Girlfriend loves to watch mobile phones. Does she care about her performance?

I care about your performance, but this behavior reflects her possessiveness and suspicion. In addition to her own doubts, it is also possible that your behavior makes her uneasy and arouses her doubts, so she will always check your mobile phone to increase her sense of security.

First, the difference between possessiveness and security.

Possession means that the other party treats you as a personal thing, and only when they completely possess everything about you can they be satisfied. They all have a strong desire to possess and control your words and deeds. It's a bad idea to hope that you belong to her completely. A sense of security is to make her feel at ease without worrying about being abandoned. You make her feel so trusted that she won't doubt you at all. Although they are somewhat similar, they are completely different in nature, so you need to distinguish them correctly.

Second, reflect on whether it is easy for you to make the other person feel uneasy.

If the other person always doubts you, reflect on whether you make her uneasy, whether she always does something wrong, whether some behaviors make her feel uneasy, often don't answer the phone, or get too close to other members of the opposite sex, ignoring her feelings and making her unable to live a quiet life every day, that's your problem. Because she loves you too much and doesn't want to lose you, so she will check your mobile phone and see your privacy.

Third, how to give each other a sense of security.

Security is actually a very dreamy thing, because it is not a real thing, so it is actually a bit difficult to get it. The sense of security is not only given by the other half, but also gained by yourself. If you are particularly inferior, and the other person is particularly excellent, then there is little sense of security, and she will be eager for recognition, want to get a response, and want you to care for her wholeheartedly. You must prove that you love her, will not do anything out of line, and keep your distance from other members of the opposite sex.

In the emotional world, there must be one party who is cautious, loves you lowly, and wants to get the whole heart of the other party, so the behavior will be excessive, and prying into the privacy of the other half is also a sign of insecurity. Although this behavior shows that the other person cares about you, you should also be careful whether the other person is possessive.

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