Three thoughts that can make you happy to death

Three thoughts that can make you happy to death

The first one,

Never care what others think of you. Remember that it is anyone, especially those who are not relatives. Many people just suppress you, deliberately look down on you, make you unhappy, or spray you, envy you and hate you.

Remember that these are internal friction to your spirit, add fuel and materials. He just makes you unhappy, just to suppress you on purpose. He suppresses you in order to be comfortable.

Therefore, if you take this kind of person too seriously and care too much about him, you will lose to him.

The sage Wang Yangming has long explained this truth.

How to control emotions?

There is only one answer, that is, not taking emotions seriously.

You care too much about what others think of you. If you care too much about this person, you will definitely stay inside and get out.

Remember, in this world, except life and death, everything else is bullshit, and you can never satisfy everyone.

The worst thing about people is that you can't live better than others.

The second one,

Never feel inferior.

Never feel inferior. Whether this person has money or not has nothing to do with you.

There are many people who are too servile, and when they see people who are better than themselves, even some people who pretend to be forced, they become timid.

As everyone knows, many people just pretend to be dung beetles.

How to see if you are really rich?

I'm telling you this, look at a person's material, not what he wears, what he drives and what he eats, but his circle.

If this person's circle is very advanced, 90% of this person is expected.

If this person only has clothes and so-called luxury cars,

This thing of his is for loading. His pockets are cleaner than his face.

You don't need to feel inferior, you will always be yourself.

The third one,

Time is limited.

You ask yourself how old you are this year People usually only make you unhappy for a few seconds, but these seconds can affect your mood for a long time. Do you ask yourself if it's worth it?

Let me ask you, do you remember who you quarreled with at 7: 30 pm on July 5, 20 13 and at 7: 30 pm on March 26, 20 19?

You must have forgotten completely, or you pushed it forward for three years at five o'clock in the afternoon. Who made you unhappy because of what? Do you remember?

You don't remember, but you are angry.

So if you want to be happy, you must put your time in the long run, and never let one thing affect you. That's called mental internal friction

When people are old, they will only regret what they didn't do when they were young, but not what they did, so eat, drink and be merry in time to make life more meaningful.

What is optimism?

Optimism means that you hate life after seeing through its essence, but you still love it. Being alive is inherently tiring. Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day.