What constellations are willing to wait for their loved ones to grow up?

I am an Aquarius girl, and I am willing to grow up with my virgin male. Now that his job is stable, I always ask him if he has enough money. He always said, enough. Actually, he is not enough. I can give it to him, but I know he has backbone. If it's not enough, I have that sentence here. Can I give it to you first? I have been afraid to ask, for fear of hurting his self-esteem. Now we are in different places, different cities, and seldom meet each other. We meet for two or three days at most, even one day and one night, and the general direction of life is different. He is very filial. For his mother's sake, he wants to go back to his hometown or develop in the province. My goal is Shanghai outside the province. Maybe we will be apart in the future. Maybe we will be separated when he grows up, but no matter what happens in the future. I don't want to get the money I gave him back, but in fact, he doesn't accept my money, so I can only charge him the phone bill, because we have been talking on WeChat video, and I think it's also because I used so much traffic! We spent so little time together that I didn't even know what size clothes and shoes he wore, so I didn't give him a gift in this regard. He had no income when he was studying, and I didn't know it at that time. He would rather borrow money than buy me something, so when he is with him, he is basically paying for it. In fact, I have more savings than him, but he seems very disappointing. He has many ideas in his mind, but I can feel them. I won't force his decision, I believe he will grow up one day.