I suspect my wife is having an affair. Please help me analyze it. What should I do?

You and I are in the same boat, even in the same way. At first, I posted for help, and I didn't know what to do. I am at a loss and helpless. If two people don't love each other, just divorce. When I found my wife, I was really sad. I don't believe my wife would be that kind of person. I think a woman is very cheap, and it is disloyal to be so kind to her. It's not fair.

After several months of calmness, my mind has calmed down now. Let me talk about it, I hope it will be useful to you. First of all, your wife must be having an affair, that is to say, your wife has a crush on that man, perhaps not too deeply, because your wife enjoys the care and love that her husband can't bring to herself and enjoys the "love" of others. This is definitely not a day or two. My wife once said that she never thought it would be so disgusting to sleep with him, but as a woman in her senior year, she suddenly felt that someone was very attractive to you. Even if the man has ulterior motives (what the man wants from my wife), women always naively think that as long as they hold their own defense lines, they will not do anything with him and will not cause harm to others. Women are really stupid and naive, but they just don't know how to get into it.

Your wife should just regard him as a confidant now, playing ambiguous and having sex should not be enough. If she has done it, she will not be at a loss and will not be uncertain about the man's attitude. I think you should talk to your wife now. Your behavior has deeply hurt our feelings. I am very unhappy. If you still want a good life, you should break up with that man and never see him again. If you can't break up with him, I'm sorry I have my own way of dealing with it. Then don't regret it I can tolerate loving you, but don't treat me like a fool.