When two people are together, is the constellation really important?

I don't think two people together are necessarily horoscopes. The most important thing is that two people like and attract each other. The most basic factor is mutual independence and respect, so that you can feel safe with each other. The real meaning of two people together is to help each other and grow old together.

When you are in love, it is not the matching of constellations. The most important thing is whether two people's personalities get along and whether they like each other.

The process of falling in love is actually to know whether the other person is the one you are looking for. Although in the process of love and even marriage, there is no shortage of running-in stage, no shortage of quarrels, and no shortage of continuous understanding of each other. However, I think running-in is also divided into grinding, and living habits are relatively easy to say. In the process of getting along, two people grind out similarities, but if the outlook on life and values are different, it is not so simple.

Inconsistent outlook on life, unable to get along. For example, one wants to travel and wander around, but the other wants to live and work in peace; One wants to have more children after marriage, and the other finally decides Dink. One wants to fight together, and the other wants the woman to stay at home with her husband and children-there is no right or wrong outlook on life, but the outlook on life is different, and the two people have different pursuits. If they have to be together, it will be a great tragedy.

People with different or even opposite values find it difficult to understand each other, and their hearts will go further and further. What you think is important, he feels meaningless and always denies you; You don't think what he insists on is necessary, but you never like him. It will be an irreconcilable contradiction to be unable to understand each other, let alone support each other in what they are doing and make progress together with each other, which will lead to long-term inner anxiety.