An ambitious and self-motivated girl

Ambitious and self-motivated girl constellation 1, and most twins have high IQ and EQ. They are articulate, have strong communication skills and can handle interpersonal relationships well. Even with strangers, you can quickly become one, and naturally become familiar. At the same time, both of them are very active in thinking, and there are always all kinds of strange ideas coming out of their heads. Although it seems a bit unreliable on the surface, they can still tell the difference. In the face of problems, you can get along quickly, take countermeasures, be brave and resourceful. Maybe Gemini's performance is sometimes not recognized, but there is no denying that he has a higher probability of success than the people around him. Because once she decides something, she will put it into action and never care about other people's opinions or opinions. Moreover, in action, both of them know how to be flexible, do things strategically, and consider the problem comprehensively. They will also leave a way out for themselves and will not be "single-minded" like others. Maybe her courage and resourcefulness can't be recognized by others, but her strength is an undeniable fact. 2, lion girl As we all know, lions are ambitious and competitive. No matter what happens, she will never give up and will not allow herself to fail. However, she has the strength to match it. For her own goal, she will continue to work hard, even if she encounters obstacles, she will move forward firmly and never give up until she reaches her goal. In life, she is an independent person and never depends on anyone. No matter from which point of view, the lion lion is a very good girl, even worse than some boys. Lions are typical women in the new era. They never care about the idea that men are strong and women are weak. On the contrary, they think that girls are no worse than boys. What they want has always been obtained by their own ability. She is strong, strong, likes to challenge the unknown life and is not afraid of difficulties and obstacles. Once she makes up her mind to be a master, she will try to live a better life, and she will abandon her feminine side and become a brave warrior who is not afraid of difficulties. Therefore, such a lion's life is doomed to be extraordinary. 3, Scorpio female Scorpio has a smart mind, a strong gas field, careful thinking and strong analytical ability. She not only has a man's overall situation, but also a woman's sense of delicacy. She can analyze the essence of things through imagination, and no matter how complicated things are, she can analyze the ugliness. And scorpions are never impulsive. Before doing anything, she will make a detailed plan and then put it into action. An unorganized style will make her feel insecure. Don't underestimate Scorpio's IQ at any time, because she is low-key and unobtrusive, never deliberately boasting about herself, and never thought that others knew that she was smart. On the contrary, in life, scorpions like to play the fool and be fully distracted. In the end, whoever despises her will be beaten by her. Scorpio knows how to use his intelligence, so he is more successful than boys in life and work. 4. Capricorn Capricorn has a strategy, but it never acts cautiously. On weekdays, she is very low-key and often hides her wise side. In fact, she is a very good girl, not only with strategy but also with courage. She can handle everything alone. As long as she wants to do something, she will try her best to achieve it. Sometimes in order to achieve her goal, she will not hesitate to be enemies with everyone, and will not be worse than any boy. Capricorn is a very strong person, enterprising and self-motivated, and never feels inferior to boys. In life, no matter how difficult things you encounter, you will not give up easily, and you will use your perseverance and patience different from ordinary people to succeed. Therefore, whether in life or at work, J.J.' s strength should not be underestimated. Ambitious and self-motivated girls 2 Characteristics of ambitious and self-motivated girls 0 1 Self-affirming and ambitious women will never do things step by step, nor will they completely listen to others' step by step. Because the life that others have arranged for you can never show all your colors. I have a friend who is a typical example. She easily sets limits for herself and is often bound by her own ideas. Although she has been working hard and making progress, she always feels that she is not good enough. What she sees in her eyes is where others are better than her. In her eyes, the interpretation of her life means that she is not perfect enough. This interpretation has affected her work and feelings, and this idea has accumulated over time, which naturally frustrated her own mentality. To reverse this mode of thinking, the most important thing is to straighten your mind, learn to be arrogant, and understand that you also have your own excellent places. You must understand that only when you are sure of yourself will others look at you with new eyes. Dare to fight for some women always don't know how to fight for opportunities. It is actually immature to let others make decisions for her. In this world, the law of the jungle is the essence, and no one will teach you how to fight for it except your parents. If you don't live up to your expectations, you can't blame anyone. From girls to women, the most important thing is to learn to dare to fight for it. Don't be embarrassed in front of others, or you will be passive. Because you dare not fight for what belongs to you, you will give the fruits of victory to others sooner or later. Especially in work and feelings, don't wait for others to take the initiative, because initiative is not necessarily the best, and minutes are a trap. Sometimes when the opportunity comes, try boldly, even if it fails, it is also a growing experience. Everything has to be experienced. I once said that everyone should be a witness, not an imitator. You know, we will face all kinds of challenges and possibilities in life, and there is no theory and reason to help you solve all the tests of life. Whether it is communication or dealing with people, or even how to fall in love with the opposite sex, these are skills that need to be mastered from practice. No one can be smooth sailing on the road of life, everyone is crossing the river by feeling the stones. You should have the mentality of daring to experience all this and grow yourself step by step. Only when you have experienced it and face the same problem next time will you increase your wisdom and have your own strategy. What happened to the ambitious and self-motivated girl? I feel more and more that it is not easy for girls in big cities to live the life they want. If you are willing to be ordinary, you can live a quiet life, but if you want to struggle, survive and seek love, there will inevitably be thorns and bumps, as well as all kinds of temptations. If you are in a hurry, it is easy to carry yourself to some ambiguous wine bureau and to a director's room. "Do not forget your initiative mind, to achieve the ultimate goal" is a beautiful dream in everyone's heart. In the era of masquerade, we all need to experience a "collapse", get rid of the design of "carefully built" people, and then meet our wandering selves. There must have been such a girl around you, shining brightly in the crowd, with a boyfriend who is not very handsome, a little headstrong, a little fresh meat or uncle Xing she loves. Not so satisfied with the present life, ambition and desire have not found a foothold. In Shang Long's new book "People Set", the girl's name is Bai Wen. She said to her boyfriend Shang Xin, "Although you are ugly, I am very happy with you." This sentence is true enough, with a little teasing and spitting. It is a common conversation between couples, but it also hides a girl's little loss: "If you are more handsome, I wish I had more money." Bai Wen and Shang Xin are a pair of college graduates who are about to leave school. The most difficult thing to change from "game mode" to "survival mode" is often "money". But people are always hit by pies falling from the sky. For example, Shang Xin, who was attracted by the big star Prince Qi, was packaged as a comedian in the entertainment circle and signed a contract of 10, which opened the road to "fame". The so-called packaging is to find someone to set it up. For the entertainment circle, human design is like a dangerous and wonderful shortcut to the sky. Even if you step on the air and fall, you should take pains to squeeze in, because the design of a suitable person can often bring a lot of attention and discussion, forming a snowball-like effect. Shang Xin's personality is a "comedy genius" and she should have the ability to make everyone laugh at any time and place. Then there is a mature interest chain waiting to hone you and achieve you. So Shang Xin began to go on the show, participate in TV series shooting, and perform "lame" comedy talent in "Crazy Comedy Superman". "People-oriented" is born of needs and ends with benefits. Both ends are not dominated by Shang Xin, who just left school. Shang Xin, who regards "laughter" as a profession, is just a "product" of the interest supplier. And when he involuntarily performed in front of the curtain, just to earn more salary for Bai Wen, the unwilling girl also changed. She began to skillfully shuttle through the wine market, find the person who can increase her importance, and then expand her ambition step by step. In the design of Shanglong people, we can see the original Bai Wen. She is not perfect and will criticize her boyfriend with secular eyes. Like most girls in their twenties, she is looking forward to a different life, but there are not many chips in her hand. Most of the time, all she can do is wait passively. When there are too many things in life that she can't control, her proper limit is in chaos. "Shang Xin, if you are red, don't forget me!" I believe that when Bai Wen pretended to say this as a joke, she must have some sincerity in her heart. She doesn't love Xin so much, but she doesn't love Xin so much. That little love can be used to fight against a mediocre life, but it is difficult to fight against the temptation of the entertainment circle and the "artificial design" made by energy. A girl with too little ability and too much ambition can control her desires in the face of the stage presented to her, just like two roads at a crossroads. When you set foot on the selected one, the other one may be closed. BLACKPINK appeared in One Man, with various roles, including a big star who pretended to be a good husband, a teenager who was forced to be a comedian in front of the stage and had a tragic ending, and a director who used some small rights in his hand to seduce innocent girls. I feel sorry for Bai Wen, who was naive on this basis, but was finally defeated by her own ambition and "pure" people. I feel sorry for her because I have seen countless girls become her. Borrowing naked loans, selling eggs, and acquiesced in the opaque transactions in the wine market, the "dividend" provided by this society for gender advantage has long been secretly bid. There is a saying I quite agree with: in any case, it is always unforgivable for a person to stumble over an excuse. Especially girls. Walking in the world, the floating world is heavy, and the most difficult thing is not being naive, but not being able to gamble all one's fortune on a future. The tragedy of life is that the choices you make will leave a mark on your life. Zhang Ailing wrote that Ge, a declining young lady living in Hong Kong, went to the aunt's house of a rich widow to study. Aunt Liang saw that she was born with beauty, took her in, used her as bait to attract men, and attracted her with a luxurious life. Ge Weilong, who is still young and a little vain, has begun to be keen on dissolute life. At this time, she met Joe, a playboy, and was confused by his pick-up routine, thinking that she had found true love. Later, I learned that my aunt was using her to tie up the old goat for money, and Joe was using her to get money from the old rich businessman for him. The ending is self-evident. When they grow old and lose their use value, they will be mercilessly abandoned by Joe and Mrs. Liang. A girl who wants to take a shortcut, while walking, finds that the most difficult way is to rely on others to give money and love. I didn't know until I finished reading "Man is Set" that maybe Bai Wen is a wake-up call that Li Shanglong wants to give to all ambitious girls. This book is like a mirror, reflecting the truest you. This sentence on the back cover made me think for a long time. I know he started as a best-selling author, but I really know that he started with a man. A confidence in the outside world is actually a confidence in yourself. This confidence is like a protective cover, which can isolate you from those temptations. From a distance, we can see the whole picture, not just the part. "In this era, a girl should have ambition and no ambition. Don't let ambition hurt you or leave you." The famous critic Huang Tongtong once mentioned this sentence. Being a queen or princess is often not the end. After being kissed by the prince, Sleeping Beauty will also face the joys and sorrows of rice, oil, salt and chicken and dog pieces. There are too many women in power. Instead of fooling others with gestures, it is better to calm down and polish your life. How to get along with yourself, how not to let ambition and anxiety swallow you up, and become a person who knows what he wants, but also knows what he doesn't want is not important. Thoreau said in Walden that whatever we can give to matter is ultimately less useful to us than truth. Only truth can stand the test. After all, being yourself is the longest person.