Capricorn boyfriend has a cold war every time he quarrels. Do you want to break up?

I think your date is insecure. It is usually men who initiate the cold war in their feelings, because men often solve problems themselves under great pressure, they will try to solve them themselves, and he will stay in his safe corner until the problems are solved. And women are usually the last to stand being treated by the cold war. When women are treated by the cold war, they will go hysterically crazy. The more cold war men have, the more helpless women are, the more they want to find men to solve problems, and the more men want to escape, forming a situation of chasing and fleeing.

Faced with stressful problems, men don't talk at all and don't know how to ask for help. In this respect, women are just the opposite. When they are under pressure, women will get a lot of help and sympathy when they ask for help, while men will only be despised and looked down upon by others. Therefore, men usually choose to deal with problems coldly, and only when they find a solution will they be willing to communicate with you.

So, when you want to understand this, don't always force a man to reply, because when he doesn't find a solution, or when he is under pressure from you, he will choose to escape. When a man starts talking to you passively, you are already in danger, because his heart is gradually shrinking and closing, he doesn't want to open up to you, and his inner words gradually don't want to share with you, because in his opinion, you don't know him at all, so when a smart woman never forces a man to do what he doesn't want to do, the so-called cold war is just that you don't talk too much.

It's just that both of them don't want to let go of some of their obsessions for each other, and they don't want to take a compromise step for each other. They both consider the problem from each other's perspective, which leads the weak side to choose the Cold War to avoid conflicts. In the cold war, it seems that women are strong and aggressive, while men look passive and weak. In fact, this is not necessarily the case. Women's strength is only their own uncertainty and insecurity, so they will make each other care more about themselves in a step-by-step way. In this case, whoever wins will lose if it is not handled well.