Ada Choi said, "I haven't slept for ten years since I became a mother.". How hard is it to be a qualified mother?

Ada Choi said? You haven't slept since you were a mother for ten years? It is difficult to be a qualified mother. It is a very long time from 10 pregnancy to the birth of the child, and then to the child's ability to walk, call his mother, go to school and so on. And mothers have to worry about their children's life and diet.

In fact, everyone who knows this society knows that among so many roles in the world, only the daughter is the best and only the mother is the most difficult. Mothers should play at least several roles in the family, not only cleaning up the house and acting as a nanny, but also being the mother in the eyes of children and taking care of everything for them. Besides, I have to play my husband's wife, so this society is really difficult for my mother. Many female friends want to shine in the workplace, but they will be involved by their children and will not be understood by their husbands, so they choose to be full-time mothers at home. However, stay-at-home mothers are not so easy to be, and they are likely to be overwhelmed. She not only takes care of the children's daily life, but also manages housework, cooking and washing clothes.

Coupled with being so tired and hard every day, I still can't get my husband's understanding. Even my husband refuses to give me living expenses on the grounds of asking for money every day. My mother is very embarrassed. Moreover, once the child has any problems or diseases, the mother is the first to complain. In the year after the baby is born, not only should you give the baby enough breast milk, but you should always pay attention to the length of the child's sleep, including the child's health. Moreover, many children are particularly uncomfortable, and often wake up in the middle of the night to drink night milk, which will cause their mothers to become very haggard.

In addition, the mother has to play the role of daughter-in-law and deal with her mother-in-law. Therefore, the world has really strict requirements for the role of mother, which can not only earn money, but also take care of the children and do laundry and cooking. This is impossible for an ordinary person. Even skin care and dressing can't be understood by others, so I hope everyone will be less prejudiced against their mothers and understand more about their mothers. Only in this way can children live a healthier life.