No matter how poor you are, don't let your children wear other people's old clothes. Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

In ancient times, there was a way of "eating hundreds of meals, wearing hundreds of clothes and covering hundreds of quilts" to pray for children, which had nothing to do with the poor and the rich!

Who is "others"? A stranger? Strangers give you old clothes for no reason. Friends and relatives, of course. Will the old clothes that relatives and friends gave you be bad? Anyone who has raised a baby knows that a child's body is as long as a deflated ball in infancy. To put it bluntly, clothes are worn for one season at most, which means that ordinary clothes are only worn for about a month (who doesn't have three or four sets of clothes a season? Children grow up quickly, and generally these clothes don't fit the next year. Don't misunderstand the love of relatives and friends for your baby.

I want to know when. Only people wear other people's old clothes and label their children poor. To put it bluntly, that poor self-esteem is doing strange things.

Let me tell you about the benefits of wearing old clothes for children, especially in infancy: children have tender skin and are most prone to skin allergies. Most of them are not suitable for colorful and other bright colors, because the natural color of cotton cloth is white, and other colors are chemical dyes, which will cause children's skin allergies if they are not careful. This is why experienced parents will repeatedly soak and clean their babies before putting on new clothes. Where are the old clothes? Nurses are much more at ease, at least after repeated washing, they can wear beautiful clothes, so don't worry.

Another important reason is to really save money. Nowadays children's clothes are more expensive than adults'. New clothes can't be worn for children for a few days.

Moreover, even if relatives and friends send old clothes, will the quality be poor? Old clothes must be the best, right? Put yourself in others' shoes. If it is the old clothes you gave to others, will you be ashamed to give away some useless loose dresses?

A person with a strong heart doesn't care about these things at all. As long as it is suitable for his baby's needs, old and new are treasures.

Accepting the love of others is also a kind of love. Who gives my baby food, clothes and fun, except to express gratitude. Why are there no more people who love children?

I don't agree. Since the "poor" can't afford new clothes, why can't they wear other people's old clothes?

"New eldest brother, old second child, make up Nana's third child" is a true portrayal of our childhood after 60. There are four brothers in my family. Boss is 64 years old. I remember that on his tenth birthday, two uncles made a new "Hanfu" for my family, which was a great gift at that time. Boss wore this coat for three years, then gave it to the second child and then to the third child. Finally, there were too many patches on it, so my mother took it off, washed it, made some paste with flour, and made it into "shoe bones" layer by layer on the door panel. After drying, cut it into pieces of sole bones according to the shoes ... My mother used the evening time to nail the soles, and after nailing, she bought some new cloth as uppers and six uppers. This is our China New Year.

Now, China has entered a new era of socialism, and the people's life has changed from adequate food and clothing to a well-off life. Most people have begun to pursue a better life. After the reform and opening up, the planned economy changed into a market economy, and farmers also had savings through going out to work or engaging in planting and breeding, deep processing and management. On the other hand, the emergence of a large number of clothing enterprises makes the clothing market well supplied. It is common to buy new clothes for changing seasons, festivals, birthdays and Chinese New Year.

Now most families have one or two children, and the whole family revolves around the children. At different stages of children's development, all supplies and clothes are prepared in advance.

However, in economically underdeveloped areas and mountainous areas, there are still poor families, and their children are short of food and clothing. Although the state subsidizes poor families and poor students, they still don't have enough clothes. It is also common to collect unused schoolbags and clothes from the east and send them to children in the west through the "Hope Project" after disinfection.

Disposal of old clothes 1. Give it to people in need and continue to wear it (just wash it and dry it);

2. It can be sold or bartered on the second-hand platform;

3. Put it into the old clothes recycling box and deal with it collectively. If it becomes fiber, it can be used to produce car cushions, greenhouse insulation cloth, shopping bags and wall insulation fibers.

4. In terms of garbage classification, old clothes belong to recyclable garbage and can be recycled.

The pictures in this answer are all old clothes sent by relatives. )

It is no exaggeration for my two sons to say that more than 70% of the clothes are given by relatives. Because my economy is not rich, I was really happy and full of gratitude when I received these clothes. Because even if I do, my husband and I think the quality of these old clothes is far higher than the new clothes bought online. Last winter, my uncle and sister in Shanghai brought me more than 50 pairs of trousers, more than 20 oriental coats, more than a dozen sweaters, underwear, various vests and various styles of shoes. I think all of them were worn by his children, so I also sent a dozen sets of new clothes without labels. If it were you, wouldn't you be moved? Such people are of excellent quality and don't forget to take care of your self-esteem when giving them to you.

"No matter how poor you are, don't let your children wear other people's old clothes." I think people who hold this view must be particularly face-saving. You will pay more for this poor self-esteem. Such behavior is not only a waste of resources, but also a vicious circle, which will make you poorer and poorer.

One: Wearing other people's old clothes as a child does not mean that children have no future.

I believe that most people have read the book Ordinary World, and many people in a certain field feel that this book has influenced people's life. I remember that when Sun Shaoping, the protagonist, was studying at school, Mr. Lu Yao spared no effort to describe Sun Shaoping's pants that only reached his stomach in the deep winter. Maybe modern people think this kind of cropped trousers is fashionable, but in the cold northwest, it's because they are taller and don't have any trousers of their own to keep out the cold. Mr. Lu Yao can describe such an image, I think he must have grown up wearing someone else's patch library when he was a child. In other words, children who grow up wearing other people's old clothes do not mean that this person is inferior to others, but that a hard living environment can exercise a person better.

Two: Although it is old clothes, the quality may be more secure than the new clothes found on some websites.

In the era of the only child, after the child was born, many families were six adults with one child and bought countless clothes on holidays. Some relatives with better economic conditions buy very good quality clothes for their children. They are more interested in style and fashion. Many good quality clothes may be worn two or three times a season. These clothes will be small next season. Some people think that the children of relatives and friends can use them, so they collect them, pick them up, wash them, fold them neatly and give them to relatives and friends. Believe me, even old clothes must be old clothes that they feel good after choosing.

Old clothes are more suitable for children than new ones.

My cousin is 40 years old, married a city dweller and has settled in the city. I gave birth to a second child this year, and called me to ask for the child's old clothes. The first-born daughter has already entered junior high school. In the past, family planning was not allowed, and the clothes of older children had to be given away. This surprised me, because their economic conditions are much higher than mine, and now they are happy to have a second baby boy, so they must be reluctant to let their children wear old clothes. But my cousin said: Now the chemical quality of clothes is high, new clothes may not be suitable for children's delicate skin, but old clothes are healthier after washing.

Sending old clothes also shows that your relationship is good, and relatives and friends want to save you some money.

The circle of friends of adults is secretly marked with good prices. Relatives and friends also know each other's financial situation. I think the only reason must be that your financial conditions are not ideal, so they want to give away their old clothes. Have you ever seen a countryman send old clothes to relatives and friends in the city? Sending old clothes is also a kind of communication. There is no need to feel inferior for the sake of self-esteem and inferiority. Good communication between relatives and friends will bring you a wider world. You have received other people's old clothes, given them a brand-new toy or brought some local products, but your relatives and friends think that you are a grateful and helpful person, and will remember you for anything good, so that your circle of friends will grow bigger and bigger, which will be better for your future development.

To sum up, I hope that if friends receive your children's old clothes from relatives and friends, please accept them with a grateful heart. You don't have to think that your children will feel sorry for other people's old clothes. The quality of children's clothes is better now, but it's not cheap at all. Saving money on clothes can create more value for you. I am Xie Pingfan, a girl with ordinary life and delicate feelings. Welcome everyone to pay attention and forward the message.

I don't agree. what did you say ? Don't poor people wear other people's old clothes? What's wrong with wearing old clothes?

There are two or three hundred teachers in the school where my daughter teaches in Shanghai. They got considerable income from the government, but they also formed a good habit: during my daughter's pregnancy and labor, many colleagues washed and sent small clothes that her baby could not wear but was reluctant to throw away. Later, the daughter also washed and dried some new clothes that her grandson could not wear because she grew up, and gave them to others. There is no charity, ridicule, prayer or meanness. I just think it's a pity to throw it away, so as to make the best use of it and save money. Those are brand-new "old clothes" No matter how rich you are, it hurts you to throw them away. You'd better give them to your friends.

I think such a good tradition should be carried forward.

Looking at the problem in two, from the perspective of preventing and controlling infectious diseases, it is natural to reject old clothes, but in most cases, this causal relationship is not convincing. Value for money, do what you can. Most old clothes can be reused after washing and sun exposure, and can generally be cleaned and disinfected. It's a pity to throw away a complete dress casually. Many wastes can be recycled. For a good dress, as long as its function is perfect, wouldn't it be better for another owner to continue its mission? That is to say, environmental protection can also carry forward the good tradition of China people's diligence and thrift, and achieve multiple goals.

A person's health is the most important. For a nice and beautiful old dress, if you don't know the ins and outs, try not to reuse it. Some of them contain infectious bacteria, and cleaning and disinfection can't kill ordinary microorganisms. In order to put an end to infection, we must be careful not to lose too much because of small things, resulting in unnecessary consequences.

No matter how poor, you can't be poor. Children have ambition, and old clothes can be reused to save tradition.

I totally disagree with this sentence and I don't understand its values. I don't know what kind of consideration the person who said this sentence was. Are you worried about hygiene? Still worried about face? In any case, this is not a problem. Hygiene problems can be solved by cleaning and disinfection, not to mention face problems. First, under normal circumstances, no one knows that you must be old clothes. Besides, even if you know that it is old clothes, there is no problem at all. Diligence and thrift is a virtue. The old clothes of ordinary children are actually very new, basically 80% to 90% new. After all, they rose quickly when they were young, and many clothes could not be worn several times.

My children often wear old clothes given by others, and others will wear my children's clothes. In fact, many of my children's clothes are old clothes given by relatives and friends. Of course, we will also buy a lot of new clothes, which will be worn by the younger children of other relatives and friends. In our opinion, this is a normal thing and there is nothing to worry about. Especially when children are young, you can't wear a dress several times, and you can't just throw away brand-new clothes. Many friends are still scrambling to get the changed clothes.

Clothes are just appearances and should be centered on the inner cultivation of children. There are indeed some people who think too much about their external image and face, especially children. They always think that spending more money on children will definitely make them feel better, but they don't know that it is this kind of behavior that will actually affect their correct values. If a person doesn't even know the most basic frugality, he won't achieve much. It's not how glamorous and brand-name you dress your children, others will definitely look up to your children. People pay more attention to whether other children are polite and have good academic performance. This is what parents should consider more.

The above personal views are for reference only.

I disagree with this sentence. If it is really difficult, and others are well-intentioned and have no charitable ideas, what should I do with old clothes?

My opinion is this. First of all, my opinion is that if we don't pay attention to it. No one may be poor enough to let children wear other people's clothes now.

Secondly, I don't think it is necessary to wear other people's old clothes at all. I have dignity! Face! Strong self-esteem

Let me give you an example. We have encountered disasters or given love before. Will donate money and clothes. So if it is clothes, should the recipient accept it? Did you hurt your self-esteem?

So I think it has nothing to do with poverty, but with need.

You have reached a "poor" situation, that is to say, you can only lie naked in rags and can't work in the fields. Even if someone gives you old clothes and trousers, you can get out of bed and work and live normally, but you refuse. You are not arrogant, but self-destructive. You don't even know how to survive. He is a basic person. His life is worse than that of a beggar. Why are you still alive?

There are always hardships and bumps in a person's life. How can you refuse to stay away from those who help you? The clothes and trousers are a little old, but they are not worn normally after washing. No one will ask you about the origin of your clothes and pants. Even if someone knows, what's the harm You are already in a state of "poverty". By this time, you are still clinging to an already rampant vanity, and you still don't put down the pretense that you can't climb under the bed. Are you naked, wearing broken cotton wool and practicing out-of-touch health care? Live to the end of your life?

Helping others requires pity and love. If you accept help, you can't have arrogant vanity. Without help, you will not be able to get through the temporary difficulties. Do you have the courage to go out naked and not be regarded as crazy? !

No matter how poor you are, you must first make do with food and clothing. At this point, what do you use to support your bone hardness? For ordinary people, survival is the first priority, and then they strive to fight poverty in order to obtain normal survival rights.

So, put on clean old clothes first, then try to fill your stomach, and then go out to find opportunities to make money. Only in this way can you have face, confidence, backbone and courage to live a normal life in the future, and even surpass the quality of life of ordinary people. Because you have suffered, you will cherish the sweetness now and you will work harder.

I don't agree! It's not a question of wealth, it's a question of ideas. My daughter is three years old and has been wearing her sister's daughter's old clothes. The clothes are new and clean, and there is no shame in wearing them. When people ask where they bought the clothes, I will generously say that they are for my niece. Children's wear should not care too much about famous brands, as long as it is clean and comfortable. It's not that my family is poor. I always disclose two companies. Although I don't earn much money, I can afford food and clothing for my children. But I don't think it's necessary to buy new clothes for my children. Children grow up quickly, and they will wear smaller clothes this year and next. Instead of wasting money on clothes, it is better to invest in their hobbies, even if they buy more picture books. What children need most is the companionship of their parents and quality education. They developed a very good inner quality when they were young, which is more important than anything else. Noble and interesting souls are not decorated with exquisite clothes! Read more books when you are free!