I still can't figure out why love is so difficult-Leo

This constellation always wants to know why love is so difficult-Leo.

Le Signe du Lion

As long as Leo can't go all out in a relationship, ta will feel ashamed.

Part 0 1.

Love the brain, the road is bumpy, you can't fall in love well, and your eyes are not very good. ...

I will use these words when describing Leo's emotional problems.

In fact, it is still a problem to sum up. Leo is a person who is difficult to learn experience in feelings, so ta always loves in the most primitive way.

You can understand it this way. After the lion finds that his feelings are mixed with skills, ta will think that this is not what ta wants.

Whether the other party uses skills or ta finds himself using skills.

Let the lion make up his mind to start a relationship or really want to cherish a relationship, it must be a desire and impulse without any impurities.

The second part.

It's a bit abstract, just give an example.

For example, if a person pursues a lion, it is excellent for the lion to be caring and attentive in the process of ambiguity, but one day there are some contradictions, and the lion feels that the other party does not care enough about himself.

Then the man was reasonable and made a promise to coax the lion.

Although coaxed, I still feel wrong when I get home and lie in bed. I feel that the other person seems to be very good at technology and takes care of himself. Although I am very happy with ta, I always feel something is missing.

This relationship seems superficial, and you can't see the other person's heart at all.

So, the lion began to be alert, with a targeted eye, picked out all the shortcomings of the other party, and then magnified it and told himself that it was not the feeling he wanted.

Similarly, a man who pursues a lion has suffered a lot in the process of ambiguity, because the other party is not active enough and always lets the lion guess his heart. Although I am secretly cursing each other, I still can't help but want to find ta.

One day, two people had some contradictions, and the lion crackled. As a result, the other party was silent and bowed his head and looked wronged. Although ta didn't give any explanation, he just apologized blindly, but the lion suddenly relented and felt that the person in front of him was really gentle and cared about himself.

At the same time, ta will also blame herself. Why should she treat someone who loves you so much?

So the lion's eyes are full of love, magnifying each other's advantages and each other's kindness to himself, and then telling himself that this is the feeling he wants.

This is just an example. It is normal that some lions cannot be replaced, because no one knows what the lion will be moved by.

In the abstract, it is the moment when the other person is angry, uncomfortable and wronged, and still defends himself, tolerates himself and thinks for himself, rather than how happy two people are when they get along happily.

The third part.

It is precisely because the lion likes to enlarge, so ta can't control which direction his attitude towards a person and a relationship goes.

It can only be said that when ta begins to magnify shortcomings, feelings must become more and more unstable.

When ta begins to amplify its advantages, it will surely sink in slowly.

In this way, the first few words are easy to understand. "I am in love with my brain, and my road to love is bumpy. I won't fall in love well and my eyes are not very good. "

This is because when a lion wants to love, ta is too spicy. The obstruction of reality, the contradiction of personality and the friction of life can't stop ta's footsteps.

Ta will amplify each other's advantages until it affects ta's own judgment, because Ta believes that as long as two people really love each other, they can break any resistance.

This kind of fervor is really not a bad thing, but when a lion with a fiery heart gets along with each other, it will cause endless resentment.

Especially when you are wronged, think about how much you have paid for being with each other and injected so many expectations, and ta is even more wronged. ...

And when ta begins to feel wronged for "unworthiness", ta will fall into paranoia.

You will begin to amplify each other's shortcomings and unhappiness when two people get along.

So, most of the time, you don't think it is necessary for the lion to lose such a big temper, but this is also the reason for the high ta. Ta is not because of what happened, but because you ignored ta's grievances, made ta more wronged, and then blew it.

Can the lion remain rational and logical at this time?

Obviously you can't.

Ta will blame you for all the grievances and pains caused by feelings, blame you for not being able to eat, blame you for not being able to sleep, blame you for not being interested in studying, blame you for working, and blame you. ...

Ta has only one sentence in her heart. If you really love ta, you won't let ta become like this. If it is really suitable, the relationship will not develop to this point.

Then the lion will have a very strong impulse. Ta will ruin this relationship and let it go.

However, when ta goes to tell the other party malicious words and do malicious things, ta will feel very guilty again …

Ta couldn't help blaming herself for the mistake, and felt that it was her constant efforts that would make the other party like this and make her feelings like this.

Lion's love, once tempted, can't come together.

As long as you describe it in words, you should be able to feel what the lion looks like when it is overhead.

But I can only say that in life, lions who enter this state will only be more repetitive, more painful, more tortured and more paranoid.

Because ta doesn't understand.

Why, love is so difficult.

The hot and real result is that as long as you are tempted, there is no way to be together.

Ta can't put it down completely.

Even after starting a new life, ta will still carry the wounds of the past, and at the same time, ta will try its best to cover up these wounds.

Ta is still eager for love, but she doesn't believe in love so much.

As mentioned above, after the lion finds that his feelings are mixed with skills, ta will think that this is not what ta wants.

Whether the other party uses skills or ta finds himself using skills.

When ta doesn't believe in love so much and is afraid of being hurt, ta will start to use skills.

Fear of being hurt is actually resisting love.

And the lion enters a state of "resisting love", and ta may take a long time to recover.

As long as ta can't go all out in a relationship, ta will feel ashamed.

And ta ignored it because she dared not love anymore.

Will have a lingering fear

Ta never understood.

Why, love is so difficult.