Is the cancer girl selfish, thinking only of herself and not others?

How can it be? Cancer women can't be selfish. People in this constellation are famous for their tolerance, patience and dedication. If possible, I think it is better to know their personalities first, otherwise there may be misunderstandings. In the constellation 12, if you want to be selfish, Cancer really has no problem, and I think if you encounter this kind of problem in love, you can either change yourself to understand her, or understand her and change her, otherwise you can only part.

Then cancer is actually an insecure constellation. They care too much about other people's opinions and emotions. Therefore, cancer has learned to read minds since childhood and can always see their emotional changes at a glance. But cancer is patient, which leads them to escape, that is, to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages reasonably. This is probably how they feel when they live in their own world.

Also, if cancer is in a state of emotional inequality for a long time, then they will have that kind of paranoia, selfishness and self-awareness, which is probably the kind of instinct that once they are serious, they can't restrain loving others more than loving themselves, so if they want to solve it, they can only control this wandering process by themselves, and over time they will become more and more picky and hide their true feelings.

This is actually a way for them to protect themselves. In fact, to put it bluntly, you didn't give her the sense of security she wanted, nor did you give her enough feelings in return. So she forces you to leave her or gives her the feelings she wants in this way, so that he can believe your feelings for him. In this case, he is not willing to treat you badly at all, let alone be selfish in front of you. Of course, it's up to you to decide what to do.