Libra and Cancer _ Libra and Cancer

Cancer Libra

Cancer and Libra form a square and a 4- 1 1 watery sun palace. Like all 4- 10 vibrations, their relationship is the most interesting and challenging of all constellations. But they are also the most difficult to live in harmony, which is why their relationship is interesting and challenging. Because only when they overcome countless differences between the two sides can they get a harmonious and coordinated return.

The relationship between Cancer and Libra is the whole content of their life, because their relationship forces them to learn how to compromise with each other. Only by mastering this basic course can we be happy. Compared with the victory of taking shortcuts, the degree of happiness is much higher, because these two constellations win this battle and understand each other, which is an invaluable goal. Of course, sometimes there will be conflicts between them, but time will smooth out rough edges and corners. If both sides make unremitting efforts, you will be satisfied in the end. You have successfully conquered yourself and the nature of the other side.

It is impossible for these two people to see the halo on each other's heads at once. They are more likely to see the imaginary crescent moon tip because they don't work hard. They succumb to human nature, and they are doomed to try to imitate angels. The first lesson that Cancer and Libra must learn is: Don't try to be understood by others, but try to understand others. They should both do this. This is the only key to open the mysterious door between two people, and the back of the door is full of peace and beauty.

Cancer people can feel many things that can't be expressed in words. They have an uneasy premonition of their growth process, which is full of joy and sadness and full of memories of the past. They can feel all this, but they won't say it because they are sentimental. When the periodic changes of the moon affect their mood, they will cry because of inexplicable fear, just like the waves can't get rid of the control of the moon and feel helpless. Sometimes, people in Cancer are silent and deep in thought. At other times, they will use their infectious sense of humor to free themselves from fear and, of course, make people around them happy.

Cancer and Libra are put together, and a beautiful picture will appear in an instant. Libra people like to laugh, but Cancer people's wonderful sense of humor is just to their taste. When they get along, whether at home or in the office, they will be full of joy and pleasure. This is because fate often puts the 4- 10 combination in a scene related to family and career. They seem to get along better with relatives or business partners in the family circle than with friends, lovers or partners.

In fact, although they are sometimes grumpy, the planets that rule them-the moon and Venus respectively-are compassionate. Therefore, Cancer and Libra have more common feelings than other 4- 10 intrauterine devices, and it is much easier for these two people to communicate through emotions than other more exposed ways. The problem is that it is not a simple matter to break the shell of Cancer to receive the true feelings of crab crab. He is always well protected from harm, and he needs more careful sympathy and comfort.

Libra people are generous and can comfort the feelings of cancer with a gentle attitude. Unfortunately, Libra's gentleness and tolerance are not enough, because cancer men or cancer women (or children) are extremely sensitive. Libra, as a symbol of Qi, is generous and logical, but it is difficult to feel the sensitivity of Cancer or anyone else. Libra is an outstanding lawyer and a wise judge, but to be fair, they are all poor psychologists without exception. Libra people never care whether there is another meaning hidden behind people's words, they only care about superficial things. This attitude will never get into the hard shell of cancer people. If Librans want to know why Cancer always swings from side to side, they must show deep sympathy to the people in Cancer.

The main difference between Libra and Cancer is that Libra is others-centered, while Cancer is self-centered. It sounds as if people in Cancer are more selfish than people in Libra. This should be true, because it is. Generally speaking, Libra cares more about friends and the world than herself. These people are easy-going and extroverted, while cancer people are naturally introverted-they know how to protect themselves best. It is true that many Cancer people are gentle, imaginative, sensitive and usually very likable. Even so, what they care about most is themselves.

Focusing only on yourself is an unhealthy emotional attitude, which often leads to a decline in health, so Cancer often gets sick. Libra's diseases are usually caused by dissolute lifestyle, overeating and overwork. This will cause a fuss among the cancer, and they will warn Libra that this lifestyle is like a candle burning at both ends.

People in these two constellations often have diametrically opposite attitudes towards money. Libra people are not extravagant and wasteful. In their view, money is not very important, but for cancer, financial security is as important as emotional security. Having only one of them and lacking the other will make cancer people feel depressed. If they have nothing to do with each other, it will be more terrible for them than losing their maternal love. But such sad things rarely happen. However, when cancer people have these two kinds of sense of security, they can magically become the kindest and gentlest people. Anyone, including Libra, will turn to them for help. Libra people often ask a lot of others, and they always expect everyone to show their personality without reservation.

Cancer people are in poor health and weak constitution, but their will to survive is much stronger than Libra people. When there is a problem on the deck of the ship, Libra people suffer from the possibility of sinking under psychological pressure and are in a bad mood because of disappointment. When the sky is out of balance, they may get seriously ill. Cancer's illness always lasts for a long time, but it is precisely because he is cautious about everything that he has a strong desire to survive. Cancer people will blindly hold on to the cabin and never let go to save his precious life. Sometimes, Libra will remind cancer people that it is better to let go and let nature take its course than to cling to the cabin. Let the giants give up their bad habits, wrong ideas and unfounded fears.

This invisible tug-of-war affects the balance of Libra's nervous system for a long time, which will cause their mental fatigue and eventually lead to Libra's unhappiness, not to mention suppressing their cheerful and optimistic nature. In nature, excessive water makes the air moist, while moderate water makes the air fresh.

Libra is wasting time trying to hide secrets from Cancer. Cancer people will do anything to spy on the secrets they want to know. He would ask, "Tell me frankly, what does so-and-so think of me?" Libra replied, "I don't know." Then cancer will say, "This is not fair. I have provided you with the information you need many times. How can you say that? " As a result, Libra becomes hesitant and then gives in with a sigh. He told cancer people everything they wanted to know, carefully linking good words with bad words. After hearing the answer he wants, the cancer person may say bitterly, "I think so, too." I'll never talk to that man again. " Then he will walk away in a rage. Libra has always wanted to be a person who creates a peaceful environment, but never expected to be an agitator, so she almost cried. Cancer people are extremely sensitive to a little criticism. They can subtly get people to tell the whole truth, and then they either feel hurt and cry or get angry.

The best way for Libra and Cancer to play harmonious music together is to constantly praise each other's advantages, even if they are diametrically opposite.

Once Cancer and Libra really learn to appreciate each other, they can produce amazing and wonderful results.

Cancer (female)-Libra (male)

Love can turn a sentimental and willful woman into a lovely, careful and gentle girl. If she happens to fall in love with a Libra man, then she will worry about him. For example, he works too hard; He is too tired to play; The food he eats is not nutritious; He drank too much wine; He didn't get enough rest; He always lets others take advantage of his kindness; He is too easy-going; If he runs in the rain, he will catch a cold; He can't always lose his umbrella, because it costs money to buy it, and so on. Cancer people are particularly concerned about these. On Libra's birthday, she may give him an electric blanket because she cares whether he is comfortable or not. In fact, it is a hint that if you sleep beside her in winter, it will be much warmer and more comfortable than an electric blanket.

Libra is an active sun sign, so he can rule her quickly. But he was ruled by the negative Venus, which enabled him to understand the changeable emotions brought by the moon. He can make her feel emotionally safe and willing to dedicate her loyalty, patience and love to him.

Their personalities and tempers are quite different. If he was a typical Libra, he wouldn't waste his time on premarital love. When a man under the rule of Venus is strongly attracted by a woman to do something, he will think about it in his mind, then find out all kinds of reasonable reasons for what he should do, and finally he decides; The only way to overcome temptation is to give in to temptation (this is the logic that Libra is driven by romance).

If he is a natural Libra, or if he has a good figure between their constellations, he will make a wise decision to marry this fragile and sensitive cancer girl. She cares so much about him, causing a stir in his heart (you can't accuse him of being unable to resist the temptation if you really think about it). If the figure formed between their constellations is a square or the opposite figure, he may make this wise decision for his inner call. However, it must be remembered that if they have the ability to turn disharmony into harmony, they will get a noble love, which is worthwhile.

If you say to Cancer and Libra, I bring you good news and bad news, do you want to hear the good news or the bad news first?

Libra: I want to hear good news first.

Cancer: Listen to the bad news first!

Their different answers to this question show that they will hold very different views on many things.

No constellation is as pessimistic as Cancer in nature, and no constellation is as cheerful and optimistic as Libra in nature.

When his optimism and her pessimism are poured out of the same teapot day after day (night after night), her influence on him will gradually make his optimism less blind and more wise, while his influence on her will gradually make her pessimism less depressed and more hopeful.

But in essence, optimism cannot be without blindness or wisdom, otherwise it cannot be called optimism. Similarly, pessimism can't be without depression, because depression is depression after all, which has nothing to do with its degree-of course, pessimism can't be full of hope, otherwise it can't be called pessimism.

You can't expect them to solve this problem by exchanging their inner personalities, because the pessimistic Cancer girl will be a person who lacks joy, while the completely optimistic Libra man lacks caution, which is even more unrealistic for her. Maybe it will help each other change a little. She may warn him that being too optimistic will cast a fog over reality, and this warning will make his unrealistic daydreams disappear. She also hopes his dream will come true, because she loves him. In return, he will tell her that excessive pessimism will make her lose a lot of happiness that two people can share unnecessarily. He hopes that she can avoid this tragedy because he loves her, too. The solution is to rely on the balance of Libra.

Emotionally, she is possessive, while he yearns for freedom. This seems to be an insoluble contradiction, but it is not as terrible as they think, as long as they really love each other. She is possessive not because she wants to control you, but because her childhood fears still haunt her. She is worried that the love you gave her is illusory. Will suddenly disappear one day, leaving her alone, she will lose love and protection. Of course, you can realize that when you disappear from her sight, this panic grows in her heart, because when she was a little girl, she was frightened by the lie that "what the eyes can't see won't stay in her heart". As for him, he doesn't yearn for freedom because he wants to leave you or fall in love with others. He was born under the air sign. When the air is kept indoors and cannot flow, it will not be fresh. When your lover disappears from sight, let the wrong lies go aside. You should be aware of the meaning of the sentence "Openness makes people open-minded". Only love is eternal. If he doesn't love you, you are really in danger of losing him when he disappears from your sight. Or, if he doesn't love you, you will lose him anyway. This should be a good thing for you, because you can let people who really love you come into your life. If he really loves you, he will miss you more when you are not together.

A Libra man who loves a cancer girl and understands her will invite her to go with him, even if he soon finds out that this is a boring trip, it is far less comfortable than going alone. People should remember that love must coexist forever. Often not being together, not enjoying the happiness of discovery together, is the enemy of happiness, so don't care about those outdated concepts in society.

If you see each other staying at home every time, how can you enjoy the joy of discovery together? Is it fun to find that the baby has a tooth or the house leaks rain? If he sincerely invites her to go with him, he will be surprised to find that he really needs her. If her inexplicable panic disappears, so will her possessiveness. She told him that she didn't want to go with him because she had a lot of things to do and she had to go home as soon as possible. Then he may wonder why she didn't accept his invitation. If these two people want to learn to advance, they must learn to retreat. Lovers always make each other unpredictable.

Their sex life may be as beautiful as a gift from an angel at the beginning, but the ending may make them feel empty. If we want to prevent this tragedy, we should take preventive measures from the beginning. Her seemingly endless suspicion may make him feel powerless, and this idea will really make him powerless in life. She is full of fantasies about emotion and romance. If he lacks enough insight into her needs, he will make her hide in her crab shell and seek emotional protection, which will inevitably lead to her indifference to sex life. If they can respect each other, their sex life will be gentle, and this intimate relationship will let them see each other in their eyes and get to know each other. If they can find a new side of each other every time, it will bring peace and happiness to their lives.

For men and women who love each other, their sex is like a song full of unspeakable expectations. Unlike other couples, cancer women and Libra men will use poetry as the language of love. Typical Cancer women under the moon and Libra men under Venus never feel embarrassed when expressing their feelings in this way. Sometimes, music can also make them deepen their feelings during sex.

Libra men and Cancer women are very sentimental, have wonderful imagination, and both believe in dreams. She has a sense of humor, but he has a charming smile. Both of them are under the control of fickle emotions, but they are both gentle and careful. They know very well that when climbing the steep mountain of happiness, they always have to make self-sacrifice. But what is certain is that the scenery they saw on the mountain is absolutely unparalleled.

Cancer (male)-Libra (female)

Libra girls are charming and likable. When they appear, it's like ringing a sweet bell. Most girls in Cancer and Virgo also have bells ringing around them, but the sound of bells is very weak. Libra's bell is deeper. This sound is part of Venus music. You can imagine that it can make a sentimental and sensitive heart restless, and it can arouse the understanding of cancer men under the rule of the moon.

Besides giving him wonderful experiences, Libra girls fascinate him like angels. Venus always gives its children a striking image. If not, at least its children may be lucky. She was born with these two wishes from Venus. If so, it is hard for people in Cancer to resist her temptation, be attracted by her beautiful face, be moved by her bright smile, and hear those songs at the same time. All these can stir up waves bigger than the moon in the heart of Cancer Man.

Cancer has a wonderful sense of humor, so the first thing he touched her after they met was to tell her an interesting story. She can laugh, not just a smile, but a smile that can make a fairyland appear. Her laughter is not only sweet, but also like a symphony. At the same time, she appreciates his humor.

Before long, he found that she was not only beautiful, charming and full of mystery, but also a very clever girl. She can compete with him in chess, guessing and other games. She has the ability to be an amazing and creative partner in all his trading business. The fools he often deals with never laugh at his jokes. They always have to be told dozens of times to finish a simple job. Of course, she is much smarter than them.

When he was fascinated by her, she fell in love with him. As a very likable girl, she has met many men before, but they all bored her to tears. They are insensitive, rude and demanding. They never ask her for career and work advice, because in their eyes, she is "just a woman", so how can she understand these things? This often makes Libra girls very angry. Gender equality is very important to them. She doesn't have to March (although she is very capable), but for Libra, equality is equality and fairness is fairness.

Cancer man's eyes sparkle with wisdom and humor. Their manners are so gentle, and he is so sensitive. This is the man who fascinates her. He made her feel that she really needed her, and somehow she always felt safe with him, as if she would never let those ugly things break their peace. He is not conservative, which makes her feel protected and happy. He can understand that her balance always swings from loneliness to happiness and from happiness to disgust, because he is also sentimental. Because of this, he can sympathize with her mood changes. Most importantly, his calmness and patience attract Libra who pursues peace and tranquility.

Why not get married? She may think about it first. He may hesitate. Maybe his mother doesn't like her very much, or maybe he is not sure whether she can replace his mother as the person who loves him the most. Perhaps, he will consider that he should focus on his work and career before he can have enough financial strength to support his wife and family. Cancer men always take a look before they leave, and they are seldom in a hurry to do anything (for cancer women, they expect to feel safe emotionally and financially, so marriage is an ideal answer. However, before considering marriage, Cancer Man likes to extend his love time to seek emotional security, and the sense of responsibility after marriage makes him very worried. It doesn't matter whether he loves her or not. Of course he loves her, but ...

Her first reaction to the indecision and retreat of Cancer Man may be to show indifference to his caress-or pretend to be interested in other men, so as to torture him, make him jealous, and be afraid of losing her-or simply refuse his sex. She wants to convince him that "marriage may bring some pain." But being single is not fun. "If the graphics between their constellations are well coordinated, her strategy may work. Otherwise, her words will only make him lose his temper or shrink back into the crab shell. She is aware of his mood changes, but she has never found this side of him before. His changeable mood bothered her, though she tried not to show it. Then, she used her Venus charm-gentle voice and charming smile-to deal with him, hoping to overcome his changeable emotions with this combination of logic and luck. But as a sensitive cancer, he can realize what she has done and may be more cautious. His mother once told him that safety is far smarter than misfortune. In this cruel world, cleverness is far more useful than gentleness. So he always works hard in the direction of safety, wisdom and talent. Now this beautiful and intelligent woman is trying to make him careless, impulsive and free. This confuses him and makes him angry easily.

He is privately dissatisfied with her extravagant nature, and she is not happy that he doubts her pure friendship with others for no reason (it is a little unfair to him if she deliberately wants to arouse his suspicion). She will tell him that he has bound her mind and won't answer his phone. But she misses him and needs him, so she wants to test him again in this way … again and again. He was a little scared when they quarreled. Because after their separation, the happy atmosphere and happy life formed by her optimism will still haunt him. This is especially like his simple and sweet life as a child. Will you have such a good time with others? He is afraid that this kind of thing will not happen again. In fact, he thought it was certain. The enemy of their love is his personal desire. He doesn't want to reveal his feelings and thoughts to her directly and openly. If he can express it directly and openly, she may be able to help him discover the benefits of doing so. However, he likes to let her guess his thoughts. It's never easy to make cancer as honest as Libra.

When they make love, they will whisper to each other, "Let's follow our feelings and don't think about anything." Their sexual closeness will temporarily keep their troubles away. When the cancer man is controlled by emotions and feelings, he is his true self and will not be bound by fear and worry. As a lover, because his feelings are like a deep pool, he can bring her peace and satisfaction. Sometimes, when they make love, she feels like a leaf floating on a clear stream. Her tenderness and imagination have the same soothing effect on him and help them become a whole. He will feel at ease. Let love fill his whole body and mind and they will be filled with joy. He cherishes these moments when she makes him feel special. But passion comes and goes, and then there are problems in their relationship.

As a difficult 4- 10 heavenly palace, their conflicts and tensions, their deadlock with time and their different positions are not easy to solve. But if he tries to make their differences similar with Cancer's caution-if she cares about him with Libra's justice and more sympathy, instead of just caring about herself, then they may try again. Maybe this time, they can write a wonderful poem and sing a touching song together. It is a difficult process for Cancer and Libra to compromise with each other, but his desire to listen to hymns at sunrise on Easter will make him make new efforts-she also needs to be loved by a man who loves her and respects her, and this man can hold her in his arms and tell her how beautiful she is quietly. When he left her, he sometimes felt her head still resting on his shoulder in his dreams ... Last night, he must have heard her voice, but her tone was very sad. He heard her gently say to him, "honey, you still have a lot to learn ... people think you'd better not study, because learning always brings pain to people." I can't bear to see you get hurt again. That's why I have to leave you. " When he woke up, his eyes were full of tears, because she was so real in her dream that he seemed to hear the unforgettable music.

The moon endows people with extraordinary memories, and their memories are vivid and clear, just like photos taken. If Cancer and Libra are patient and need each other, they can make up. If they don't have enough patience with each other, even if their relationship ends, memories of the past will still haunt him. Then he regretted not saying a few words to her when she approached. So when he is alone, these words are on his mind, hoping to hear his heart no matter where she is.