habit to jump to conclusions about blind date. Don't attach too much importance to the first impression, and don't deny the whole date because of the bad feeling at first sight. It's still too early to draw conclusions, so you should give the other person and yourself a chance to get to know each other better.

Step 6 pretend to be lofty

Many leftover women died on blind dates, because they always like to put on airs and feel superior. Paradoxically, I am proud, but I still want to date. Since blind date must learn to put down the body, it is possible to take the initiative to fall in love in this era, but it is foolish to wait for others to take the initiative to pester and fight. Throw away the damn reserve. Being too reserved will only make the other person deny the blind date faster.

Step 7 dress inappropriately

Everyone will pay more attention to the first impression when dating. If they are different from Wan Li in dress, words and deeds, they will give each other an inappropriate impression, which is basically a stalemate meeting. If you dress yourself, it is not recommended to read fashion magazines or dress guides before departure.

8. Have physical contact with each other

Avoid physical contact on the first blind date. As the saying goes, people who are easy to get are the ones who will not be cherished the least. If you don't know anything about physical contact on the first blind date, you will always leave a frivolous impression on the other party and will soon lose your enthusiasm. There is only a thread as thin as hair between two people who meet for the first time. If you try hard, you will lose the game.

Fourth, matters needing attention in blind date chat

1, don't complain to girls. Never complain to girls about meeting better ones. Don't complain to girls about doing things with people you know or are familiar with, otherwise others will think it's brain drain. You can talk to them about recent events, Devgan. Or some recent entertainment gossip, you are more interested in high-level social hotspots.

2. The second step is to bring too much negative energy to girls. Because of you two? This is a blind date, so it's always a good time for you to meet. What if we meet better? You turned this blind date into a very happy and beautiful thing instead of talking about some very bad things in this blind date, which will only make your chat atmosphere very heavy. So when dating, you must say something humorous, funny and positive, so that girls will have a great first impression of you.

Third, never ask personal questions. How to say it's better to meet? Don't talk about each other's personal problems, such as income. I have had several boyfriends with similar problems. You can wait until you get to know each other, so it will be more appropriate to talk.

There are many kinds of chat topics on the first blind date. Only a small part was sorted out today. In fact, if you can chat on blind date, you will get extra points. After all, the time for blind date is limited. In a short time, if you want to know each other better and chat more, it will help us a lot. I hope my answer is helpful to you.