Find your destiny takes a hand's other half in this way.

After writing "Professional Judgment" last time, many people asked me to talk about my feelings. Let's talk about my feelings today. If the person who consults the career direction ranks second, the emotional first is well deserved. For example, common questions are:

What kind of person will I marry? How should I get along with TA? Why do I always feel out of step? I feel a little confused about TA. What should I do? What does TA really want in her relationship? What should I pay attention to when I am with TA? ……

Is it too easy for people to encounter these problems in their relationships? The authorities are fascinated, and they are clear-headed, calm and objective when helping others analyze emotional problems. Once you get caught up in it, you don't know which direction to go, and you are in a dilemma. Feelings are like this. This is not a rational thing. Maybe: even after hearing a lot of truth, I still can't talk about this love.

However, we have another tool, and that is the astrolabe, the core relic of life. No matter how many emotions you have, it is always impartial and presents the most essential things. So today I will teach you some simple ways to know your TA through the astrolabe. Total * * * is divided into four steps:

Make a personal astrolabe, find the seventh house in the astrolabe and check which stars are in the seventh house. If there are no stars, look up what the descending sign is. "I'll tell."

1, to make a personal astrolabe, you have to have an astrolabe first. This is very simple and can be generated by the disk arrangement tool in the network. There are also many apps for making astrolabes on mobile phones.

2. Find the seventh house in the chart (in the shaded part of the chart, everyone's chart is in the same position). This position in the astrolabe is in charge of our marriage, commonly known as "marriage palace" or "partner palace". In fact, the theme of this palace is "partnership", which means "business cooperation" and "business partner" besides marriage, but this is not the focus of today's judgment.

3. Look at the stars in the seventh house. There are ten main stars in the chart, namely: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto (some software symbols are different). If you see any star in your chart or TA's chart, it falls in the area of the seventh house, that is, the "star in the seventh house".

4. If there are no stars in the seventh house, check what the descending sign is. After finding you or the seventh house of the TA chart, extend outward to the outer circle along the line to the right of the number 7, which is the descending constellation.

Have you finished the above steps? ? What I want to talk about next is the key point.

People in the seventh house pay attention to and care about their relationships with their partners and spouses. In fact, they care about all cooperative relationships, such as husband and wife, partners, colleagues, classmates and so on. He will try to keep all kinds of relationships around him in a harmonious, harmonious and relaxed atmosphere. One of the keys to maintaining a harmonious relationship is to give each other enough respect and support. When they choose something, they also want to find someone who makes them "valuable". Either they are enterprising, ambitious and have leadership skills, or they are creative and talented, or at least they are cheerful and handsome. They will hope that the other person can become the object of their own admiration and admiration, and be a fan of their partner silently. For some people (the sun has a punishment), there is a danger of losing their independent self-identity and taking each other's values as their own life values, or the other person seems to be self-centered and used to listening, obeying and cooperating. And when the other person is tired of your obedience, or the other person is not so good in your eyes, it is time to lose the magic of love.

People with the moon in the seventh house and people with the moon here expect emotional and psychological stability and security in their marriage and feelings. The other party is an understanding person, a reasonable and caring person. He can love me and understand me. When I am sick, sad and confused, he will stand up for the first time, be caring and attentive, and give me comfort. They expect a stable and comfortable family, like warm home decoration, cook well, share their feelings and travel together for a long time. However, the partner found by this kind of person will sometimes be an unpredictable person, especially when he feels that he has not received enough care and nourishment, and there will be small emotions and small temper, which will affect the relationship between the two. The moon represents women and mothers in the astrolabe, so if you are a boy, you want your partner to have the same characteristics as your mother. If you are a girl, your partner may also be a woman who knows how to care about you.

Mercury is in the seventh house. My interest is to communicate with you. If you are psychologically strong, if you are versatile, if you can tell stories and jokes, and have your own opinions and opinions on different people and things, if you are imaginative and knowledgeable, you are the person who attracts me the most. On the other hand, if you are his other half, don't forget that "lifelong learning" is the homework you will do all your life. If you keep giving him new interests, this relationship will last longer. They are people who think that words are more powerful than actions, so they will take the initiative to make emotional commitments. However, people with Mercury in the seventh house (Mercury has a sign of punishment) will also have this situation, that is, they are not satisfied with spiritual communication with a fixed person, and are easily attracted by people who can chat with each other by a conversation and a phone call. Jealous people will definitely not stand him, and even think that he is attracting butterflies.

People with Venus in the seventh house must first look good, and the appearance association, as long as the temperament is excellent, the boys are handsome and the girls are feminine, will attract people in the seventh house of Venus. In other words, if you are not a goddess, you must have temperament, look comfortable and make people warm. Of course, there is another situation, that is, "beauty is in the eye of the lover." At least in his eyes, you are beautiful. Because Venus is in charge of aesthetics and comfort, pleasure and enjoyment in interpersonal relationships. They usually have an idealized emotional concept, describe a perfect image of a spouse for themselves, and make choices according to this standard. Of course, it is also because they like beautiful people and things, like relaxed and happy relationships, and they will be gentle, elegant or artistic in each other's eyes. The bad side (Venus has a punishment) is also a person who will compromise in a relationship. In order to satisfy the other party and reduce disputes and quarrels, he will be impatient, but after a long time, he will feel wronged, force himself, and even lose his temper in the end.

People with Mars in the seventh house and people with Mars in this position may be gentle and kind gentlemen themselves. In the eyes of people around them, they are kind and considerate, have no shelf, and care about other people's feelings. But usually the partner they attract is an honest, frank and energetic object. For example, they are still in the ambiguous stage and have no showdown. When establishing a relationship, their other half is probably the first person to show his attitude and actively pursue it. Their partners are usually outspoken and don't want to hide it. When they quarrel, they will make it clear who is right and who is wrong, and then sleep and forget. However, sometimes (Mars has punishment), people with bad temper will be impulsive, impatient and mean-spoken, which requires people in the seventh house of Mars to spend a little time talking about some skills to resolve conflicts. But usually, this kind of impatient person comes and goes quickly. In other words, "bed quarrels with bed" is also a common way for them to solve contradictions.

Jupiter in the seventh house is a lucky star, representing happiness and good luck. Therefore, people in Jupiter's seventh house often combine with people with good family background, rich wealth, high position, or some reputation, fame and popularity (especially when they are lucky with the sun and Venus) and obtain material and social benefits through marriage. Of course, this does not mean that everyone in Jupiter's seventh house has such a blessing. In addition to the above, Jupiter also represents the character and temperament of the other half here, and is a warm, warm, generous and optimistic partner. They can bring you a positive attitude towards life, a happy emotional life and confidence in the future. In other words, they can nourish you spiritually. For example, they are highly educated, understand the law and have faith, and can also enhance your thinking and consciousness. For some people, there is also a bad side (Jupiter has a punishment). Such a person may be a person who has been pursuing perfection in marriage, hoping that his other half is an outstanding role, deliberately comparing other people's male and female friends, but can't find the most suitable person for himself. Or find an uncomfortable, half-hearted, low-minded person.

Saturn in the seventh house is a conservative and inflexible star, which is reflected in their love and marriage life. They are also the most important and caring parts that both husband and wife need to adhere to in marriage, such as respect, such as loyalty, which is of course good, but if they insist, they must be "women in charge, men in charge", "must buy a house before marriage" and "must buy a house before marriage". People in Saturn's position usually hope that even husband and wife should leave some space for each other and spend time alone to digest their emotions. If you feel that the other person is a little cold, heartless and alienated from you from time to time, it may be someone from Saturn's seventh house. Because Saturn is the star of time, in some cases (Saturn has a punishment phase), it is easy to lead to late marriage. On the one hand, because there are many critical principles, on the other hand, there will be inexplicable worries and fears about married life, fear of intimate relationships, fear of "removing makeup", "removing masks" and "losing beauty". Some people will also look for partners with utilitarian and secular concepts, such as "solving the hukou" and "improving the material life". People in Saturn's seventh house should learn to share more with their partners, open their hearts, don't refuse to change, and don't care too much about gains and losses. Of course, Saturn in the auspicious phase will have a stable and long-term relationship, although there are not so many beautiful scenery.

People in Uranus' seventh house are the least bound by secular ethics. For example, it has reached the age of trial marriage, and relatives and friends around it are also clamoring. Do you have anything? When are you getting married? But he still stood still. Those dink families and same-sex marriages often have the configuration of Uranus' seventh house. Some people regard marriage as a form, but a piece of paper decides that if there is true feelings, why bother to entangle in a piece of paper. Some people don't care about finding a divorced opposite sex and taking care of their children. This is probably because they are born with rebellious blood in their bodies. If you get married, you are also a person who resists the bondage of relationships, maintaining independence, personal space, personal life, making friends habits and so on. They are also looking forward to their love and marriage life, and they are ever-changing and colorful people. If they stay the same, they feel that maybe, probably, they will end. Their marriage may be beautiful, but it may also be relatively unstable (Uranus has a punishment phase).

Neptune in the seventh house People with Neptune in the seventh house usually have high expectations and fantasies about marriage and partners. For example, Prince Charming, such as Snow White, can live a rich and luxurious life, but some people may dream of a simple exile. As I mentioned earlier, Venus in the seventh house will also have an idealized color for marriage and partners, but the difference between Neptune and Venus is that Neptune's ideal is usually illusory and difficult to achieve. For example, longing for "true love" and looking for the other half according to your own template. Neptune has the characteristics of devotion, dedication and sacrifice, and they also tend to take those who have incomplete and suffering experiences in a certain field of life as the object of "true love" (Neptune has a punishment), such as those who are obsessed with artistic ideals but live in poverty. Or when they believe in true love, they will subconsciously ignore each other's shortcomings, bad habits, immaturity and turn a blind eye. Living together, I find that the other person is not the person I want, and I am disappointed and wronged. Emotionally, people in Neptune's seventh house have a strong sense of destiny, and they accept their fate. "Love is a debt, love is a debt", and there are emotions of "debt collection" and "debt repayment" in my heart. If they recognize it, they will make selfless contributions. Of course, if Neptune has a good phase structure in the astrolabe, he will also find a intentional romantic love.

Pluto is in the seventh house. Pluto is the planet representing desire. If you list a few key words, there will be these: betrayal, infidelity, possessiveness, * * *, hatred and so on. I'm not saying that people in the seventh house of Hades will be unfaithful and betray. I mean, this is what they value and care about. If you are mine, you cannot be someone else's. You should be loyal to each other. So this is manifested in marriage and feelings. Usually, they seem to have more interference and control over each other, hoping to take the initiative. At the same time, they are also people who uphold the concept of loyalty. If there are problems in their relationship, they will not break up easily, but hope to repair, change and start over in various forms. Because Pluto is in charge of power, some people will combine with powerful people in marriage. In other words, your other half is a person who looks deep and calm, a person who will stick to what he has decided for a long time, and a person who is black and white.

Seeing this, I think someone will ask that there are no stars in my seventh house. what do you think? If the seventh house is empty, refer to your descending sign, and the corresponding relationship between the descending sign and these ten stars is as follows:

Aries-Mars; Taurus-Venus; Gemini-Mercury; Cancer-the moon; Leo-the sun; Virgo-Mercury; Libra-Venus; Scorpio-Pluto; Sagittarius-Jupiter; Capricorn-Saturn; Aquarius-Uranus; Pisces-Neptune.

What is the penalty pulse phase and what is a good phase structure? The easiest way is to look at the phase table of the astrolabe software. Penalty gram (90 degrees) and hedging (180 degrees) are penalty strokes, while Liuhe (60 degrees) and Sany (120 degrees) are considered as favorable phases.

If there is more than one star in the seventh house, how many do you think? In principle, the closer the stars are to the number 7 (the starting position of the seventh house), the more stars there are, which can be used for reference, but as long as they fall in the seventh house, they have reference value. Well, it's almost over here.