How to subdue Virgo and ask her boyfriend?

I am a Virgo boy. My understanding is that as long as it was gentle and didn't pester me with questions, other times (including excessive questions) were acceptable. Key question 1 the above two points. You can't be tough You are tough on me, and I will be tough on you in a roundabout way. When I argue, my mind will get hot and I will only consider what I did is right, but then I will reflect on whether I am really right or not. It is really necessary, so "don't pester me about who was right and who was wrong". In the future, I will persuade Virgo boys with gentle negotiation tone.