Girlfriends avoid talking about ex-boyfriends. What should they do as current boyfriends?

I don't want to talk to you if I love you. Why do you say that? In fact, many people in love will be particularly curious about who is more important in each other's psychology, themselves or their predecessors. Boys are like this, so are girls, and girls care more. Then why not say it? Wouldn't it be nice to say,' You are much more important than him, and I like you better'? Do you think this is over? People's curiosity is endless, and so is their desire. When the other person answers your questions, you will ask more. Why do you think so? What is the reason? What did I do better than him? Finally, the question became' What happened to you and him? Then it's your turn to be angry.

Ah, what shall we do? I really want to curse. Actually, my girlfriend has done that to other boys, but not to me. Why? Didn't she say that she loved me more? How can you do so much for others? Then the contradiction intensifies, and the ending is a quarrel. You hurt yourself and your girlfriend. There are quite a few people who break up for such a thing. What you need to know is that it's just her past. She didn't know you before. She used to like that man and it was natural to do anything for him. But she's with you now, and she loves you. What you have to do is not dwell on her past, but treat her well and cherish her. It may even be that the previous relationship hurt her so much that she doesn't want to recall it.

If you love her, slowly fill her inner darkness with your love, and don't let her have any chance to think of that person in the past. Who hasn't lived in the past? Mutual understanding and tolerance will make your relationship last longer. Everyone has his own past. I believe that the silence of my ex-boyfriend includes respect for me and protection for myself. Why dwell on the past? If you like this person, you should tolerate everything about her. Including her ex-boyfriend. Whatever. If others don't want to talk, don't ask and ignore it.