Why did life coach Le Jia finally become a monk?

Arrogance is the quicksand of success. Abby. Inferiority tends to magnify failure, while conceit tends to exaggerate success. Le Jia, a former life mentor, finally became a monk, which illustrates this point well.

Le Jia became famous in If You Are the One and lost his reputation in Super Speaker. Le Jia's journey just shows that he is an inferiority complex and arrogant person at heart.

The first step in life: lecturer 1975 was born in Le Jia, Ningbo. Graduated from technical secondary school and started working at the age of 16. During this period, he came into contact with all walks of life. It can be said that he 19 years old was the first step in his life. In the process of interacting with people, he found himself eloquent and good at analyzing women's psychology. When you do what you are good at, things are always smooth and your grades are soaring. The company sent him to Shanghai as a sales training lecturer.

The next year, when he was 20 years old, he won the favor of Bai with his eloquence. They got married in a flash, or they got married as children.

However, Le Jia was humiliated by this inappropriate marriage, so he later made a statement in If You Are the One that marriage should be appropriate.

Is this sense of humiliation despised by the strong side of the right person, or is Le Jia's own sense of inferiority at work?

The second stage of life: the humiliation of Speaker Le Jia became a driving force for Le Jia. I have been teaching continuously since 1995, and I have also studied drama. From 1999, he studied BBA (Bachelor of Business Administration) at Armstrong University.

A secondary school student becomes a sales lecturer and then a speaker through his own efforts, and a secondary school graduate gets a bachelor's degree from a foreign university through his own efforts. The two are like a virtuous circle, which makes Le Jia famous in the field of speech.

Le Jia once said after "If You Are the One" became famous that he needed a bachelor's degree as a stepping stone to become an orator, and he realized that his abilities needed to be packaged before they could be tapped infinitely.

200 1 Le Jia, the founder of FBA personality color psychology, founded FBA personality color psychology, which divided people's personality into four types: red, yellow, blue and green. Each color has its own personality characteristics, analyze the advantages and disadvantages of personality.

At the same time, Le Jia's second marriage began. He didn't keep this marriage either. He has a red personality. In a high-pressure working environment, he was extremely hot-tempered and abused his wife.

Le Jia claimed to be a psychologist, studying people's psychology and knowing his own personality characteristics, but he couldn't control his temper. Can he cure himself?

The highlight of life is the revision of 20 10 "If You Are the One", which needs an emotional commentator. At this time, Le Jia officially joined the dating program. Le Jia and Murphy teamed up, and the ratings of If You Are the One rose steadily. Murphy's humorous and wise host and Le Jia's direct and sharp comments give people a sense of analyzing people in place and seeing through emotional problems, which is quite entertaining.

In a word, the three years in If You Are the One is Le Jia's gilded three years, and he also let more people know what color psychology is.

20 1 1, the counterfeiter Fang Weibo bombarded the academic qualifications and called it psychological plagiarism. Academic problems have their own academic conclusions. It is interesting that Le Jia's response:

First, "People who graduated from TV University, Commercial University, Correspondence University and Night University are arrogant and have always been looked down upon by others", so he doesn't mention his academic qualifications, which shows that he cares very much whether he is respected by others.

Second, "I don't need a college background to be a stepping stone now", that is, Le Jia feels that he is already very powerful.

This is reminiscent of a six-year-old child. He played the role of the Monkey King in The Journey to the West, and later boasted that "there is only one the Monkey King in the hearts of a thousand audiences" and called himself an international superstar.

The beginning of arrogance is the beginning of falling from the altar.

20 13 "Super Speaker" life tutor, Le Jia left "If You Are the One" to become the host of many other programs, and he became a gold medal host. And served as the mentor of Super Speaker three times, just like the life mentor of many players.

As a life coach, his reputation once declined so that no one dared to use him in the end.

He was open and quiet, and after the program was broadcast, he staged a drama of reconciliation with peace; He and Venus exchanged views and called each other little eunuchs. He even ignored the obstruction of the director and other guests in the program, and drank a bottle of high-alcohol liquor in public and got as drunk as a fiddler.

That program is like this: Zhiping Cui, a player of the Le Jia team, is disabled, and Loki encourages Zhiping Cui to express himself boldly and win by relying on his own language.

Later, Zhiping Cui was eliminated, and Le Jia didn't like it. I cann't believe he called names. The other three mentors, Lu Yu and Jinxing, tried to mediate Wendu Tao, but they were all scolded by him.

When Le Jia woke up, he wanted to make amends, not because he thought he had done something wrong, but because he was afraid that he had no job to do.

Since then, Le Jia has been banned and can't see him on TV anymore.

Le Jia committed suicide, is it really the fault of murder and drunkenness?

Once his sharp words brought him endless fame, and later he was ruined by his hurtful mouth; Once he knew that he needed a diploma as a stepping stone, but after success, he gradually drifted away; For the effect of the program, he could cooperate with Morphy for a time, but in Super Speaker, he acted willfully.

After becoming a monk in Le Jia, in order to make a living, Shang Yan, who despises himself, will also attend. Later, he exposed himself on his social platform wearing a monk's costume to sweep the floor. I don't know if his becoming a monk is a stunt or if he really wants to join the Buddhist practice.

Conclusion Le Jia is now in his forties. He abandoned his wife and children and became a monk. If he hadn't inflated himself in front of fame and fortune, he probably wouldn't have come this far.