Does Aries like to play disappear?

Generally, if Aries male begins to play and disappear for the first time, you can basically prepare for breaking up, such as psychological construction and coping measures. If you come back and beg, don't promise, because it will hurt you twice. But be careful and try not to give him an excuse to be dumped by you. This is a very bad place for Aries. He will pretend to be dumped by you and then continue to lie to other women.

As for the excuses for playing disappear, there are generally the following:

1, busy at work;

2. Family members have something to do or get sick;

If you don't love him enough, he should be quiet.

4. Temporary business trip;

5. The mobile phone has no power/signal;

6. He went to play ball.

The way to disappear is usually to turn off the phone, QQ is offline, and SMS WeChat does not return or rarely returns.

Remember, don't believe any explanation he gives. Aries men are inseparable from the opposite sex. They can't stand being unloved and unloved. Sex is as important to them as air and food, and their tolerance for loneliness will not exceed three days. Once you have been left out for a long time, someone must take your place.

There is only one real reason for the disappearance of Yang Nan's plays. You have found a new "potential girlfriend" (also known as a booty call) or a new hook-up object, and you are making a preliminary run-in with this booty call. If you feel good and go well, you will probably become your predecessor. If he doesn't feel as good as you, or his progress fails, he will come back to you, as if he were only temporarily distracted. But before long, he will continue to look for new friends and new goals. Until one day, he finally found someone who could replace you and abandoned you.

Even if he comes back to you after a short leave, you should know that this sheep man knows very well that he doesn't want you, and it is only a matter of time before he leaves you. Just for practical reasons, it's not time to make it clear.

Moreover, after the spare tire is stable, the sheep man will generally not take the initiative to break up, but will only try to avoid you and try not to face your "mess". This practice is commonly known as "cold violence". Under normal circumstances, this cold violence in Aries will not last long, and it will force the other party to break up on their own initiative. -This is really an abominable situation. When his partner is suffering from cold violence from the sheep man, the sheep man is comfortably lying on the Simmons bed with his new hobby.

So many girls are surprised at this situation: he just broke up with the sheep man in his front foot, and the sheep man in his back foot fell in love with another woman like lightning, and even lived together directly ... Girl, in fact, he hooked up with this woman in the stage of cold violence, playing with you and even taking care of you. With such fame and fortune, on the one hand, Aries can call itself "breaking up" and continue to maintain the image of a good man, on the other hand, it can achieve the purpose of changing partners.

So, why does Aries care so much about his reputation when he is cheating? -because Aries has no faith, all actions are based on instinct, so there is no yardstick to measure his behavior, so he looks disdainful. In fact, they care about the evaluation and word-of-mouth of their relatives, friends and people around them, because word-of-mouth is also one of the resources that Aries needs to rely on in the scene. Mixed in the scene, the reputation is not good. An Aries man that the blogger talked about was very concerned about how to evaluate him after the blogger broke up, and he also talked about this issue many times in the interaction, and expressed concern that the blogger would evaluate him like his predecessor after the breakup (it's very sad here, just after the interaction, but Yang Man is figuring out what kind of evaluation I will give him after the breakup).

When the sheep man uses cold violence, you still chase him, so you will tear off his mask and say harshly. Well-meaning words are basically how dissatisfied you are, how bad you are to him, how bad your temper is, how sloppy your daily life is, and why he didn't love you long ago ... Please don't believe these. He just wants you to blame yourself for breaking up. Because he didn't say the real key to breaking up-he cheated. From this perspective, the sheep man is actually weak in his bones. This is also the common feature of love rat-shirking responsibility.

Never think that your long-term forbearance will affect each other, and don't think that when you break up, he doesn't agree because he can't bear to part with you and still loves you. People who belong to the sheep have nothing to give up, and they are not animals bound by feelings. In their eyes, only reality, matter and desire are real. The world is such a jungle. Their novelty to you has long since disappeared, and they don't want this dull feeling. The idea of bidding farewell to the old and welcoming the new has been brewing for a long time. But strangely, he didn't choose to leave you at once. Why? Because I haven't found a better successor than you, find a woman with a solid economic foundation and a bigger chest and a more beautiful face. They can definitely be nice to you when they are looking for a new home. When his spare tire is mature and ready to become regular, he will suddenly turn against you and kill you unexpectedly.

In addition, Aries is the most liar in 12 constellation. You think they have no brains, and lies are easily exposed, which means that what they think is unimportant has been exposed, and they don't care what you find. If he really wants to cheat you, he can let you live in the lies he weaves all your life. The more harmless the appearance, the more likely it is to hurt people.

The most terrible thing is that young Aries has no sense of morality in their feelings. They have filial piety in their hearts, abide by social norms and agree with the rules of the workplace game. Only emotionally, they have no morality at all. In other words, they basically don't feel guilty about betraying their feelings, and even secretly look for their sense of value from the degree of the other party's injury. They think it's natural to dump you since they don't love you. Sheep man's logic is like this: "At first, I just Doby you appropriately, so you can't hold back. You take the initiative to post it and let me x you. You want me to fuck you myself. I just accepted you naturally and didn't promise to marry you. It's boring now, and you're still haunting me. You are too ignorant to follow the rules of the game! "

Therefore, if you are still struggling when the sheep man dumps you, he will hate your guts and hate you from the heart. However, if he did not dump you, but you dumped him, he would be persistent. Typical double standards.

The following is a supplement based on questions from netizens:

1. Will Aries never make up with me again after it disappears? In most cases, after playing once or twice, he will still come back for you. When he comes back, he will give you a smooth excuse to pretend that nothing happened. This is actually Aries testing your acceptance bottom line and detection ability. On the other hand, he just wants to play with the object he met outside this time, or this object may be inferior to you in some ways, but he came back after weighing it.

But remember, once you start looking for a spare tire, you basically feel that you don't want this relationship anymore. It's only a matter of time to get rid of you, unless you are really good enough that he can't find anyone who can surpass you in all aspects, or he has a material/interest relationship with you (for example, your father is his big leader, for example, he has huge property in your name, and it is difficult for him to separate it, for example, you have enough evidence to send her to prison). They only give in to reality.

Sheep man is different from Scorpio man who also likes to cheat. Scorpio is more inclined to choose the old love between the new love and the old love, and even continue to bear various responsibilities for the old love. Aries has no sense of responsibility, and fresh stimulation is the biggest temptation.

2. Why do I love him like a demon? -Aries men are good at "brainwashing" their partners, that is, instilling and implanting values in a subtle way. The latest name is PUA. You will find that he often conveys a certain idea or way of thinking to you in a reproachful way. Every time he blames you, it is actually a small implementation of brainwashing you. Every time he makes a mistake, he can find the corresponding reason from you ... so that he can find and constantly reduce your acceptance of his actions. Every time you give in, he takes one more step. As long as a person has no moral bottom line, he will go on like this forever until he drives the other person crazy. As usual, he instilled all kinds of beneficial contents into you in a subtle way, making you start to believe that his story is not perfect. When you start to think independently again, you will find that his "ideas" are so ridiculous and vulnerable.

Therefore, if you don't have the ability of independent thinking and judgment, and you can't judge right and wrong calmly and detached, you will be easily played. Aries, on the other hand, has no sympathy for the object controlled by itself 100%. They only like the process of chasing and controlling. Once this process is completely completed, the accused object has nothing new, but looks like a burden.

Sheep man is actually not interested in obedient little girls, but only interested in sex appeal. He knew from the beginning that he would get rid of them after playing enough, but he would still go out because he couldn't find a better one for the time being, because he was afraid of loneliness, because he had sexual desire and because he needed someone to take care of him. Since you know that you will get rid of each other sooner or later, try to be nice to her when you are in contact. This is their only self-righteous sympathy.

In fact, what they really like is independent women with strong hearts. It's a pity that such a woman sees through the sheep man at a glance.

In addition, the basis for choosing marriage is not love, but practical interests. At worst, be a good wife and mother, even if you don't love this woman. -fall in love with the woman you like and marry the woman who is suitable for marriage. The former can only get my love, but not my promise, and the latter can only get my concern, but not my sincerity. This is the most realistic aspect of Aries.

3. Why are Aries men so passionate and energetic? Sexual desire is so strong? The former comes from constant self-hypnosis and self-suggestion This is actually related to some sense of inferiority in his heart. These inferiority feelings drive Aries men to become very social, understand the rules of the game in this world, and actively strive for a sense of security, so they prefer women with mature minds and calm hearts, so they can easily "fall in love" with Libra women. Of course, women's appearance is also one of the factors.

The latter (sex), not much to say, in fact, countless women should be very clear, Aries male is the most common kidney deficiency among peers, which is also the result of indulgence, even if you don't have a girlfriend, you have to fly every day. I know several friends who belong to the sheep family. They all started to feel weak at the age of 25 (technically speaking, they can't lift it firmly), but they have never reduced the number of piling because of this, and they enjoy taking all kinds of blue pills, such as Liuwei Dihuang. Fortunately, like Scorpio, they have the spirit and consciousness of service when they do things, but it only lasts for twenty minutes. When doing things, you'd better always remind yourself not to indulge in this sensory stimulation, knowing that he also serves others in this way, even more diligently. He may even have served another person two hours before serving you.

Again, Aries has no faith. They believe in the law of the jungle, the social law of survival of the fittest, and the objective reality that the strong is king. Such secularization means that there is no faith at all, no moral norms, especially emotional moral norms. They only know that when you are my woman, I need to be kind and considerate to you. This is that they abide by social norms, not necessarily the expression of love.

Without faith and moral standards, there will be a metaphysical sense of loss in the heart (not being developed in limbs and simple in mind, but feeling that I am less than others). Sheep men usually use "gentle feelings" to cover up and make up for it, showing that they are also people with "feelings". To this end, he will dress up as melancholy from time to time and send some incomprehensible words and elegant pictures in his circle of friends. I remember when I watched Guanyin Mountain with a sheep man (I hope he didn't read this article), he fell asleep all the time, but after the break, he sent a Weibo with a very literary poster picture in it. The blog post generally said that Guanyin Mountain reached his heart.

4. The last warmth is given to all the women who have been cheated and hurt by the sheep man: this is a kind of injury, but it is also a process that makes you know more about true love and enrich your life. Aries men let you know that love is actually not a strong offensive when you meet for the first time, not a lot of flowers, romantic love letters, flickering candlelight, and deliberately created as many dramatic touches as frequent urination. Just chasing women's guns and ammunition and controlling women's drugs.

After breaking up with Yang Nan, you may have a period of depression, regret and even want to turn back. As long as you survive, you will find that you are smart and can see through all this. You will understand that true love is restrained, a flowing stream, and will not lie to you. Is the one who is willing to accompany you silently and grow old together.

In the most struggling years, you should love someone who can give you motivation, not someone who can make you exhausted.