My sister is very disobedient. How can I teach her a lesson to make her listen?

Children's disobedience is often manifested in shouting, rolling and throwing things. Because children are mentally unsound and don't know how to deal with their emotions, they have to express them in the most primitive way. First, the first teacher in their life should pay attention to guiding children and managing their emotions.

For example, one day, the baby was building his favorite Lego bricks, because the house was accidentally knocked over before it was finished. His mood suddenly broke out, throwing the building block on the ground and shouting: I don't like it, the building block is not obedient.

I went over and squatted beside him, holding his hand and saying, are you losing your temper? Why? He was very wronged, saying that his house had collapsed and the building blocks were villains. I held him in my lap and told him slowly: He was sad when the house fell, and you were sad, but we can take a deep breath and let go of our anger. (Help children identify emotions) But it's no use losing your temper. You need to help him finish the house. Let's use our brains together and see what needs to be done. Children will have their own thinking ability when exploring the world, and they will learn how to adapt to the environment and how to communicate with others. In this process, there will be many behaviors that adults think are "disobedient".

The reason why children are required to listen to themselves is because I am doing it for your own good. I'm more experienced than you, and I'm right. In China, it is contradictory that parents want their children to be obedient and independent. An obedient child will not have an opinion, because he voluntarily gives up the right to think.