Which constellation is a master of emotional manipulation?

Emotional manipulation seems to be a complicated and subtle topic.

First, to what extent? A timid girl may be easily influenced by her strong and confident good friends. She is more willing to trust her best friend's judgment than her own, such as what hairstyle to change, what style of clothes to wear, whether the boy chasing me is suitable for her, and where to go on a date tomorrow.

A girl who is constantly instilled by her husband that "a woman should make an unconditional contribution to her family, because this is a woman's virtue that has been praised since ancient times" is also more and more likely to lose attention to self-worth. If her partner catches the fact that you are not good enough, such as not being a virgin, gaining weight and other things that make you feel ashamed, you will be more easily controlled by the other party, or even difficult to detect.

Manipulation is so common around us, but due to the different degree of manipulation and infiltration, the specific forms of expression are also very different. Even many people from the media like to brainwash fans by selling anxiety.

So which of the twelve constellations likes emotional manipulation? In what ways will you manipulate each other?

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Scorpius

This constellation, guarded by Mars and Pluto, is a long story in love.

During the running-in period of intimate relationship, many people are suffering from the polarization of Scorpio's emotions. It seems that one second is calm and the next is stormy.

Accumulate negative emotions and then choose to ignite at one point. They are so good at accommodating everything that the other party simply can't figure out what happened at the moment of the outbreak.

If the other half can't understand the rules all the time and always coax them to show weakness after the outbreak, this model will be used repeatedly by them to control each other, and even they will feel that this is a normal part of their emotional life and will not feel that they are manipulating others with emotions at all.

In the final analysis, all this stems from their lack of security in their bones. In view of this situation, it is suggested that the other half of Scorpio should not blindly persuade, which can only help others. All you have to do is do 3354 first and tell them clearly that you love him very much; Second, tell them that they don't like emotional manipulation, trial and error and other ways of getting along; Third, if they don't change themselves, you may leave him.

If Scorpio loves you very much, losing you will only make them more afraid ~

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Taurus constellation

Taurus, as the opposite house of Scorpio, has a strong possessiveness and obsession with things you care about, such as money, food and sex.

But they are generally stupid, so their appearance is easy to deceive. It seems that possessiveness is not too strong, but in fact, you will be very narrow-minded when you meet something you care about. I spend every penny carefully, saving the best food for last, and I am very possessive of sex.

Possession and conquest are accompanied by manipulation. For example, find various viewpoints and theories to support your own views, including many fallacies and heresies. If the other party is still unmoved, they may compromise on the surface, but they still insist in their hearts. They just started to do something without enthusiasm, and they looked unhappy and ruined the atmosphere.

Always a six-pointed star of positive compromise and negative resistance ~

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Cancer

The emotional manipulation of Cancer is more like the soft manipulation of "boiling frogs in warm water".

Cancer, which is guarded by the moon, has strong empathy, so it is their talent to quickly identify each other's emotions, adjust their words and deeds and attitudes, and make others feel comfortable in the process of getting along with them.

However, the full moon and the strongest talent may be the biggest problems. They are also good at using emotional recognition ability to manipulate each other and satisfy their own desires.

Whether it is sweet praise or ignoring each other's cold war; Whether it is the clever release of your personal charm or the expression on your face, it is easy for you to be led by cancer and want to continue to do what they want you to do, so as to get emotional positive feedback.

If you already feel "soft manipulated", you must stop doing what they want you to do to please them. It is wise to face up to the unhappiness in getting along ~

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fish

Pisces is good at emotional manipulation "retreat". Usually, they don't express their dissatisfaction directly, but express grievances, sadness and other emotions, so that the other party feels guilty and meets their own requirements.

In other words, those who sell miserable clothes are poor. For most people and even themselves, it is hard to find that this is a kind of manipulation.

For example, if a Pisces boy doesn't play games with his girlfriend for too long, he will see if he can find an excuse to see if the other person is not doing well, and then tell her that he doesn't want to call 3354 because he feels a little uncomfortable and the other person won't be angry because he plays games ~

For example, his girlfriend dragged him to watch a variety show that he didn't like, such as "Otaku" and "My Wife's Romantic Travel". Generally, he didn't directly say that he didn't like it, but asked the other party if he was dissatisfied with himself or hinted that I wanted to change, so as to make the other party give up this practice.

Pisces seems to have the ability to always make you feel sorry for them.

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Lion's mark

Leo is not so much emotional manipulation as they like to export their values condescendingly and establish their influence.

They often believe in their own beliefs, like to convince each other in communication, and rarely give in when outputting opinions, so they will give people a sense of oppression.

But generally speaking, lions don't like to manipulate each other, just to confirm the effectiveness of their authority ~

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Conclusion:

In fact, in a relationship, both lovers will have a certain game, in order to achieve their wishes.

However, if you always have the feeling of "doing what the other person wants to do even if you don't want to", then you should start to examine this relationship, because you may really suffer from the emotional manipulation of the other person.