How to understand Aquarius psychology?

The ruler of Aquarius is Uranus. Uranus represents a unique and maverick constellation, which is difficult to read. Aquarius is usually defined as an alien star, so you should keep an independent space with Aquarius. As for how to understand the psychology of Aquarius, it is suggested to keep getting along as friends and not be too sticky, otherwise the Aquarius will be easily pulled out and cut itself out.

Aquarius may never know what he wants, but he will always know what he doesn't want.

He always likes to be a spectator behind the scenes, watching everything coldly and quietly. In his eyes, everything is in his expectation. He thinks nothing is novel. If he behaves strangely, it is because he thinks he should. He is like a theater goer, always staying out of it.

Don't blame him for his indifference, it's the only way for him to protect himself. He is like a hedgehog, always tying himself up, but his thorns won't hurt people, he just uses them to arm himself. He dare not ask for too much love. He is afraid that after enjoying love, all that remains is double pain. Therefore, when others indulge him too much, he will not be happy, but will run away in fear. He doesn't know how to repay others' love. If you get his love, it's because he already knows how to face it and how to return it. He pursues the realm of friendship between gentlemen as light as water. He knows how to love, but he is not used to it. He knows that love is often accompanied by hate, which is too heavy a pain and too easy to make people tired. He didn't want to suffer, so he didn't bother to hate. So, in order to prevent the arrival of hate and pain, he had to choose not to love, even if he did, it was faint and cold. Don't blame him, he really doesn't know how to concentrate.

He is sometimes hypocritical. Don't blame him. He chose hypocrisy because you forced him to do something he didn't want to do but couldn't refuse. He is not used to making promises and doesn't know how to refuse. What he is best at is making things difficult for himself. He doesn't want to make you sad, so he wants to make himself sad. He always stubbornly believes that he has extraordinary endurance. He values himself too much and despises others too much. He is always worried that his actions will hurt others. He didn't know that it was actually himself who was injured. He just doesn't know how to show it. He was so confused that he regarded himself as a harmless person.

Don't think he is free and easy. Many times, he can't let go-he is more sensitive and delicate than anyone, but he won't let you know. He knows that even if you know, it won't help. His heart is an uncontrollable wind, and he longs to be as simple and free as the wind. It's not that he doesn't want to calm down. He just can't find a reason to be calm. He can't define his role in this world all his life. He had to keep looking for his ultimate goal. If he finds it, he will stop without hesitation and give up his wandering mind. Unfortunately, he will never be satisfied, and his pursuit will never stop. No matter how tired his heart is, he can't force himself to give up his dream, which is his only support.

Never let him down. Because learning can't forgive, I am very eager for perfection. Although he knows that there is no absolute perfection in the world, he has the persistent pursuit of absolute perfection. If you let him down, he will leave without hesitation, even if his heart is bleeding, even if the heavy pain will crush his life, he will not look back. What you saw in his face at that time was a chilling refusal. Even if he is still with you, his heart has long been far away from you. You can't see his hate, but you will feel more painful indifference than hate. His departure is the departure of the soul.

He can be flattered by your kindness for the first half minute, or he can't accept you for the second half minute. Don't ask him why he is so fickle, he doesn't know it himself. Don't be confused when you see him crazy happy or sad. No matter how crazy he looks, he is actually calm inside. He knows how to deal with happiness and sadness better than any of you onlookers. He's just used to it-or likes to make everything crazy. Because he thinks it is an obligation and a right, he is an expert in creating atmosphere, and his one-liners will make everything light, but his sigh will make everything heavy. He always controls his happiness and depression involuntarily. He is not as happy as you see, nor as sad as you see, but he likes to wear a happy mask when he is depressed, and when he is happy, depression refuses to let him go easily.

In his vase, it is not the source of happiness, but the tears he doesn't want to shed in front of people. When you see him, he smiles like a child. Sometimes you think he is as naive as an angel in a fairy tale. However, if you have the heart, you will see the lingering sadness on his face when he is indifferent, and the smell of seeing through the world of mortals is so dignified. Only when there is no one at midnight will he completely release himself. He will not see his helplessness, hesitation and vicissitudes at a glance. The water in his bottle is inexhaustible tears. The strength you see is just the fragility he is trying to hide.

I am the level. I suggest not to use your own thinking to understand the level. Look at the external factors that affect what you do horizontally. Never tell the bottle that you know him well, because sometimes the bottle doesn't know itself, and the bottle often goes to two extremes. If sweetness can kill you, if I hate you, I will die ugly. Many bottles are insecure, and you can't be wild without a sense of responsibility. Husbands can find bottles, but I think free lovers. I basically won't let go of my wife and children for my lover. No matter how clever and insightful the bottle is, half of us can't compare with it, but the bottle looks lazy on the outside.

Simple and sincere is very effective, because Aquarius likes to get used to shyness.

I just answered the same question elsewhere yesterday. You can read the Aquarius psychology I wrote the day before yesterday. It's quite high, and it feels very consistent with your question.

Aquarius, known as Aquarius, is the last constellation in air signs. Usually, the representative is about 70 years old and has wisdom, but when he returns to childlike innocence, he can be called an "old child". As air signs, he represents wisdom, and Aquarius represents the peak of wisdom. Usually, people with mercury in Aquarius have higher IQ than their parents, but their thinking is rarely understood and they disdain others to understand. In their minds, they are smart and wise, and others can't understand them because their IQ is not online enough.

Although Aquarius's thinking is often different, as a constellation guarded by Uranus, Uranus represents innovation and reform. Aquarius has been successful in pursuing distinctive thinking all his life. Aquarius has many advantages, and it also has many arrogant characters. For example, in the history of China, three famous emperors were Aquarius, and all three were decisive and wise. But Aquarius also has many shortcomings, such as nervousness, capriciousness, moodiness, lust for money, fickle and unlucky, being a second-year literary student, being crazy and silly, and so on.

Everyone has different views on Aquarius, but there is no doubt about their Excellence. Whether it is the sun Aquarius, the moon or mercury, a person's constellation has the characteristics of Aquarius, and they will make them feel different characteristics.

1, pursuing objectivity and indifference

Aquarius is air signs, and Aquarius is an emotionless object. Aquarius, controlled by Uranus, needs to look at the world objectively and rationally in order to get the scientific truth. Therefore, such messy things as emotions can only be suppressed or dodged silently when they fall into Aquarius, otherwise it will affect their objective judgment of things and truth. This is a kind of thinking logic and wind direction characteristics of Aquarius owners.

2. Rebellion and selfishness.

Aquarius is a naturally intelligent child with the spirit of scientists exploring knowledge. They are smart, and they are considered smart by their families and themselves. In the key high school where I attended high school, one fifth of my classmates are Aquarius, and indeed their innate intelligence is usually not bad. As air signs, they naturally like the stimulation of knowledge, so they don't need to be too impulsive in their studies. Even if they don't seem to be the kind of children who study hard and their interests are the best teachers, they are likely to be biased towards science.

Aquarius thinks highly of his intelligence from an early age. They have many ideas, are open-minded, have a particularly strong rebellious heart, and are quite stubborn about their dreams. They are real dream catchers. Children with Aquarius characteristics will find it difficult to recognize their parents when they grow up. They will think that their parents are stupid or restrict their freedom to explore the world, so boys in adolescence, especially Moon Aquarius, will rebel and even run away from home.

In Aquarius's view, they are the cleverest. They can discover a lot of wisdom that others don't understand, OMG, but you are too stupid, so I want to prove to you that I am smart and I am right. So, well, Aquarius, you should be prepared for the struggle of adolescence.

3. Independence and freedom

Wind represents air. Aquarius, controlled by Uranus, pursues reform, change and novelty, especially independence and freedom. If he/she is deprived of breathing space, Aquarius will not only lose vitality, but also suffer from severe depression. Aquarius people like to make their own decisions. I hate that my freedom is bound by any form, and because of this, Aquarius often pursues the recognition of the collective and all mankind without the recognition within my life. Aquarius prefers to be independent of the world. There is an ancient proverb "Watch your mouth", which is Aquarius. They protect themselves abnormally, deliberately draw a clear line between themselves and others, and have no intention of laying down their spiritual weapons.

4. Independent banks and innovation

Aquarius people are often blatantly aloof from the crowd, but all Aquarius people have their own observation and thinking about the world, which is difficult for others to understand, that is, people in the same Aquarius can't understand each other, that is, their ideas are unique and it is difficult for their families to understand. When people say such things, they always want to try and see if there is any other way. I hate to follow others' advice.

They have the most avant-garde and bold ideas, and their acceptance has no bottom line. They can understand everything that exists, so their tolerance is definitely the highest in December. It is this tolerance and objectivity that allows them to pursue the truth as much as possible on a larger scale. They are the most unconventional group of people, it is difficult for others to understand, and they are too lazy to explain. They don't like being too close to others.

5. Stubborn and true

Aquarius usually has a silent stubbornness and persistence. Because they are full of futuristic thinking, they often have determined their own life ideals at a very young age, and they are determined to strive to reach the peak of their ideals in their hearts. But they never tell others, and these ideals are often not supported by others because of lack of communication, so they always live alone for a long time.

Not only that, because they are calm and self-enclosed, they will make many people hate and angry, so they have to bear a lot of ridicule and satire. Aquarius is the most persistent group of people in the twelve constellations. They never give up their dreams and will try their best to fight for them. Although the road is rugged, they never regret it.

6. Friendly and affectionate

People in earth signs may love food and enjoy it, while people in air signs need spiritual stimulation, especially to communicate with different people who transcend race, country, culture and gender. Aquarius is either very concerned about global warming, environmental protection, discrimination and other issues, or very keen to participate in various organizations and groups, as if he/she cares about the same problems of all mankind.

Friends are equal, they can exchange ideas freely without being suppressed, they can get more people's ideas through more exchanges, and they can know whether their ideas are correct through everyone's feedback on his ideas. Because friends are equal and broad, they represent the objective world, not family and lovers. They can face it rationally and objectively, without being suppressed or caring about the consequences. Moreover, different people's ideas give him fresh cognitive stimulation, while the ideas of lovers and family members have long been known, which is boring for them. So this is the strangest thing about Aquarius-being too close to family or lover will make him/her breathless, but he/she feels comfortable in a group or mass movement.

Aquarius believes in not taking the usual path. It's normal to be willful, rebellious and emotional. However, it is often out of touch with all sentient beings. Their feelings tend to be "equal treatment" rather than "intimacy": it is difficult for one person to arouse the enthusiasm of the moon bottle, but a group of people is enough to awaken the blood of the water bottle. The affair between children is a difficult problem for Aquarius, because their talent is the task of insight into human wisdom and life.

But don't think Aquarius is a person without feelings. In fact, people in air signs are very vulnerable to emotions. Anything that their minds can't analyze clearly will make them feel insecure. The best way is to analyze rationally or keep a proper distance.

If Sagittarius is cosmopolitan, then Aquarius is cosmopolitan. Aquarius friends, in his mind, classify friends well: those who play ball together, those who go to nightclubs together, those who communicate at work ... each friend can only see one face of him, so maybe he can keep a certain distance politely and properly.

Yes! All moon wind signs may need to deal with emotions and interpersonal intimacy appropriately, elegantly and rationally. Aquarius especially needs personal space, and he/she has a certain degree of emotional load (and the saturation point is quite low). Aquarius often needs to evacuate his/her thoughts from the crowd.

In the relationship between two people, such freedom is particularly important. Whether parents or lovers are too possessive or too controlling, they are not suitable for Moon Aquarius. As a parent, the best way is to treat him as a friend and an independent individual from an early age.

However, Aquarius family members or lovers often fail to respect or understand these characteristics, and may complain that they are too cold, distant and inaccessible. Over time, Aquarius people will feel that there is something wrong with them, or as a famous singer sang, "I don't like love"-in fact, everyone's characteristics and needs are different. As long as Aquarius has a proper breathing space, he/she will not only be grateful, but also grateful.

Aquarius is smart, knowledgeable and tolerant, but his thinking is relatively independent and he longs for freedom. Aquarius's love for freedom will make many girls and boys feel insecure. But with Aquarius, in fact, as long as you grasp these points, you don't have to be afraid:

1, the most basic principle is that you should treat them as friends.

Aquarius, as the last constellation in air signs, pursues knowledge and needs to know the world objectively, so they need to communicate more with others, so the group environment is more suitable for them, but he doesn't belong to anyone, and everyone is equal to him. Therefore, as a lover of Aquarius, you should understand their needs. In the distance of friends, that is, don't stick to them too much, so they will be willing to stay with you all the time.

Don't guess what they think.

As a constellation of wisdom, Aquarius often needs all kinds of knowledge and tries all kinds of ideas. They like to be innovative and unconventional. They usually think they are smart, so they won't agree with other people's ideas, and eventually they will have many seemingly unconventional ideas. It is precisely because they pursue their own unique intelligence that they have their own philosophy and disdain to explain it. Many times, they are attracted by all kinds of fresh knowledge. If you always think about their ideas, you can't keep up with his rhythm at all, and you will only make them feel bored.

3. Maintain your independence and learning ability, and be a knowledgeable person.

Aquarius basically likes smart people with brains. Their thinking is very tolerant, and there are no rules about what kind of people, so as long as you have your own unique opinions and thinking, Aquarius may like you. However, the love of water bottles is usually not obvious.

Step 4 set them free

Before determining the relationship, they will be hot and cold because of uncertainty. But after stability, it's actually neither cold nor hot, nor sticky, more like friends. They need freedom and independent space. Grasp the law and you will be very stable.

Aquarius usually loves to make friends and is the star of friendship. You should be prepared for this. I also hope Aquarius friends can reflect on themselves, but I think, well, they won't feel the need to reflect on this article. ....

Whether you are Aquarius's parents or lovers, please remember that treating them as "friends" is the best way to get along.

Let's learn about Aquarius's thinking.

1, pursuing objectivity and indifference

Aquarius is air signs, and Aquarius is an emotionless object. Aquarius, controlled by Uranus, needs to look at the world objectively and rationally in order to get the scientific truth. Therefore, such messy things as emotions can only be suppressed or dodged silently when they fall into Aquarius, otherwise it will affect their objective judgment of things and truth. This is a kind of thinking logic and wind direction characteristics of Aquarius owners.

2. Rebellion and selfishness.

Aquarius is a naturally intelligent child with the spirit of scientists exploring knowledge. They are smart, and they are considered smart by their families and themselves. In the key high school where I attended high school, one fifth of my classmates are Aquarius, and indeed their innate intelligence is usually not bad. As air signs, they naturally like the stimulation of knowledge, so they don't need to be too impulsive in their studies. Even if they don't seem to be the kind of children who study hard and their interests are the best teachers, they are likely to be biased towards science.

Aquarius thinks highly of his intelligence from an early age. They have many ideas, are open-minded, have a particularly strong rebellious heart, and are quite stubborn about their dreams. They are real dream catchers. Children with Aquarius characteristics will find it difficult to recognize their parents when they grow up. They will think that their parents are stupid or restrict their freedom to explore the world, so boys in adolescence, especially Moon Aquarius, will rebel and even run away from home.

In Aquarius's view, they are the cleverest. They can discover a lot of wisdom that others don't understand, OMG, but you are too stupid, so I want to prove to you that I am smart and I am right. So, well, Aquarius, you should be prepared for the struggle of adolescence.

3. Independence and freedom

Wind represents air. Aquarius, controlled by Uranus, pursues reform, change and novelty, especially independence and freedom. If he/she is deprived of breathing space, Aquarius will not only lose vitality, but also suffer from severe depression.

Aquarius people like to make their own decisions. I hate that my freedom is bound by any form, and because of this, Aquarius often pursues the recognition of the collective and all mankind without the recognition within my life. Aquarius prefers to be independent of the world. There is an ancient proverb "Watch your mouth", which is Aquarius. They protect themselves abnormally, deliberately draw a clear line between themselves and others, and have no intention of laying down their spiritual weapons.

4. Independent banks and innovation

Aquarius people are often blatantly aloof from the crowd, but all Aquarius people have their own observation and thinking about the world, which is difficult for others to understand, that is, people in the same Aquarius can't understand each other, that is, their ideas are unique and it is difficult for their families to understand. When people say such things, they always want to try and see if there is any other way. I hate to follow others' advice.

They have the most avant-garde and bold ideas, and their acceptance has no bottom line. They can understand everything that exists, so their tolerance is definitely the highest in December. It is this tolerance and objectivity that allows them to pursue the truth as much as possible on a larger scale. They are the most unconventional group of people, it is difficult for others to understand, and they are too lazy to explain. They don't like being too close to others.

5. Stubborn and true

Aquarius usually has a silent stubbornness and persistence. Because they are full of futuristic thinking, they often have determined their own life ideals at a very young age, and they are determined to strive to reach the peak of their ideals in their hearts. But they never tell others, and these ideals are often not supported by others because of lack of communication, so they always live alone for a long time. Not only that, because they are calm and self-enclosed, they will make many people hate and angry, so they have to bear a lot of ridicule and satire.

Aquarius is the most persistent group of people in the twelve constellations. They never give up their dreams and will try their best to fight for them. Although the road is rugged, they never regret it.

6. Friendly and affectionate

People in earth signs may love food and enjoy it, while people in air signs need spiritual stimulation, especially to communicate with different people who transcend race, country, culture and gender. Aquarius is either very concerned about global warming, environmental protection, discrimination and other issues, or very keen to participate in various organizations and groups, as if he/she cares about the same problems of all mankind.

Friends are equal, they can exchange ideas freely without being suppressed, they can get more people's ideas through more exchanges, and they can know whether their ideas are correct through everyone's feedback on his ideas. Because friends are equal and broad, they represent the objective world, not family and lovers. They can face it rationally and objectively, without being suppressed or caring about the consequences. Moreover, different people's ideas give him fresh cognitive stimulation, while the ideas of lovers and family members have long been known, which is boring for them.

So this is the strangest thing about Aquarius-being too close to family or lover will make him/her breathless, but he/she feels comfortable in a group or mass movement.