I am a Virgo, so is my girlfriend, born on the same day of the same month. Is it appropriate to be together? It hasn't developed much yet

From the constellation point of view, you can be a well-matched couple, because we all have the same personality characteristics, and when we meet together, our understanding will naturally be high. But because you are a Virgo, you are too idealistic, too practical and too picky, and you think it should be like this. Getting along for a long time will cause a lot of trouble.

You won't fall in love at first sight. It must take a long time for everyone to explore and see how each other is. Plus you're not active enough. You wait for me to make a statement, and I'll wait for you to stand up.

When I decided that the other person was my target, the situation was not optimistic. I was too critical, jealous and unhappy with each other. I thought about what the other person was thinking. What's the significance of his behavior? Does he put you first? Too much calculation, on the contrary, loses the premise of love, makes you feel happy, and love becomes a hard thing, both physically and mentally tired.

Separation: too much concern for each other is the death of your feelings, so don't have family life and try to reduce contact points. Many Virgos and Virgos are developed by colleagues, but for the long-term plan, it is best not to have contact at work and do your own work well. You have you, and I have me, which can reduce the number of times that the other party is critical of themselves, and it is not easy to have too many painful feet for the other party to count.

Speak low: you have a heavy sense of responsibility for your feelings, and getting a small thing can become a big thing. Plus, what you think the other person should know and understand is too wishful thinking, so try to put aside more activities outside the two people's world, especially sports, and think from the other person's position. If you don't say anything, the other person may really not know.