A happy marriage arranged by parents?

I don't think a marriage arranged by parents will be happy, because this situation is actually an arranged marriage of the older generation, which will have many disadvantages.

1, the two sides don't understand each other, the personality differences are unpredictable, and it is inevitable that they will want to seek excitement after marriage, and the running-in time will be long.

2, contrary to the wishes of both parties, deprived of marital autonomy, leading to emotional crisis!

3. Being deprived of the freedom of marriage. Ruined the happiness of two people.

4. Many arranged marriages are against children's wishes!

If the arranged marriage is unhappy, it will easily lead to the affection between children and parents!

6. Married parties can't enjoy the sweetness of love, and the people that parents like are not necessarily what we like, which is easy to cause forced marriage.

If you or people around you have this kind of marriage arranged by parents, I think you should try to avoid:

1, tell your parents first.

It may also be that parents have good intentions and feel that the objective conditions are suitable, and the starting point is good, but the way is wrong. You should talk it over with your parents, and maybe they will let go of this obsession.

2. Be firm with parents who can't be reasonable.

I'm talking about parents who want something, or just getting married in business, which makes their children happy. Some people will feel helpless because of family factors, but if you listen to your parents' arrangements like this, will your future life really be happy? So, say no, and your parents will understand one day.

3. Look at the arrangement.

If you happen to have no suitable partner, and the marriage partner introduced by your parents meets your criteria in all aspects, the key point is that both of them have a good first impression and are single, then you can also consider it, because both parents want their children to be happy, but sometimes the expression is different from ours.

If there are congenial people, it depends on your lover's emotional intelligence.

If your parents know that you have the right person and arrange it for you, that is, what aspect of your lover may not enter your parents' eyes, it depends on how your lover moves your parents.

If your parents can't talk, talk to each other's family.

If you meet "uncompromising" parents, talk to the other family, dress up as a little sister, go to see the other family, make the other family feel disgusted with you, and even the person who wants to marry you shakes his head again and again, then the arranged marriage will naturally be solved for you!