Sandwiched husband is sandwiched between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. How to make a zodiac?

"Sandwich" husbands refer to those men who are caught between their mother and wife and are in a dilemma.

Many mothers always nag after their sons get married, "Alas, when they are old, they can't get a wife, can't take care of their children, and forget their mother", which makes men feel ashamed. Therefore, they respect their mothers and are especially filial (sometimes even ignorant). In fact, they are not mentally weaned. They will only be obedient children in their mother's arms, but they will not be good husbands who care, love and protect their wives.

In fact, the true love of parents is to let their children spread their independent wings and welcome a new life as soon as possible. The sooner we part, the happier we will be. On the contrary, the more you refuse to be separated, the more trouble you will bring to your child and his family. Therefore, for those married men, it is imperative to solve these contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and treat their relationship with their mother rationally! So, how should a man with 12 constellation be a husband with a nutritious sandwich?

Goat: Take the initiative to wean yourself decisively.

Goat has always been a lively, cheerful and playful humorist. Of course, it is inevitable that he is willful and naive. Before marriage, they can coquetry with their mother and get all kinds of love and care. However, after marriage, if the goat still takes his mother as the benchmark, regardless of the feelings of the married person, it is likely to cause strong dissatisfaction from his wife, who thinks that the goat is just a naive boy and completely ignores his mother and wife.

Taurus male: Give your wife a little sweetness at the right time.

The honest Taurus man has been a good baby in the eyes of his parents since he was a child. After marriage, they will continue this fine traditional virtue and be respectful to their mother. Even if there are contradictions between their mothers and wives, most of them are towards their own mothers.

I always thought, after all, my wife and I are beginners. It is inevitable to make modest compromises several times, so Taurus will not care too much, but it may not be that his other half can stand it. Taurus male should get rid of the prejudice of "inherit the wind" as soon as possible and give his wife a little sweetness in due course.

Gemini: Never be a microphone.

Gemini men with changeable minds often have headaches because of trivial disputes between their mothers and wives after marriage. It's a dilemma to be partial to their mother and their wife.

In fact, communication is Gemini's strong point. Gemini men may wish to treat their emotions more rationally and stick to reason instead of being stingy with communication with their wives. In particular, you should keep your mouth shut. If mom and wife complain endlessly about each other in front of you, don't be a megaphone, lest things get worse.

Cancer man: I must be afraid of being labeled as unfilial by others.

As we all know, cancer men who love their families have a typical Oedipus complex, and their mothers play an extremely important role in their lives, so when their wives have conflicts with their mothers, most of the time they will be more inclined to their mothers' position.

Tell your wife something like "take a step back and broaden your horizons", try to make her restrain her excessive words or behaviors, then forbear her emotions and apologize to her mother. In fact, cancer men don't have to be afraid of being labeled as unfilial and lose the principle of being a man, only obeying their parents.

Lion Man: Don't yell at your wife.

Although the lion man himself is used to bullying and bullying, he never dares to offend his mother easily, let alone his lover. They will never allow the other half to be bolder than themselves and challenge the bottom line of their elders again and again.

If this happens, the grumpy lion man is likely to yell at his wife and ask her to do what she should do. Remind Lion Man that bossing his wife around in front of his mother or ordering her in a strong tone will seriously hurt his wife's self-esteem!

Virgo man: always consider the feelings of your wife.

A cautious and considerate virgin often worries about many things after marriage. On the one hand, they are worried that getting too close to their mother will make their wives jealous. On the other hand, they are worried that their deep love for their wives will lead their mothers to be jealous of their wives. Therefore, tangled virgins dare not show respect and care for their wives in front of their mothers.

I would like to remind virgins that filial piety is a matter of course, but it does not mean unconditional obedience. Even if you sacrifice your wife to accommodate your mother too much, you should always consider their feelings.

Libra Man: Lose the Immature Side

Libra men who like to relax and hate work are also embarrassed to be caught between their mother and wife. Libra, who loves to be indecisive, often tries to balance this relationship with the intermittent "war" between two women.

In fact, no matter how filial Libra men are to their mothers, they still have to leave them and live an independent life. Otherwise, you are not a real man and you are not responsible for your wife and children. Therefore, Libra men should get rid of their mother's arms in time, lose their immature side and become more rational.

Scorpio man: Take the initiative to help his wife integrate into the family.

Scorpio man is always used to suppressing his true thoughts. Perhaps they feel guilty and ashamed that they have never had the courage to escape from their mother's arms, but on the other hand, they are afraid that their escape will bring mental stress and heavy sense of loss to their mother. They don't have the heart to do this.

Therefore, Libra men tend to be "one-sided", which leads to his wife's disgust. It is suggested that Libra male should take the initiative to help his wife integrate into the family and deepen the intimate relationship between mother and wife, instead of helping his family reject his wife.

Sagittarius man: Be independent.

Sagittarius men after marriage often have many adverse reactions, such as being unable to stand the triviality of married life and not liking his wife asking about his whereabouts. At this time, they often turn to their mother and ask the experienced elder to help them.

Regarding your married life, if Sagittarius lets your mother get involved too much, it will not be conducive to the harmonious relationship between husband and wife. After all, she is with her wife after marriage, and her mother can't stay with her forever. It is suggested that Sagittarius should stick to his own opinions and not always hide under the protection of his mother.

Capricorn Man: Lose your male chauvinism.

Capricorn men who are not good at words often have male chauvinism in their hearts. When his mother finds fault with his wife in front of him, in order to calm his mother's anger, Capricorn will try his best to throw away his smiling face and please his mother, but he will agree and stand on the same front with his mother and complain whether it is wrong or not. Although Capricorn is not malicious subjectively, the woman is thin-skinned. It is suggested that Capricorn men abandon male chauvinism, strengthen communication between mother and wife, and eliminate each other's knots.

Aquarius man: I don't just compromise with my mother as an elder.

Aquarius men can always give full play to their sixth sense and judgment and deal with everything decisively and successfully, so they rarely put off family problems. When there is some unhappiness between mother and wife, Aquarius should get rid of the style of male chauvinism, hold a broad mind and a firm and rational attitude, forgive the wrong party, and try to minimize major problems and solve them peacefully, instead of just compromising with mother as an elder and then sacrificing some of his wife's vested interests to some extent.

Pisces man: I don't want to see my two favorite women become incompatible.

Pisces men are always idealistic. They naively think that they can live a happy and carefree life like a prince and princess by marrying their beloved, but it is not. After all, reality is reality, full of trivial and secular philistinism.

When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is almost rigid, Pisces men with fragile personality often show cowardly behavior of escaping or even compromising (compromising with their mothers for fear of being called unfilial). Pisces men should be smart enough to show weakness, and use such remarks as "I don't want to see my two favorite women become incompatible" to turn contradictory sides into friendship!