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What behaviors belong to emotional manipulation?

The word "emotional manipulation" has caused a heated discussion among netizens, that is, we often hear PUA. The word first entered the public's field of vision widely, and it was in the report that girls in Peking University were emotionally manipulated by their boyfriends that we gradually realized the terrible place of emotional manipulation. Then let's take a look at a person I know who is good at using PUA. What behaviors belong to emotional manipulation? It can also make everyone lightning-proof quickly!

1, accosting expert | accosting artist

Do you have such people around you? As a bystander, you can't feel his or her charm, but there are many boyfriends and girlfriends who are not very nice to the other half, but even the other side can't live without this person anyway. This kind of person should be alert, and the other party is likely to be the legendary master of chatting up, that is, the PUA master. I have a classmate in college who is ugly, but his girlfriend worships him wholeheartedly and can't live without him. Later, she was deeply hurt. According to the girl, she is probably PUA! But the authorities were fascinated, and she was fascinated by the boy's eloquent words, and even subconsciously felt that she was not worthy of him. Add a "filter" to others.

Deception and brainwashing are the main methods.

Such people often create a personalized design, and in this process, their eloquence must be extraordinary. For example, my college classmates are experts in debate. To the onlookers, Puxin looks really boring and disgusting, but for the "prey" he locked in, he is excellent, charming and really amazing. He is the man who created the master of success. He talks eloquently and tells the truth every day. Generally speaking, all the girls are good-natured and patient. If I have a bad temper, it's really hard to stand a person whispering in my ear.

3. Make unreasonable demands on you

In order to verify the success of his PUA, such people often make unreasonable demands on the other half, such as abortion for him or giving him all the money. In this case, the family should decisively refuse! Never do anything to hurt yourself for a love rat! My college classmate cheated on me and then dumped that girl. Fortunately, it didn't cause too much loss, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable!

Each of us should set a bottom line for ourselves in our emotional life. No matter how nonsense the other party talks, he can't do anything to break the bottom line, especially those who don't sell themselves short, especially confident girls, who are invincible!