How do sky constellations get along with their superiors?

Air signs includes Gemini in the third house, Libra in the seventh house and Aquarius in the eleventh house. These three constellations are not represented by animals, either humans (twins) or inanimate objects (scales and water bottles), which are completely different from the two and a half mammals (sheep, lions and centaurs) in the fire sign and the three cold-blooded animals (crabs, scorpions and fish) in the water sign. This shows that people in air signs have been divorced from animality. They are extremely calm, neither moved by excitement nor influenced by emotions, but make independent and rational judgments based on objective facts. Just like the characteristics of the wind, they come and go in a hurry, never taking away a cloud or staying for anyone.

This group is proud of collecting information, rational thinking and judgment. They are keen to learn all kinds of knowledge, obtain all kinds of information and intelligence, and can make independent judgments from an objective and neutral perspective. Most of them have high IQ and high academic qualifications, but being too objective and rational will also make them lose their passion and goodwill and become boring and superficial. On the surface, they can maintain good interpersonal relationships with others and have a good popularity, but in fact, they always deliberately keep their distance from others, and sometimes they are as calm as outsiders.

So, how do you get along with such an eloquent and intelligent, but somewhat impersonal, rational and calm boss?

1, they won't buy it if they don't play emotional cards.

How close are you to a friend of a constellation before you can borrow money from him?

I can only answer you: never borrow it.

Contrary to popular understanding, people in air signs find it most difficult to borrow money. We compare them with people in other constellations.

Make a comparison. Fire sign is the easiest sign to lend money to others. They are generous and will give generously to friends in need. Although the earth sign people seem a little stingy, if you are very trustworthy, they can earn some interest from it. As far as interest is concerned, the earth sign people will still lend you money. People in the water sign will decide whether to give you a loan according to their mood and relationship with you at that time. However, Air Constellation, no matter how strong your relationship with him is and how good your credit is, he is still unwilling to lend you money. Why is this?

Because people in the air constellation are too rational, don't look. They usually chat happily with you, just like brothers and sisters, but in fact, their hearts are like mirrors. They long for freedom, don't like being bound by others or trifles, and don't want to be trapped by money. They don't like to borrow money from others, which will make them feel inferior and subject to others; They also don't want to lend money to others, because once they are trapped by this money in the future, it will haunt him for several years. If you are going to borrow money from him with an emotional card like buddy loyalty, he will think it is an emotional "blackmail". Even if he doesn't say it on the surface, he is determined to escape.

In the workplace, air signs's boss may give people an approachable feeling. Except Aquarius, Gemini and Libra like to mingle with others, but that's only superficial. If you mistakenly think that the boss will give you some special treatment because of your usual friendship, you are all wet. Crying and begging him to lend you money, telling him not to fire you and not to lower your salary, those are doomed to be in vain. You have to remember: they are the same to everyone, they will balance everyone and will not open a back door for you alone. If we don't know enough, we should move out of what we did in the past and what we should do now. He regarded these words as a kind of "moral kidnapping".

Remember: he doesn't want to owe you a favor, but he won't let himself be kidnapped because of this favor.

2. tolerate their changeability and capriciousness.

In addition to being fast and nonstop, the wind has another feature, which is changeable. People in air signs have the same personality as the wind.

Like, east, west, wavering. Needless to say, Gemini is sentimental and oversensitive, Libra is indecisive, even Aquarius, a fixed constellation, has a fickle side. Being their lover is very hard, because this partner will not put all his thoughts on you. Even after marriage, people in air signs will still have their own circle of friends and many friends of the opposite sex. Unless this person's astrolabe has the opposite restrictive force, otherwise, this group of people are generally more playboy.

Air signs's boss is also fickle. They don't like being bound, even by their own words. They can talk about the old saying that "a promise is as good as a promise" and "you're kidding", but they don't take it seriously. They asked their people to "do as I say", but what did they say? One minute the boss said that, and the next minute he said he would do it? Which sentence should we listen to?

Air signs's boss is changeable, which is different from fire sign and water sign. The fire sign boss changed his plan because they were anxious to see the result; The boss of the water sign is changeable because of the change of mood; However, the boss of the water sign can change for no reason, which is even more elusive.

So what should we do? In fact, don't worry too much, just be yourself. For your subordinates, making two or more plans in advance, "one red heart, two preparations" is the best response. Of course, there is another way for you to "act first", that is, when he gives two contradictory instructions and he doesn't ask himself to choose which to cook, you cook the uncooked rice first. Even if he knew that he would be a little upset in the future, he was not good at it because he didn't ask you what to do, so he had to bite the bullet and eat it. Yes, who told you that the leader is indecisive and hesitant? People who are not decisive can only be led by decisive people. However, there are certain risks in doing so. You must ensure that your "action before action" can achieve certain results and satisfy your boss. If you are not completely sure about this, you'd better not take risks.

Keep up with their rhythm, but don't mess up your own discretion.

The bosses in air signs are quick-thinking and quick-talking, so they can say many things in a scratching way.

Let the person sitting opposite him feel a little breathless.

In the face of such a speed master, you can only step up and keep up with his rhythm. Unlike Fire Earth, people in air signs seem to be more impatient. They will call you before the deadline, or give you a surprise inspection, so that you can come up with a plan immediately. At this time, if you solemnly say to him, "Boss, the deadline you gave me hasn't arrived, and I haven't started preparing yet," he will be furious. For them, time can be long or short. As a boss, should I be limited by the time I give you? No, I want it now, now!

Therefore, for the boss in air signs, you must have enough psychological preparation to finish the work ahead of time. If you really can't finish it, at least let him see your phased achievements, such as writing an outline or doing some "preparatory work".

However, although it is fast, don't be confused by it. The boss of Air signs has a leap-forward thinking. They often give some inconsistent orders and like to make some incredible explanations for these orders. Moreover, it is not good for you to refute their "fallacies and heresies" face to face. So, if you really can't carry out his "alien" orders, you'd better do something that everyone on earth can understand. As long as you are good to the company and the boss, and your choice is proved to be right afterwards, the boss in air signs will forgive you. Don't forget, people in air signs are not stubborn. They are good at finding reasonable explanations for various results.

Don't try to argue with them. You can't argue with them.

Don't try to argue with a person from air signs, you can't beat them. As a star in charge of language and thinking

The weathervane man confidently thinks that he is eloquent. They pretend to be eloquent and look down on other constellations. They are good at confusing various irrelevant concepts. In their mouths, black may be white. Even if not, is there a gray area? Arguing with them will only make you more depressed and even make you doubt your life, which is a great blow to your self-esteem and morale.

People in air signs will not reason with you, let alone talk about feelings. It's no use. Their words sound rational, but you will find that these "rationality" seem to be subordinate to the purpose of their argument with you. Language, for people in air signs, is a readily available raw material. You can't control what kind of material they want to pinch. Instead of arguing with them endlessly, you might as well shut up and do your own thing as soon as possible.

So, if your boss in air signs criticizes you, you'd better shut up and don't argue with him. He will say a lot, no matter how unpleasant it is, you should be patient and never refute it. When his anger subsides and his words run out, his voice becomes hoarse and he will naturally shut up.

Remember: People in air signs are born as "lawyers". Who wants to argue with a lawyer when something happens?

5. Don't be too honest and don't tell them too much.

People in air signs are generally talkative, Gemini people talk a lot, Libra people are good at negotiation, and Aquarius people.

Knowledgeable, they are still very competent conversation partners and friends. They are also suitable for teachers, actors, writers, broadcasters, presenters, journalists, media and advertising industries.

However, as the old saying goes, "if you talk too much, you will lose." People in the air sign are talkative, and it is easy to bring trouble to themselves or others because they talk too much. Although they are smart enough and objective enough, they will inevitably reveal some secrets and privacy about themselves or others.

Therefore, in the face of this group of bosses who are good at communication, you must be more careful and never tell them anything. Otherwise, one day you will hear that others already know your secret. Needless to say, this must be what you, the boss of air sign, said.

Remember: they are the wind, and the wind is pervasive and pervasive. You can't gag them, so you'd better shut your mouth first.

6. Don't bind them, let them be free.

What are the characteristics of the wind? That is to be free and unconstrained and do whatever you want. Wind is not fire, water, soil and is not needed.

To be attached to anything, it can penetrate into every inch of space.

People in air signs hate being tied down. They yearn for freedom, and they don't want to stay at home, and they don't want to be bound by intimacy. They are affectionate and uneasy about single-minded marriage; They are fickle and unwilling to make any promises; They do whatever they want and don't like being bound by any rules and regulations.

As their employees, you must never let them make any promises to you, and don't take out what they said in the past to remind them: Why did they overthrow it today? To put it bluntly, they have no contractual spirit. For them, the word contract is only a stopgap measure under certain circumstances. They are free to explain what they have said, promised and even torn up contracts. Anyway, the power of interpretation has always been in their hands, and they can say whatever they like. Don't try to remind him to arrive on time or wait for you somewhere. He doesn't care. His feet are his. He can go wherever he wants. What else can you do with him?

For such a boss who comes and goes without a trace, is not subject to any constraints and does not keep any promises, you must be calm. Fortunately, although they may not always keep their promises, at least they know a little balance. If you respect their freedom, he will give you a corresponding reward. He doesn't want to owe you a favor. After all, what he owes you will always be paid back.

Air signs boss's way of getting along: three stars.