How do Virgo men and Gemini women keep their love fresh?

I accidentally saw your question while reading other posts, and my tears came out ~ ~ You should be a virgin! ^^

My boyfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago. He is a virgin and I am a pair of children, hehe.

Do you think the statement that virgins and Gemini don't get along has been verified again?

During the period after we broke up, my foot was broken again, which was tragic. The pain in my heart and body also made me calm down and think rationally. ...

I think your question is particularly good. When virgins and Gemini are unfamiliar, the virgins' profundity, delicacy and connotation and children's liveliness, loveliness and clearness are wands that attract each other and make them happy together. However, when we develop further, we will find that there are many places in the inner personality of two people that are not so easy to make the atmosphere harmonious and warm. Even when we often misunderstand each other's meaning, people in both constellations are very sensitive, so after a long time, the freshness of love will gradually become more and more elusive.

Is your situation similar to ours?

I remember when we broke up, my boyfriend told me that we passed our friends and went straight to our lovers. If you start to be friends for a long time, you may not even be friends.

Now that I think about it, it is not easy for people of the two constellations to communicate deeply, which may be the reason why he said so, and it should also be the reason why lovers of the two constellations are not easy to keep fresh.

Friend, do you really like your Gemini girlfriend? If you like her and care about her, don't let go as easily as we do. Every love will not be so easy. Since we have to walk hand in hand for a long time, we must have the confidence to overcome difficulties together.

I talked to my friends who are studying psychology, and they offered some suggestions.

Since it is a combination of two constellations that is not easy to keep the freshness of love, we should manage this relationship more attentively than others.

People in both constellations are easy to feel insecure, sensitive and eager to be understood, considerate and concerned by others, so they should treat each other more carefully and patiently and fully trust each other.

When we are together, we can't do whatever we want from the beginning, let alone do whatever we want. It is likely that the other person will misunderstand you and feel uncomfortable, especially the two children. They should be more patient with virgins. Besides playing lively and cheerful, they should communicate calmly and enthusiastically. This is not easy for many virgins, and they will not speak their minds easily. The two children should have patient understanding and respect, have self-restraint, stop asking lively and cheerful questions, and calm down and tell them: "Don't say it now if you don't want to say it, and tell me at any time when you want to say it. I will wait for you. "

When a person says or does something that makes another person feel uncomfortable, it is a little difficult for a virgin to tell him frankly in time, but even a few short words should be said as much as possible. After speaking out, neither side can be angry, and the other side should patiently think about why the other side is upset. Is it your fault? Or is the other party misunderstood? Then communicate and solve the problem in time, and don't do it overnight, otherwise the unhappiness in your heart will accumulate.

Some people say that virgins and Gemini have completely different logical thinking and cannot convince each other, so there will be more and more contradictions. However, love is not persuasion, but understanding, tolerance and seeking common ground while reserving differences. When the two sides have different ideas and opinions, you can't be angry or eager to convince the other side, but think about why the other side thinks like that. Is there any truth in such thinking and thinking? If you must make the other person change his mind, you can't refute it in a hurry. You should tell the other person calmly. If the other person can't accept it for a while, then don't say it. Let's put this question aside and take a neutral view. When two people act and think together, they will gradually approach, evolve and become mature and perfect. After a period of time, it is very likely that the other party will tell you that the last question was wrong, and it is also possible to stick to your own ideas.

Compared with virgins, Capricorn, Taurus, Gemini, Libra and Aries, this running-in period will be more difficult, requiring care, patience, trust and respect, and getting to know each other gradually. When this running-in period has passed, you will find that without saying anything, the other person's eyes and expressions will understand what it means, thus forming a real tacit understanding. Plus the wands that attracted each other at the beginning, you will find that every day is.

What needs special reminder is that Virgo is very cautious and picky, and needs to be tolerated and accepted by two children. Gemini's carelessness, informality and over-hearty, should be restrained a little in front of virgins, and be a lively, clear and educated second child.

Gemini's carelessness can easily make virgins feel insincere, which must not be thought so. People say that Gemini people are playboys, but that's only before they meet the right person and start a relationship. Because I am afraid of being hurt, I constantly screen the other half in my heart and keep changing. But when they decide to start dating, Gemini will be very attentive and single-minded. Gemini is actually very simple and kind.

Before we broke up, I always felt that I didn't like him that much, and that I would soon forget him after we broke up, because I was a careless child. But after the real breakup, I didn't think I could do it, and I realized that the love I thought was very dull when I was in love could be so profound, and he actually walked into my heart. During the day, I thought I had nothing to miss, so I broke up, but for a month and a half, I woke up once or twice every night, feeling that I didn't dream, but when I woke up, I still had his face, smile and unhappy expression in my mind, and then there was heartbreaking pain, mixed with foot pain. I think only time can cure these pains.

So my friend, if you really like your girlfriend, just tighten her hand and work together. Who says Gemini and Virgo can't go to the end? Just need to pay more efforts and thoughts than others to solve the problem of poor communication with wisdom, and after many years, this effort and thoughts will become your best memories and most precious wealth. Gemini girl is really nice, don't let go of her hand easily.

Come on! Bless you! Hehe ~ ~